I'm 21, a university student. I am very studious, I am always reading and I have a High CGPA to my name, I also have high expectations for my future after graduation. But the urges distract me terribly, I want To stop masturbating, and do the right things with my body.

I believe there is time for everything and sex is best postponed till I'm older. Please help, I do not want to ruin my life.

1. Be empathetic towards people.
2. Masturbate the urge away. Nothing wrong with this.
3. Form platonic relationships with men and women that want sex.
4. Wait till after school, say it to him and be firm.
5. Be patient

aside your study, get yourself busy with other social activities. delete all the adult contents on your phone and try not to be thinking about anything that will bring strong sexual feeling.

culf:
aside your study, get yourself busy with other social activities. delete all the adult contents on your phone and try not to be thinking about anything that will bring strong sexual feeling.

thanks

E no easy. But try to keep the right company and focus on keeping the best grades. Try and stop the masterbating by your actions, thoughts and what you see

culf:
aside your study, get yourself busy with other social activities. delete all the adult contents on your phone and try not to be thinking about anything that will bring strong sexual feeling.

you nailed it sir.

I think this might help you. https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

Durentt:
I'm 21, a university student. I am very studious, I am always reading and I have a High CGPA to my name, I also have high expectations for my future after graduation. But the urges distract me terribly, I want To stop masturbating, and do the right things with my body.

I believe there is time for everything and sex is best postponed till I'm older. Please help, I do not want to ruin my life.

You need spiritual xenophobic attacks agains strange spirits dwelling inside of your body...that is making you masturbate...dis friday is OPM coconut nite,you are invited:venue is OPM headquarters port harcourt.

Stopping masturbation is never easy if you are already addicted to it, but following this steps am about to list will help you IF YOU ARE READY TO HELP YOURSELF..
1 go out and meet with new people (especially strangers)
2 never try to be lonely again
3 delete all the nudes on your phone.
4 find happiness within yourself

5 write down how you want your life to be and be resitting it three to five times daily ( example: I am successful, I am intelligent, I am bold, I don't masturbate, I am happy, I don't watch porn etc...). This will clear all the negative thoughts within your subconscious mind.

donbachi:
You need spiritual xenophobic attacks agains strange spirits dwelling inside of your body...that is making you masturbate...dis friday is OPM coconut nite,you are invited:venue is OPM headquarters port harcourt.

Which one is coconut there again

faithfull18:
Which one is coconut there again

just buy ur coconut when coming

durent call me, i will tell what to do OK 08037728124

The best solution to this problem is Jesus. It may sound funny to some but I know what I am talking about. U can't fight ADDICTION with physical strength or wisdom. Sin (ADDICTION) is not a character or attitude, it's a SPIRIT (that may equally sound funny). When it's in u, u must yield to its demands whether you like it or not because it's stronger than ur human body.
The best step to take in fighting addiction or sin is constant hearing of the word of God, fervent prayers, studying of the word of God and Evangelism. If you give yourself to these, that which u call urge will gradually leave and till a day will come, u will look for it, u will not see it.

No need searching Google for solutions. Search the scripture and give ur life totally to Jesus, He will give you the power to overcome (John 1:12).

07062532028

Being in your shoes before and the best advise which every one might run from telling you is GET YOURSELF bleeped!!!!! you obviously don't have a girlfriend to give you sex and with time it could lead to you being shy to approach a lady for intimacy, sometimes being broke in school can deflate your ego, but, I would advise you lower ur chase class, take your mind off someone you like but know would cost to move with and think of someone that would be lighter for you to bury your shaft in. Sex can do wonders to your brain bro and masturbation can become a psychological nightmare that would hunt you for years . You are within the right age bracket for high sex drive. Don't visit a prostitute, get a girl, seriously work on it. That's the bitter truth. All those giving you transparent glass advises, ask them if it ever worked for them?

Have you heard of the myth behind cornflakes?
It probably time to test that theory out.

Durentt:
I'm 21, a university student. I am very studious, I am always reading and I have a High CGPA to my name, I also have high expectations for my future after graduation. But the urges distract me terribly, I want To stop masturbating, and do the right things with my body.

I believe there is time for everything and sex is best postponed till I'm older. Please help, I do not want to ruin my life.

My guy, na high testosterone dey worry you. When sexual arousal come try do strenuous exercise, you go calm down. Nothing is wrong with masturbation if it is done in moderation because your mind go clear, you go think straight, if you see woman wey no be your own her toto no go hungry you rape am. Try lift weight, do exercise, your stature and stamina go improve. You go like the new you

Durentt:
I'm 21, a university student. I am very studious, I am always reading and I have a High CGPA to my name, I also have high expectations for my future after graduation. But the urges distract me terribly, I want To stop masturbating, and do the right things with my body.

I believe there is time for everything and sex is best postponed till I'm older. Please help, I do not want to ruin my life.

The best way to stop mastutbation is to stop watching porn. Do it for one week. The spirit will leave

To stop masturbating, you need a girlfriend.

Get a serious student girlfriend... You guys could even be serious study partners.

You want to stop masturbating. Don't listen to those advising you to get a girlfriend. It won't help. All you need to do is...................























Cut that third leg of yours off. Permanent fix.

culf:
aside your study, get yourself busy with other social activities. delete all the adult contents on your phone and try not to be thinking about anything that will bring strong sexual feeling.

The guy is still very young with raging hormones. Even if he doesn't harbor adult contents in his phone, he will still be exposed to triggers on campus or on the streets with the way ladies dress these days.

