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Communication

190:

sex strengthens a long distance relationship!!

mediatrix8:

CONSTANT Communication( No communication,No relation)

TRUST( Trust begets Trust)

LOYALTY

I am also in a distant relationship right now but the things I mentioned above are our keys to strengthen our Love

Evagreenfields:

hope it works wel 4 u,all the best o.

mediatrix8:

Thank you! We are trying.My baby,Is in Nigeria,I am in China, time difference,cost of calls,and so on are just barriers but I hope we can make it.Just like now,He is rushing back home from church bcz he knows I am waiting for him on line.A day without talking means a lot, though it's hard but we are keeping our fingers crossed

remark D:

just lost mine.wish this thread had come up long before now

Shy-One:

COMMUNICATION (CONSTANT)

Honesty - not lying and if lying - being forthright in clearing it up right away
Trust - trusting each other to be honest and loyal
Loyalty - being loyal to each other in voice and deed
Money - he sends it to me and I send it to him
Sex - phone, internet, email, chat

A long distance relationship should be identical to a relationship in person as much as possible

If he and I pay bills in each others presence - then it is also expected long distance
If he and I buy gifts for each other when we are together - the same is to be expected long distance
If he can whisper sex in my ear in person - we can do it online and/on phone

etc,

long distance definitely can work if both parties are committed to making it work

love is a beautiful thing

bwemind:

we can call it a table top with three legs where are Communication, Love And Trust but the truth still remains in most cases when the heart grows lonely due to this distance. It looks for an alternative especially being a GUY.