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How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend by ty4real123: 3:42pm On Nov 03, 2019
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you met a beautiful girl and got along with her incredibly well, just to find out she already had a boyfriend? Well, let’s face it: attractive girls are usually already taken. This means that you have competition right from the very beginning.

Don’t worry just yet, though. Believe it or not, you can learn how to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend and still hook up with her in the end. So, are you ready to learn how to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend? Then let’s begin!

1 Connect with her on an intensely emotional level:

The real key to attracting a girl who already has a boyfriend would be to simply use a lot of emotions. There is no chance in hell for you to rationalize with a girl and convince her to leave her boyfriend to be with you – remember that. So, what you have to do instead is use the right emotions to make her feel happy whenever she is around you. Once she realizes how much happier she is in your presence compared to when she is with her boyfriend, she will start wondering why she is with the guy she is currently with in the first place.

2 Let her comparison shop:

If you want to learn how to win a girls heart who has a boyfriend subtly, you have to get the girl to talk to you about her current relationship.
Once you do this, she is sure to mention some of her boyfriend’s shortcomings. When this happens, try to make yourself look better by capitalizing on those shortcomings. Remember: nobody is flawless. Every girl has been lied to by a boyfriend or has felt neglected in a relationship at one point or another. For example, the boyfriend could either be overbearing / dominant or a pushover. So, bring her current relationship problems to the fore and try to show her that you would treat her much better. Once you establish this, show some examples of similar situations and times where you treated a girl right. She is sure to fall in love with you in no time.

3 Amplify her boyfriend’s weaknesses even more:

Although you already capitalized on her boyfriend’s shortcomings, try to amplify his weaknesses even more by asking her what her perfect guy would be like. Although these are sneaky ways to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend, they actually work. See, once a girl realizes how many shortcomings and weaknesses her boyfriend has, she will start to compare him to the ideal guy that she has in her head. Her boyfriend will definitely look flawed in comparison and will end up in a very disadvantaged position (he might even get friend-zoned!). Ultimately, the key here would be to simply bypass her switches of guilt in the end, so that she won’t feel bad leaving her boyfriend for you.

4 Become an alpha male:

If you want to learn how to get a girl who has a boyfriend and actually succeed in the end, you have to become a real alpha male and really be able to attract girls, in general. All girls are attracted to confident guys with high social status – remember that. This is because they feel safe in their presence and like it when guys make up their own minds about things. So, in order to amp up your levels of attractiveness and win over the girl with the boyfriend with ease, you have to become a real alpha male first.


5 Psyche yourself up for the kill:

During this step, you will have to look at yourself and ask yourself why you want to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend to begin with. You will also have to ask yourself how to get her to like you and why she should leave her current boyfriend for you. Basically, you have to get down to the very bottom of these questions and forget all of the things that you hate about yourself for a moment. Convince yourself that you are worth it and convince yourself that she is worth it and you are sure to succeed in learning how to get a girl that has a boyfriend and actually get her in the end.

6 Get her to leave her boyfriend:

Once you have properly psyched yourself up for the kill while learning how to win a girls heart who has a boyfriend, you can actually go in for the kill and try to get her to leave her boyfriend. To do this, just cozy up to her and ask her exactly what she wants out of a relationship. Then, ask her to compare her dream relationship with the relationship that she has right now. She will then realize that she is currently with a loser who simply doesn’t measure up to what she really wants out of a relationship. That is when you can swoop in, escalate physically, seduce her and completely win her over from the loser she is currently dating.
So there have it: the easiest ways on how to seduce a girl who already has a boyfriend. Essentially, the most powerful method would still be to use her emotions and take control of it, though, so make sure you use her emotions while following all of the steps mentioned above. Don’t forget to ensure that she doesn’t feel guilty about leaving her boyfriend, either.
Re: How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend by Sankabson(m): 3:45pm On Nov 03, 2019
Lool! That is how you people don’t live long.. You wanna derive happiness in ruining someone else.. All in the name of what exactly ??


People like You. deserves to be shot in close range..

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Re: How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend by Sheuns(m): 3:50pm On Nov 03, 2019
Just get your own na. Fish plenty for sea.

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Re: How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend by xperienced(m): 4:09pm On Nov 03, 2019
So the other ladies without a boyfriend who are you leaving them for?.

Me and Bae had issues last month.

She started engaging with different guys and was like dey are just my friends.

Man started having female friends too.

No be only her sabi get friends.

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Re: How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend by Powersurge: 4:34pm On Nov 03, 2019
Now I see why some people die young. There over 3.7 billion females in the world, you want me to go through all this stress to win one?...taken one for that matter. Plus that, I don't even know if we will be compatible. "all things are lawful, but not all things are expedient".

If you have to expend too much energy to gain someone, it's not worth it. Cos most times, when you finally gain the person, you will realize that it didn't worth it.

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Re: How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend by Lamanii22(f): 9:46pm On Nov 03, 2019
Why not leave the poor girl alone... Since she's got a boyfriend already...

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Re: How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend by Offpoint: 9:49pm On Nov 03, 2019
Pathetic
Re: How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend by pedroiyke: 9:51pm On Nov 03, 2019
Na trouble u dey find
Re: How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend by Gettreadyy(m): 11:25pm On Nov 03, 2019
All you need to do as a guy is to tell that girl you like her not only as a friend and make your move. don't even act like she has a boyfriend, if you are a smooth talker and not a nice guy she's gonna let you eat her pvssy.

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Re: How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend by UrVillagePpl: 11:58pm On Nov 03, 2019
plenty talk abeg. just shower her with plenty of money.

i mean money as breakfast, lunch, and Dinner,
trust me after this shes all urz

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Re: How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 12:01am On Nov 04, 2019
she will make u a side boyfriend..except u dont mind being a sideboyfriend cheesy.maybe u will be the one carrying her bag and burning your fuel in ur car to carry her about town.u will end up as her personal driver just cos u want to snatch gwenfwend lipsrsealed
Re: How To Attract A Girl Who Already Has A Boyfriend by MasterShifu010(m): 3:03pm On Nov 04, 2019
Op..na preach u dey preach,just have a nice house and a not so exotic car and some careless cash....before u say jack-robinson she Don gree......na me go go true all those ritual just to get woman ?...ma die na!!!!!!

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