kunleweb:
Secrets like I went to a prophet to find husband he told me to EFF my pants and stand stark naked so he'll bath me. He didn't do it o. He just bath me and right after you came along Johnnyspute

Magnoliaa:


lol. This is soo wrong! Why should one be seeking 'diabolical' spiritual help just to find a husband?

kunleweb:


Just bored my dear. Wanted to crack a funny joke. Ladies do all sorts, even way beyond this. I used to move round town till 2-3am ish. Given up on all ladies o.

Magnoliaa:


Then they have no business being in a relationship. Especially one in which the other party is ignorant of how the r/ship came to be.

But have you dated any of such Ladies?Why give up on women?

kunleweb:


Well. Let's say ive been behind the scenes with too many females and my heart has become cold to women generally as a result. Imagine such a scenario. I wanted to call a foreign client back before the whole e-recharging thingey, so I decided to jump into a neighborhood chilling spit as the only area operating biz @ past 11. Guez what I saw your sisters doing oh. Over 300 good looking churchy ladies were trading in an area with not more than 30 guys coming to patronize their goods

Anyways that's that

After having great expectations with ladies messing up, ive come to the conclusion that loving is for weak persons. Loving is a media propaganda orchestrated and loyal people don't exist. Again seeing what ladies do back stage makes me lose all hope. I've been opportuned to sex ladies that . How do I put it. Loyalty is dead. Loving is placing one's heart in another person's hands. This makes loving even harder. Selfish ambitions, self centeredness has killed relationships

Our mother of Zion in the Lord Henitan24 is here. Mummy


By the way, not all secrets should be shared with your other while the relationship is in its growing stage.

Magnoliaa:

Nobody is my sister, please.
Lol.

But that's just those ladies now. You cannot judge every woman in the world based on their actions.


Why do say loving is a propaganda orchestrated by the media?


That's true @last statement. I agree. There should be some level of trust and openness achieved first.

kunleweb:



Denying your sisters. Okay o

I was so shocked seeing 300 ladies that I had to run fast home call my hommies to come see

Anyways, for we men, loving implies giving up pur personal spaces, information, private lives and co.

And its difficult creating space for someone to fill this void giving the selfish,self-centered actions that have become the new norm these days. Loyalty is gone down the drain. And loving without loyalty isn't loving dear.

I personally wouldn't want any lady to tell me stuff when I'm unready to hear them. Even the heart of men is filled with blood

BotafogoJunior:
Kunleweb and magnoliaa,pls you guys should continue these i am so so interested!!

BotafogoJunior:
After having great expectations with ladies messing up, ive come to the conclusion that loving is for weak persons. Loving is a media propaganda orchestrated and loyal people don't exist. Again seeing what ladies do back stage makes me lose all hope. I've been opportuned to sex ladies that . How do I put it. Loyalty is dead. Loving is placing one's heart in another person's hands. This makes loving even harder. Selfish ambitions, self centeredness has killed relationships.
What kunleweb wrote above sums up the problem and solution to the so called love these days,we all need loyalty and not just nonsense love.....loyalty like i am gangster is what i practise everyday of my life even in religion loyalty is needed but i see the female sex of these modern era are too weak to be loyal to their partners instead they owe loyalty to the highest bidder of their love ,which further establishes the fact that life is economics afterall.

Modernist:
There's no love only interest, and when that's gone it's unto the next interest.

BotafogoJunior:

What kunleweb wrote above sums up the problem and solution to the so called love these days,we all need loyalty and not just nonsense love.....

loyalty like i am gangster is what i practise everyday of my life even in religion loyalty is needed but i see the female sex of these modern era are too weak to be loyal to their partners instead they owe loyalty to the highest bidder of their love ,which further establishes the fact that life is economics afterall.

Modernist:
[b]There's no love only interest,[/b]and when that's gone it's unto the next interest.

Guest007:
I don't keep secrets.

Wow . I feel this is both good and not-so-good. Good as in you're very open, expressing your thoughts, free. But you don't tell really personal or sensitive matters, especially ones friends kept with you to others?

I'm an open book... I'm learning not to share everything slowly

Magnoliaa:


Wow . I feel this is both good and not-so-good. Good as in you're very open, expressing your thoughts, free. But you don't tell really personal or sensitive matters, especially ones friends kept with you to others?



hmm. Nice.

Magnoliaa:


Oh. I tried to grasp this for a moment. I thought you mean 'love-only' interest. Like an interest based on love. So, you do think then that one shouldn't tell everything to their partner or 'current interest?'

Guest007:


I'm vault for others but my own I can't keep

It's good and bad because I'm the type of fool who'll tell her man every idiot that toast me that day and we could laugh about it but I think this is unhealthy because what if he feels way? But then he loves my honesty but I can overdo it

Magnoliaa:


Well it's not a bad thing really, especially in relationships. You don't share others' secrets, so that's great

And as for your honesty, I think it's one important 'adhesive' in a relationship. It's the person you're in with that matters. It's not foolish to me.

desvi:
friends or family members share their secrets with me
I will keep them to myself

Guest007:


I don't know, I was chatting to my sister about this last night (I was honest and told one of my nephew that I didn't remember his son's name...
And she was shocked that I did that. )
she's the opposite of me, she'd play it out and extract her answers without asking... She's conservative and some what secretive.

I admire her but I think in sharing we help others around us. She finds me somehow, like... erm... ghetto

she sees it as a 'class' thing...I don't know

kunleweb:
Secrets like I went to a prophet to find husband he told me to EFF my pants and stand stark naked so he'll bath me. He didn't do it o. He just bath me and right after you came along Johnnyspute

Lamanii22:



Lmao.... Shii like this happens a lot...

Magnoliaa:


Wow. You're blunt that way? Lmao. That happens to me too. I forget names and very minute things about people, but it's usually because I'm not so interested about the info.

Sometimes I tell them I don't remember, and sometime I just go about it the way your sister do.

I like that you don't pretend about such. It's the intent that matters to me. As long as you aren't being inconsiderate.



Yes. Sharing for the benefit of others. Because some 'deliberately' share to cause problem or bad-mouth.

Finding you ghetto as in you being too wild or not giving a damn about people, rules, etc??



Or like you don't conform?

themaestro08:
Let them know everything about you unless if its something that has to do with your family or a very dark secret that disclosing it may probably ruin the relationship.

Honesty and trust are one of pillars of a healthy relationship.