My advice for him will be to reduce the rate at which he masturbates and should never nurse the idea of having a girlfriend for now if he really wants to graduate with good grade.

Telling him to quit will be a daunting task & if he doesn't masturbate, his body will find another way of getting rid of excess sperm through "wet dreams"

Finish with a very good grade and you can start thinking of getting into a serious relationship & settle down.

cc: Durentt

Stopping addiction is near to impossible as your brain has already adjusted to always demand for this act just like a dog gets used to knowing that by 8am food is ready.

Forget those telling you it's spiritual, there's nothing spiritual about it.

Your best bet to stopping masturbation isn't deleting adult contents on your phone.

To stop masturbating, your brain needs to adjust to thinking like a normal human and honestly it'll take time. I say you need not mastubate for at least 120days.

First, you must give the brain an alternative to be able to stop masturbating because if there isn't any alternative believe me you'll never stop.

You need a partner who you can have sex with once in a while. Note: don't go for a prostitute she won't give you quality time except sex anytime you see her which will keep you in the mastubation bondage.

So the solution,

1. Get a decent girl, spend quality time together.
2. Stop staying alone, loneliness is the main cause of addiction.
3. when the urge comes, go workout or do something else that drains energy from.
4. Meet more friends.

Believe me, to stop masturbating you need to stop your brain from thinking about sex and the only way to do that is to give your something else to think of.

faithfull18:

Which one is coconut there again

Morning , pls, can I send you pm

Go get laid, in fact bleed as much as you can.

Only then, will you realize that it is all much ado about nothing and that puni is highly overrated.

By forcing yourself as you are doing, you are only giving strength to the urge to make you feel that, you are missing something very valuable; but once you give it a go your urge will quickly realize that, that currency call puni is not worth the paper it is printed on and that, it is a waste of time, resource and strength...This will make the urge to readjust and refocus on the things that matters aka your studies.

Hhenryy:


The guy is still very young with raging hormones. Even if he doesn't harbor adult contents in his phone, he will still be exposed to triggers on campus or on the streets with the way ladies dress these days.

My advice for him will be to reduce the rate at which he masturbates and should never nurse the idea of having a girlfriend for now if he really wants to graduate with good grade.

Telling him to quit will be a daunting task & if he doesn't masturbate, his body will find another way of getting rid of excess sperm through "wet dreams"

Finish with a very good grade and you can start thinking of getting into a serious relationship & settle down.

cc: Durentt

So people who have girlfriends or engage in sex don't finish with good grades? Off-course Thinking.

gideonvalor98:

Morning , pls, can I send you pm

Why do you want to send a pm

When the urge comes, get busy with something
Try to be in the midst of people. Avoid reading sexual contents (like sexuality section in nairaland). If you watch x-rated movies and photos try to stop it.
It's not going to be easy but you just got to try. Wishing you all the best
Finally if you are a Christian pray about it. Nothing is impossible with God

Rukkydelta:
When the urge comes, get busy with something
Try to be in the midst of people. Avoid reading sexual contents (like sexuality section in nairaland). If you watch x-rated movies and photos try to stop it.
It's not going to be easy but you just got to try. Wishing you all the best
Finally if you are a Christian pray about it. Nothing is impossible with God

Crap! Nothing can be done with the way ladies dress like hoes?

faithfull18:

Why do you want to send a pm

So you don't know how to reject politely? when you get older and guys start playing with your time you will say all men are scum.

skultrick:
Stopping addiction is near to impossible as your brain has already adjusted to always demand for this act just like a dog gets used to knowing that by 8am food is ready.

Forget those telling you it's spiritual, there's nothing spiritual about it.

Your best bet to stopping masturbation isn't deleting adult contents on your phone.

To stop masturbating, your brain needs to adjust to thinking like a normal human and honestly it'll take time. I say you need not mastubate for at least 120days.

First, you must give the brain an alternative to be able to stop masturbating because if there isn't any alternative believe me you'll never stop.

You need a partner who you can have sex with once in a while. Note: don't go for a prostitute she won't give you quality time except sex anytime you see her which will keep you in the mastubation bondage.

So the solution,

1. Get a decent girl, spend quality time together.
2. Stop staying alone, loneliness is the main cause of addiction.
3. when the urge comes, go workout or do something else that drains energy from.
4. Meet more friends.

Believe me, to stop masturbating you need to stop your brain from thinking about sex and the only way to do that is to give your something else to think of.

Number 2 and 3 may work the rest craps! Most guys are like that now majorly because women now dress like hoes to everywhere. How can you stop thinking of something staring directly at you? you can try but will fail.

donbachi:
You need spiritual xenophobic attacks agains strange spirits dwelling inside of your body...that is making you masturbate...dis friday is OPM coconut nite,you are invited:venue is OPM headquarters port harcourt.

Lol, i had a nice time laughing

DAVIDMOE:
Stopping masturbation is never easy if you are already addicted to it, but following this steps am about to list will help you IF YOU ARE READY TO HELP YOURSELF..
1 go out and meet with new people (especially strangers)
2 never try to be lonely again
3 delete all the nudes on your phone.
4 find happiness within yourself

5 write down how you want your life to be and be resitting it three to five times daily ( example: I am successful, I am intelligent, I am bold, I don't masturbate, I am happy, I don't watch porn etc...). This will clear all the negative thoughts within your subconscious mind.

This is the strongest point!!