i need help on how to tackle this issue


My friend have being experiencing sexual advances especially from married men. She is pretty,easy going and heavily endownwed i think thats why men try to run a pass on her.
Due to the nature of her work she deals with alot of men especially married people.

The height of it all was when she called me weeping on the phone that a customer whom she was suppose to deliver something to tried kissing her.

note she doesn't deliver work packages, but because of the good friendship she has with this said person she accepted, only for him to make such a bold move.

His not the only one to have made such sexual advances, but she has managed to keep them at bay.But recently, the advances have increased,many of them are even promising her financial help.But the pressure is getting to her now she can no longer do her job properly and she is in a relationship


how do i help her??
pardon my grammatical error

She should get married or quit the job. At the meantime she should stop being emotionally available for the customers or colleagues.

I like Kate Henshaw very very well, but I couldnt jump and start kissing her when she walk pass me at the airport even when we waved and smiled at each other.

She's just a liar... She enjoys every bit of it

Believe me, customer related sexual advance(I don't wanna use abuse) only affect weak ladies. If your friend is a no nonsense lady, no man will dare make silly pass on her except a situation where her job is on the line like bankers and their high profile deposit customers.

Tell your friend to be decisive and professional in her job.

Tell her to dress properly..

Haven't you heard, if a lady goes out & she doesn't get admirers she should check herself. There is nothing wrong when she is been wooed. As long as it doesn't extend to unapproved physical touch. Else she should humbly resign.

Your girlfriend you mean.

Anyway, this the world we live in where women are meant to be chased, I won't be chasing a guy since am not gay.

As for your girlfriend, the probability is 9/10 that she'll eventually get laid, that's if she hasn't already.

1. Your best bet is, she finds another job that limits too personal interaction with the male folks.

2. You put a ring on that finger. Although, that won't stop her from being sexually harassed, afterall married women get bleeped too. But it'll reduce the frequency significantly.

Just have it at the back of your mind, women will be chased, and the probability is very high that your wife, girlfriend will get bleeped.

So also are the male folks, we're just a downward 1/3 of the world population, who will then oil the engine of the billions of women who make up about 2/3 of the world's population.

Man must be shared, if you choose not to share, others will share, so that peace can rain in the world.

The reality is in front of you.

Mind your business this is 2019

J111333:
Believe me, customer related sexual advance(I don't wanna use abuse) only affect weak ladies. If your friend is a no nonsense lady, no man will dare make sure silly pass on her except a situation where her job is on the line like bankers and their high profile deposit customers.

Tell your friend to be decisive and professional in her job.

Why not ask her job first na?

In a nutshell, men prey on (weak) women.

So, how do we handle these men, knowing there would always be randy men and "weak" women.

She should stop dressing like a hoe( sexual provocative dresses)

Click Like if you are tired of all these rants from ladies claiming they are sexually harrassed @ their work place.

And men should plz stop giving them too much attention biko

Some days back, a lady created a thread stating she is sexually harassed at work could they be the same person ?

Reminds me of one day at a bush bar in Warri , I was with a couple of friends waiting for this my other friend named Tega, a guy just rushed in and said “Oboy you see wetin soldiers dey do one guy for gate?, them dey mend am with slap”. Me and my friends were laughing

10 minutes later my friend Tega arrived saying “Oboy you know wetin soldiers do me for gate just now?”

tell her stop wearing mini skirt to work

Hmmmmm....... This Life Sha! And I want to believe that there's someone, somewhere, waiting, looking for someone to even say hi to her but not sexually harassed though!

Tell her to be strong,

The way you dress is how you are address... Make she de de wear provocative dresses and opening teeth upandan.


Nothing de sweet me like a lady that knows her worth

She is just blowing her opportunities to blow.

E b lyk say she like poverty!


Ladies get rich quickly by taking advantage of the lust of men.


I think your friend need tutorials from girls in Lekki Phase 1.

A ladies p^ssy is her ladder to greatness not her brain. She better be smart and cash in.

You are lieing the said girl is either your girlfriend or your sexmate.you can't just come here and fool us.NONSENSE

brodalikeme:
She should get married or quit the job. At the meantime she should stop being emotionally available for the customers or colleagues.

I like Kate Henshaw very very well, but I couldnt jump and start kissing her when she walk pass me at the airport even when we waved and smiled at each other.

Hahaha u funy die

note she doesn't deliver work packages, but because of the good friendship she has with this said person she accepted, only for him to make such a bold move.

Nonsense!

If she can report to a "reasonable" superior, she should else, she can leave the organisation...

Jokerman:
She's just a liar... She enjoys every bit of it

Nigerians will always be Nigerians, what the hell of a comment

This isn’t worthy of all the drama. She had better be grateful she isn’t ugly. Now she should learn to carry herself with grace, avoid certain conversation, free gifts and unnecessary favors to men.

Na waoo....Wetin dey happen??......

On the other thread, A husband impregnated the Niece of his wife..

Report it

A clear case of beauty wey miss road.
Your friend is highly blessed and endowed. Her only problem is she does not know how to use her blessings.

Remind her of the parable of the servant who buried his "one" talent and warn her not to be like one, for, the master will soon come and she will give account of all she has been able to achieve with all that beauty.

Teach her how to take advantage of men with ragging hormones. They are not the problem.
She has no problem. She just doesn't know how to manage her many blessings.

Tell your Friend to report the case

quit the job. 90% of married men have sexual relations with their junior colleagues. i experienced same in a bank. the contract staff used to give in freely to the managers. nonsense

apexJ:
i need help on how to tackle this issue


My friend have being experiencing sexual advances especially from married men. She is pretty,easy going and heavily endownwed i think thats why men try to run a pass on her.
Due to the nature of her work she deals with alot of men especially married people.

The height of it all was when she called me weeping on the phone that a customer whom she was suppose to deliver something to tried kissing her.

note she doesn't deliver work packages, but because of the good friendship she has with this said person she accepted, only for him to make such a bold move.

His not the only one to have made such sexual advances, but she has managed to keep them at bay.But recently, the advances have increased,many of them are even promising her financial help.But the pressure is getting to her now she can no longer do her job properly and she is in a relationship


how do i help her??
pardon my grammatical error

She should stop being docile. A little bit of harshness on those predators will put things in the right place.

The only way I think you can help her is to tell her to stop wearing provocative dresses, but shey she go hear because na provocative dresses be the only kind dress wey dey