Apostle Paul in 1 Corithians 7:9, admonished the unmarried and widows saying: "But if they can’t control themselves, they should go ahead and marry. It’s better to marry than to burn with lust."

You will agree with me that many unmarried men and women today are burning, roasting and melting with lust. And in order to quench the tension of lust, most people resort to pornography, masturbation, fornication, worst case scenario, 'rape'.

In relation to the foregoing, with the present economic situation in the country, some men will prefer to remain single, quench the tension of lust using other means as aforementioned than to go in to marriage to suffer.

On my part, if you look at some of my previous topics, I have tried to resist lust, I have prayed, gone for deliverance, fasted and prayed to God to kill me if I commit masturbation. But, I still fall.

One time when I was feeling lustful, I decided to pray for 30 mins for lust to die. I thought after the prayer my problem would be over, but it increased.

Just like apostle Paul said, I feel burn resisting lust and it has led me to pip at our housemaid when she is bathing and dressing up ( I talked about this in one of my previous topic). Watching pornography and masturbation, which increases the urge to have the real sex. Etc. All in the effort to quench lust for some time.

I have thought of and tried all possible means to escape, but I have successfully failed. The media, social media, movie industry, internet, the way some ladies dress etc. Have not helped matters, most of these meduim are full of nudity, sex and sexual related content.

I am still looking out for ways to escape lust and I want to get some ideas from the wonderful people of Nairaland.

My question is, how do you handle the issue of lust when it comes? How have you been able to combat lust?
Will marriage fully cure the issue of lust?

Your last question is the only solution. Marriage!
When conji hold you, no prayer can stop it but legit humping.

By Just Simply Take UR Mind Away From Sex Or Any Sex Related Issues. Avoid Romance Section Of Nairaland That Focus On Such Topic Same On Ur Other Social Media Platforms. This Is My Litle Secret Until I Ended In The Alter With That Jezebel, Thinking I Gat My Long Missing Rib. Be Strong Bro, It Ain't Easy But Worth It Bro. Bless U

Marriage can never cure such but let your heart be transformed and renewed from such thoughts. That's the only solution. Have you gotten to the level of suffering your body parts just to keep yourself away from lust. Deny your eyes and ears from evil and you will see the difference.

From a woman's perspective, lust can be controlled. Bible says Be ye Holy and Be ye perfect just as your Heavenly father is perfect..now GOD will never issue a commandment without giving us grace and knowledge to overcome.
For me,marraige solves d problem to a large extent especially when it's with someone u love deeply and find attractive
For those that are not into marraige, you will just have to live d monastery life because d world is so polluted now that music,social media,TV etc can turn you on. I was always Hot and hungry for sex at a time that I saw myself downloading porn to watch..I cldnt believe it since I felt I was super born again. I had to rededicate my life to Christ and stop buying data, But I cldnt stop because my mails we're on my fone and messages can fly in.
So now am going to Shiloh2019 for Grace and more knowledge (father,what is d secret to living a sanctified life..show me) I know of marraige but I need more light on this issue.
I hope u can come with me as well

For those complaints is cos you're not getting the correct styles and the real thing forgive me. For the record marriage does not cure lust but consciousness discipline and prayers can help

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IamPlato:
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Ha! That will enhance the lust and will eventually lead to sex.

I've been trying to deal with this for a while, worst part i ll be able to hold off for sometime then it ll get to a point if i don't release the tension/cum, i feel unease, uncomfortable, sometimes sleepless, erections every now and then.
I now ll ve to go back to old ways to look for a gf, ex's or anyone available to bang and then i end up feeling guilty with regrets.

Manadan0000:
I've been trying to deal with this for a while, worst part i ll be able to hold off for sometime then it ll get to a point if i don't release the tension/cum, i feel unease, uncomfortable, sometimes sleepless, erections every now and then.
I now ll ve to go back to old ways to look for a gf, ex's or anyone available to bang and then i end up feeling guilty with regrets.

Hmmm! We will overcome by God's grace.