BlackPantherCri:


She's not a lesbian. She's bisexual.

We have a very few lesbians in naija. Most girls are bisexual. They enjoy the best of both worlds

sweetonugbu:
No case, be accommodating, invite the woman and give her a room in your house, it's a win win situation for you.

sweetonugbu:
No case, be accommodating, invite the woman and give her a room in your house, it's a win win situation for you.

chigoizie7:


Comprehension is so hard lately. My asking who does that means, who gives such advices?


How do you explain your husband cheating on you with another man? I mean, he should have done it with another woman.


The wife has been a lesbian tey tey. She married him just to cover up. If she was never a lesbian, she would have been cheating on him with another man, not a fellow woman. Some of you say lesbianism and being gay is in born. For that, I guess she has been hiding her true sexuality, a closet lesbian that only married a man to cover her face.


If he has been cold on her or treating her bad, she would be cheating with a man and not a woman if she was never a lesbian.

Estellie:
Oga you are the one who can't comprehend here...

divabolanle:
Chei

so you prefer if it a man



man you be fool ooo!!!

chigoizie7:


Which ever way, my point is that she fancied another woman.

Some are saying that it is the guys fault. That is where I am concerned about.

Josh44s:
See that foolish woman saying nonsense like “Bros amend your ways, find out what you did to irritate her” Thunder kill u there! Why do most women reason so foolishly to support evil when their fellow women commit adultery. Africa women are getting worst these days than their white counterparts.

There was a sarcasm you totally missed out.

They only played reverse psychology.

Those statements are usually made when a woman finds out her man was cheating, "please endure, God hates divorce, stay because of the children, go to your knees in prayer, go and watch war room, work on your marriage, try to please him, you are not doing your job well in the marriage, blah blah blah".

Now that a man is at the receiving end, they are using the same words to mock him and use him to catch trips. It is just sarcasm not that they were offering genuine advise

Estellie:
Oga you are the one who can't comprehend here...

BlackPantherCri:


There was a sarcasm you totally missed out.

They only played reverse psychology.

Those statements are usually made when a woman finds out her man was cheating, "please endure, God hates divorce, stay because of the children, go to your knees in prayer, go and watch war room, work on your marriage, try to please him, you are not doing your job well in the marriage, blah blah blah".

Now that a man is at the receiving end, they are using the same words to mock him and use him to catch trips. It is just sarcasm not that they were offering genuine advise

chigoizie7:


Go and read what the guy on Facebook posted.
He never said he did anything bad to warrant his wife going out with another woman.

He only asked for what he will do.

My only concern is people telling him that it is his fault.

And I am saying that, for his wife to go far another woman can only mean one thing, that she has been a lesbian that only married him to save face.


My asking who does that is, ( who gives such advice of blaming him?)

Oblongata:
Talk to your wife about it let her invite her lover, to your bed

3some all d way

tegafej:
Everyone saying its the man's fault.

But if it was the man that was caught with naked pics of a fellow man, will they say it's the woman's fault? Will they ask her to take him out and pray for him? How about asking her to wear good perfume and shaving? Or maybe bettering her bj skills?

We are just living a biased environment!

Estellie:
Who does that? You guys..

A man cheats, it's the fault of the wife.
She doesn't dress or look attractive anymore, she doesn't pay attention to her man no more, she needs to baff up and back it all up with prayers and fasting to get her man back..

Forgotten so soon??

Shugargal:
This story sweet me die, lesbian always a lesbian. varieties plenty jor not all the time na cassava..being a lesbian is bae. straight women missing a whole lot.

Muyiwaipere:
This is the main reason I advise spouse not to check each other phone that's privacy... Forget Africa culture that you can read or go through each others chat...you would just give yourself hypertension.

If eyes no see body no go spoil

chigoizie7:
She has been a lesbian tey tey. Marrying you was just a way of covering up,


Btw I don’t know why people’s hate telling others the simple truth.


See them telling him that it is his fault that his wife is with another woman.

This is like a woman coming to say that her husband is cheating on her with a fellow man simply because she gave birth and added weight and no longer attractive. Lies, he would have cheated with another sexy woman and not a fellow man, it only means that your husband is gay, he only married you to save face. Simple.

And that is what happened in this very case.

Who does that?

biosystech:
It was meant to be sarcasm. Since most persons offer that advice when it involves a cheating man, ladies decided to dish same.

Quite positive that woman is a lesbian but got married because of societal norms. This makes me ask but my instinct already knows: are most ladies bisexual?


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Muyiwaipere:
This is the main reason I advise spouse not to check each other phone that's privacy... Forget Africa culture that you can read or go through each others chat...you would just give yourself hypertension.

If eyes no see body no go spoil

xynerise:
Seriously, it is a bigger shame to lose my woman to another woman

dotedote:



So it's better he doesn't know about this ?
Are you married ?

eni4real:
No man should ever make a mistake of paying your bride price