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My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by tellonos(m): 3:08pm On Nov 05, 2019
Sandra met Tunde in her year one at the University. They fell in love and started dating almost immediately. Tunde was two years ahead of Sandra. Their love story was the talk on the lips of everyone on campus. They were regarded as the best couple on campus. Their relationship waxed even stronger as the years went by.

Four years later, Tunde was done with school and the mandatory National Youth Service. He got a scholarship that would see him travel to the UK for his masters. He discussed this with Sandra and reassured her that not even the distance could come between their love for each other. They agreed to keep in touch and vowed to wait for each other. This was in 2014.

Sometime in 2016, Tunde and Sandra lost contact. No calls. No text. His known communication channels had become unreachable. This had put Sandra in some sort of dilemma. She waited for two years, there was no hope in sight. Her friends and family members wanted her to move on with her life. She refused and waiting for two years... hoping Tunde would show up. No way.

Fast forward to 2019. Sandra got married to Dipo sometime in June 2019, after ten months of courtship. They met in the church. Sandra is an usher while Dipo works in the church as the Head of the Choir/Music Department. Dipo is on the payroll of the church. 80% of their wedding expense was taken care of by the church. They even got a well-furnished rented as a gift from the church.



The two-bedroom flat apartment had one year already paid for. Meaning, they have to continue paying three hundred and fifty thousand naira at the expiration of current rent. Sandra had to intensify her search for work. Dipo was not earning enough and Sandra was still jobless at the time.

Sandra got called up for an interview with an oil servicing firm. In her first meeting with the recruitment agency, she was assessed for the role of a Customer Service Officer, which was a much lower rank. The first stage was successful. Her resume was cleared and forwarded to the employer's HR team for further assessment. She was offered the job, a bigger role as an Executive Assistant to the Managing Director. What a leap! She was placed on N800k/month ($2,200/month) salary with other juicy incentives amounting to N300k/month ($830/month). She was very happy. She can't wait to pick up Job Appointment Letter and resume work.

Now her offer letter was ready, but she has to meet with the managing director first. She will be working directly with the MD. Sandra was scheduled to meet with the MD at 12pm. She was already at the office at 9 am. She was not ready to take any chances, especially with the kind of traffic gridlock in Lagos. At about 12:05 pm, Sandra was invited into the MD's office for a final chat and behold... the MD is Tunde.

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Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by donbachi(m): 3:20pm On Nov 05, 2019
Sandra.....leave dat mata oo,e no dey hard e hard...ex boyfriend...everything no be money...ur marital happiness first...unless u want to frustrate him out of marriage.cos hbp already loading.

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Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by healthserve(m): 3:22pm On Nov 05, 2019
Wonder the kind of minds that create these dodgy stories.

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Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by Ahmed0336(m): 3:39pm On Nov 05, 2019
He is only trying to protect his legit property grin

But madam, what if this case is the other way round. Your husband's ex and him working in same place what ll your reaction be like? undecided

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Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by DonBenny77(m): 3:43pm On Nov 05, 2019
Ahmed0336:
He is only trying to protect his legit property grin

But madam, what if this case is the other way round. Your husband's ex and him working in same place what ll your reaction be like? undecided
Don't mind her

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Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by Nobody: 3:44pm On Nov 05, 2019
"Do you know brother Okafor? I mean the lawyer"

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Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by Kobicove(m): 3:49pm On Nov 05, 2019
Would you accept it if your husband's ex is his secretary? undecided

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Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by Korllami007: 3:50pm On Nov 05, 2019
Forget it. There is 95% assurance that they will f*ck each other and the remaining 5% is still in doubt.

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Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by sagaxity(m): 6:30pm On Nov 05, 2019
Food or no food, money or no money, the properties already acquired must be protected.


Life is really unfair

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Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by paix(m): 6:48pm On Nov 05, 2019
Can't she seek for transfer away from Tunde; even if it's going to be change of department?
Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by flokii: 7:00pm On Nov 05, 2019
Story doesn't add up.. so Tunde became MD of an oil seevicing firm in the space of how many years? 2yrs after masters.

Tell us something else please
Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by YorubaPrince: 8:52pm On Nov 05, 2019
angry
Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by Nobody: 2:04am On Nov 06, 2019
Of course thats the right thing to do... smiley
Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by tellonos(m): 4:55pm On Nov 07, 2019
Nah
Kobicove:
Would you accept it if your husband's ex is his secretary? undecided
Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by Tajbol4splend(m): 5:24pm On Nov 07, 2019
No how no how, one day go one day, you will sleep with each other, at first you will tell him you are married and you will be reluctant to do it but later you will see things differently and tell yourself that he kuku won't know and after this one, I will stop it but when you start doing it, it's going to become the norm and you will cheat on your husband and stop giving him attention and he's going to act in ways people who don't know what you are doing will castigate him and your home will be ruining gradually. Let me warn you, that boss is going to fvck you, unless you don't work for him, he's going to do it, kosogbon e.
Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by BlackfireX: 5:25pm On Nov 07, 2019
Once fu.cked can always be fu.cked......
Re: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job Because My Ex Is My Boss - Woman Cries Out by LOWLIFER: 5:35pm On Nov 07, 2019
Yes you should. He is clever and street smart too

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