gabriel4u:

It is certain that if not all, but 70% of we NL Guys/gurls must have pass through a regretful stage in life
with particular to relationship issue.I've once pass through too(3years back) when a my xgurl (toyin)
dump me for another guy.It was so painful, but there was nothing i could do, although she's still coming
back to plead.
And my word of advice to all is don't introduce love, but if the relationship is real Love most surely come around.

No knowledge is lost, please share/drop your experience and advice here!

gabriel4u:

@Ms Potato, 9ise one jare!
more,

Ms. Potato:

Ive never had an ex because this is my first and present bf whom I known for 7 years but we dated for 3 years. Anyways, five major things /factors to keep my relationship going

1) It takes two hands to clap. If one hand is clapping, just forget about the relationship and move on

2) Trust each other and eliminate doubts. If you have doubts, bring it straight to the table and be honest about each other and close the case after the discussion.

3) Always support your partner no matter what happens and always be there for him / her

4) Always take care of yourself for yourself and your partner. Take care of your skin, make sure u smell nice for him or her, make sure you keep fit and eat right. Its for your own benefit at the same time its an additional factor to please your partner.

5) Always make your relaitonhip interesting! and dont be sooo predictable all the time! Like try out kinky stuffs or organize sumthin nice for him or her

Thats what I learned from this relationship and I realize the longer we are together, the more our love grows.

REALITY101:

Sweet

Rocktation:

Well poster, i've one for you. Please people never never never ever date anybody based on pity. Such relationtionships choke you for real. Dated some guy that i'm not even sure now whether i even had the normal human feelings for, just because everyone said that he oozed love for me from a 10 mile radius. This was kinda true because he really did adore me and realllly showed it and then i gave us a chance. But mennn, i know i did him more harm than good cos i didn't try at all to help make anything work and everything was lopsided. I'm not ecstatic to say now that i might have succeeded in creating yet another damaged man, that must really hate women out there somewhere.

Rocktation:

I dare not even go near him. I'm not so sure that he doesn't walk around with a knife these days anyway.

Rocktation:

I hope so too, Gabry.