deoyel25:

Hello all,
This is not happening to me but a very close friend. He met this girl four months ago. According to him, the girl has everything he desires in a woman. To cut the long story short, she is a wife material. But there is this BIG ISSUE. Our wife is still looking for University admission at 24. Actually, she was at a University like 2 years ago but she had a serious problem with her academics and she was sent packing. My friend is claiming he is madly in love with her but he doesn't think he can wait for the whole admission process. At the same time, he doesn't want to marry a dropout. What should he do? Make the guy waka or wetin? I be alarina. Lol.

CyberG:

LOL @ alarina. . .

rokiatu:

Slap him on my behave and tell him to stop complaining.

Mr~Cork:

deoyel25  , bro can she read & right

Creamish:

your friend is madly confused . . tell him to weigh d advantages of being wit her against the disadvantages . .he shuld stick wit whichever weighs more.

nikkykay:

If your friend is in love with her he can wait.That will even help him to plan and have enough savings for the future with the girl.
I have someone very close to me, she wrote jamb till she was like 26 and got admission when she was 27.She is now in her final year in unilag (econimics ) she is in 2:1.
Guess wot, she has a lovely guy is waiting to marry her come this new yr even be4 she finishes her study.They guy has been begging but she said he shld just wait till she is in her second semester.
So your friend shld just chill and help the girl to get admission first.
I hope she is a girl that will keep her self and not loose it when she gets admission.
But let me believe it that she is a wife material like u said.

deoyel25:

Wow!! Really motivating,

iice:

Is something with seeking university admission at that age?
Seeking is the operative word or am i missing something?
Anyway, he can always marry another graduate who may end up not having the qualities he likes about this girl

onstelly:

If your friend really love this girl as he claim then her not been is school is not really a problem, lots of girls that are married stil goes to school though is not easy but nothing good good comes easy. My eldest sis got married in her first yr but today she is a lawyer, so is all about been determined.

SA Lady:

@Poster please tell very close friend to move on, his love for this poor girl will forever be attached to some condition or another. He is either incapable of uncoditional love or he's just too blind to see a good thing standing right before him.

deoyel25:

Everything is wrong my dear mod. At that age, a Nigerian girl should have completed her NYSC (all things being equal). You know say wife material scarce small. Lol. Thats why the poor boy is kinda confused.
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I concur. Thx for that piece.
According to him, he really loves the girl. He is just having a re-think. His challenge is the waiting. You know its not easy for a married woman to study at bachelors level. Its easier at Masters level, you know.

Thanks y'all for contributing meaningfully to this thread. I will send him the link to the thread so that he can read everything here with his koro koro eyes. I'm a good alarina.

deoyel25:

Everything is wrong my dear mod. At that age, a Nigerian girl should have completed her NYSC (all things being equal). You know say wife material scarce small. Lol. Thats why the poor boy is kinda confused.

Ujujoan:

People lay too much emphasis on irrelevant things!

ds700:


Pls expatiate, i want to learn.

Ujujoan:

You said it yourself (or your friends did), that she's a 'wife material' . . .

I assume by this you meant she had a good personality and character and will be able to keep a home.

And then you are talking about her educational status . . how is that important?