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Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by namun(f): 11:46pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
laides,if your husband asks you to quit your job and become housewives, wanting you to abandon your career that you have been building without any tangible reasons and considering the economic situation would you do it |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by amievivian(f): 11:52pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
for what why wld i do that n for no congent reason that is insane and inconsiderate of him too |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by myndofgold(f): 11:54pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
I will laugh him to a divorce, |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by MrCrackles(m): 11:54pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
i definitely wont be marrying a woman who would rather sit at home and claim to be a housewife!! |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by ifyalways(f): 12:02am On Nov 04, 2008 |
myndofgold: I wud ask him to sit back at home and take an odd job "husbandry" Seriously,hes got to give me cogent and solid reasons and if i ever must do sumtin like this sef,it wud be 100% of my OWN accord,not sweet talked or forced into doing it. |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by TOYOSI20(f): 2:25am On Nov 04, 2008 |
Hummmmm. . . . .I'm wondering what his reason would be. . . . . . . |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by Akinagirl(f): 2:31am On Nov 04, 2008 |
He would need to have a very good reason for that. I couldn't do though, I cant sit at home all day being "housewifey." not contributing, doesn't click well with me. |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by Morenike3(f): 3:17am On Nov 04, 2008 |
tangible or intangible reason, No. |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by iice(f): 9:37am On Nov 04, 2008 |
Hehehehe, if he wants to suffer, then sure i go make my career housewifery There has to be a good reason why he would suggest it ooo |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by Nobody: 5:42pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
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Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by sistawoman: 5:50pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
I would not do it. My husband would understand that i am not housewife material and asking me to quit and stay at home is an insult. |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by tope2000(f): 5:53pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
There has to be a very STRONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG REASON/S AS TO WHY. |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by BabyJinx: 6:00pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by Nobody: 6:28pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
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Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by plusQueen: 6:30pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
Thank God my husband will never do that |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by rubi(f): 6:31pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
namun:Remember Idle work is devils workshop |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by Nobody: 8:00pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
The word housewife makes me cringe. @ topic This is an issue I have to discuss with my husband before I get married so that he can't from the blue wake up one morning to tell me I should quit my job. Even if he does, he would definitely know my answer which is NO. |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by MrCrackles(m): 8:03pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
tope2000: finish your statement naw naw |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by spikedcylinder: 8:32pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
Why would I not do it? Where else would I get the time to concoct the juju that would turn him to mugu? |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by victorian(f): 9:11pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
Hello ladies, what if your husband agrees while you were dating that ok, you can keep your job when you guyz eventually marry but after marriage and a baby comes in,then he puts his foot down that you have to quit your job or else, its big trouble , infact he will rake one day and threathen that he might send you to your parents if you are not ready for the motherly responsibilties in a marriage, what will you do? ( and mind you, he does not want a nanny)So what will you do? Quit your job OR accept your husband's bluff that he might want a separation, then go ahead with your job? Dicey right? , |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by whatever90(f): 9:17pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
i and i repeat wil not be a housewife if he does not want me to work in coperate offices or in the hospital,then let him start up a business for me,and employ workers,i can as well have enough time for my child ,himself and me |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by tope2000(f): 9:18pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
MrCrackles: heheheh . . . . maybe if i was been sexually harassed at work |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by Angeleyz(f): 9:19pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
@topic i will gladly give it all up. provided he is a billionnaire and i want for absolutely nothing |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by MrCrackles(m): 9:21pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
tope2000: by Brash's run-along-the trouser-dingo |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by sistawoman: 10:04pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
My husband would never demand such of me. If so then i really dont know what i would do. |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by A40(m): 10:15pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
What kind of man still does that in the 21st Century? This ain't medieval times i want to marry an asset not a liability ooh what happens if God Forbid something happens to me and i am unable to take care of the home how would my wife and kids survive?She has to work ooh if she earns more than me self no problem but she still has to give me that respect as her husband |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by NaijaWifey(f): 10:16pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
@whatever90 : I agree with you 100% , either let me get a paycheck or give one! Either way one is coming to me with my name on it. |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by victorian(f): 10:24pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
@ whatever90, you honestly believe he would want to open a business with workers’ filled for you, abi? When his main agenda is to make you stay puT at home . He will simply tell you that to open a business that befits his beautiful wife, it need substantial amount of capital to arrange it to your taste? C’mon think of our savings for Christ sake, do you want me to run bankrupt, just try and understand, stay at home and train our kid for 2years, after that i would have saved enough to conveniently open your buisness for you . @ Angeleyz, unless he is a billionaire O!, if not? He would still want you to stay home and care for ‘our’ first child’, so he/she will be a well brought up child. @ Sistawoman, that’s a typical reaction/ thoughts of an independent wife who will begin to wonder why is this man trying to complicate our lives, @ A-40, men like that still exist, very welllllllll, |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by whatever90(f): 10:31pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
victorian:d day he will threaten my stay in his house,will be d day i will leave d house for him,wat nonsense,im i in a cage?im i supposed to be controlled?im not a feminist but at d same time ,my tots should be considered nothing is going to change my mind,I'm not stupidly married a business woman wt workers,will have enough time to face her family and kids seriously don't u know that an idle mind . . . . . . . . . . . . what wil she be doing everyday?sleep,wakeup,cook,eat,same activities for 2 good years? if he wont open up a business for me because of no finance then let him allow me continue working so if i want to buy pants,pads,chewing gum,biscuit,sweet ,kuli-kuli,i will go to him and ask him for money?for 2 years?sorry but i call that stupidity I'm not going to be any house wife,just because one man told me to |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by Nobody: 10:33pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
victorian: *Naija man and puerile threats with naija wife that'll condone crap**hisses* Send you back to your parents? It looks as if someone would be moving into my own house to avoid such statements in future. |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by tope2000(f): 10:36pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
whatever90: Lol . . . . .but i agree though An Idle mind is devils workshop |
Re: Your Husband Wants You To Quit Yuor Job And Take A New Carear-housewifery! by sistawoman: 10:45pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
I guess i will never really understand a man or a woman for that manner that flips the script after marriage or after they have the person 'hooked'. To be totally honest when thinking about this question my first thought was, knowing who I am I told my hubby from jump street that I am a bring home the bacon pay someone else to fry it up type of woman. I would rather cut my eyes out with a spoon than be a housewife. Then I thought I love this man so much and so deeply would i really change who i am at my core to make him happy? And real talk, I dont know the answer to that question; all i know is the thought of not having him scares me. Does that mean that I am lost in this marriage that i have become one of those desperate, will save my marriage for anything women? No I dont think that means that, i think it just means that maybe my negotiable and non-negotiable have shifted a little bit. This thread has really given me some food for thought. |
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