Okay, I don't know if some people would find this video offensive but I just saw it on Facebook and, since it's my first time of viewing the process of childbirth, I'm so **I can't even find the perfect word to describe how I feel**.
My body is covered in goosebumps, plus I couldn't view the entire video. I thought I should share with Y'all.
I also understand that some men do not go into labour room with their wives so, this could be an opportunity to see what 'she' went/will go through.
Comments are welcome.
Let me just say Respect to all Mothers. Na una biko!

PS: If the majority find this video offensive, I shall take it off and the thread can die a natural death. Please, vote!

Here's the video . . . .

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Thanks for adding on to my fear

On a more serious note, the video is not offensive at all though hard to watch but not offensive. Childbirth is a natural thing, this is not porn, so I do not know why people should find it offensive.

is not offensive .

rokiatu:

Thanks for adding on to my fear

Dear, nor be only you o . . . . Fear and cold catch me at the same time.

rokiatu:

On a more serious note, the video is not offensive at all though hard to watch but not offensive. Childbirth is a natural thing, this is not indecency, so I do not know why people should find it offensive.

Yez! I couldn't finish viewing it. The woman didn't seem to be in pains, to me.

benincitys:

is not offensive .

Uwese!

Missy ★ B:

. . . . Fear and cold catch me at the same time.

hahaha For me my stomach is hurting, you know dat kinda nervious stomach that you get when you get extremly scared?
Thats what I have right now, going to take some medicine (No joke)

Missy ★ B:

The woman didn't seem to be in pains, to me.

Tell me about it. She was smilling scares the hell outta me really She is strong.

She is really strong.

See the little angel.  OMG!!
See how they were trying to force his/her head outta that small hole. Like, how possible?

My goodness. I am having a baby in a couple of months, my first one! Well now I can see that soem birthing is overexaggerated, shes not screaming to the top of her lungs! Lol. Well That did look like it hurt though.

No this video is not offensive. This is what happens in real life.  I have been through this 3 times and believe me it's painful.

I couldnt do what he did, pull the babys head out the small hole. I would be afraid I would accidently pull the babys head off! Wow childbirth is amazing.

That baby is so adorable, his cry is cute too.

That she seem not to be having pains My be as a result of (Epidural Anaesthesia) to Kill thé pains.
Or else, labour is Very painful, it's not to mâke any1 get scared or something.
I havé tried both Method so i know thé différence. @ Poster, there is absolutely nothing wrong with this vidéo.
It's a nô offense vidéo. To all NL, (Respect ur mother, she went though hail to bring u to this wicked world.)

Akinagirl:

I couldnt do what he did, pull the babys head out the small hole. I would be afraid I would accidently pull the babys head off! Wow childbirth is amazing.

That baby is so adorable, his cry is cute too.

Nor I.

Akinagirl:

My goodness. I am having a baby in a couple of months, my first one! Well now I can see that soem birthing is overexaggerated, shes not screaming to the top of her lungs! Lol. Well That did look like it hurt though. 

Awww!!! Good luck, sweets. I want to be the first to kiss him/her welcome to the world.

plappville:

That she seem not to be having pains My be as a result of (Epidural Anaesthesia) to Kill thé pains.
Or else, labour is Very painful, it's not to mâke any1 get scared or something.
I havé tried both Method so i know thé différence. @ Poster, there is absolutely nothing wrong with this vidéo.
It's a nô offense vidéo. To all NL, (Respect your mother, she went though hail to bring u to this wicked world.)

i shouldnt respect her becoz of that she wasnt forced to have me and that nature no big deal about

i will respect her for being my mum not for bringing in the world

ZIM DRILL:

i shouldnt respect her becoz of that she wasnt forced to have me and that nature no big deal about

i will respect her for being my mum not for bringing in the world

Could you please explain the part in bold, further?

Missy ★ B:

Could you please explain the part in bold, further?

i shouldnt respect for the sake that it was painfull to give birth to me, thats how nature or GOD intended it to be nothing special about it

but i would respect her to raising me well and showing me love

remember she didnt have me so that one day i would respect her becoz of the pain she went through, she had me becoz she wanted to have a child

the pain thing is only used to sort of buy respect, she wasnt forced to have me am only a product of her good/happy moments and she had the choice not had me if pain is more important to give you respect becoz she doesnt have gaurantee that i will respect her becoz of the pain she went to give birth to me

I have had two and this is still unbelievable to watch. Thank God I could not see mine happening. Child birth is a miracle

Carolece:

I am yet to have one, dont think I ever will again. But if I was to have one, it wouldnt be natural. Nope.

hahahaha C'mon be a woman

ZIM DRILL:


i shouldnt respect for the sake that it was painfull to give birth to me, thats how nature or GOD intended it to be nothing special about it

but i would respect her to raising me well and showing me love

remember she didnt have me so that one day i would respect her becoz of the pain she went through, she had me becoz she wanted to have a child

the pain thing is only used to sort of buy respect, she wasnt forced to have me am only a product of her good/happy moments and she had the choice not had me if pain is more important to give you respect becoz she doesnt have gaurantee that i will respect her becoz of the pain she went to give birth to me

Very true. This is what i always say to those who do not understand that anyone can give birth to a child, but not everyone can be a mother in the true sense of the word.  Going through childbirth is something that anyone can do as long as they have the right physical organs so carrying a child for nine months is not something that earns you a badge of honour, in my opinion.

Women need 100% respect.

ZIM DRILL:


i shouldnt respect for the sake that it was painfull to give birth to me, thats how nature or GOD intended it to be nothing special about it

but i would respect her to raising me well and showing me love

remember she didnt have me so that one day i would respect her becoz of the pain she went through, she had me becoz she wanted to have a child

the pain thing is only used to sort of buy respect, she wasnt  forced to have me am only a product of her good/happy moments and she had the choice not had me if pain is more important to give you respect becoz she doesnt have gaurantee that i will respect her becoz of the pain she went to give birth to me

the pain thing is only used to sort of buy respect, she wasnt  forced to have me am only a product of her good/happy moments and she had the choice not had me if pain is more important to give you respect becoz she doesnt have gaurantee that i will respect her becoz of the pain she went to give birth to me

You should respect her for everything both the pains and all, every mother would appreciates a child that show her respect.( U are a man to have sounded in this manner )
Not becos u ve a bad relationship with your mother then u ve every reason not to respect her.
I can understand that not all mothers shows love for TheIr child also, despite that. We still have to respect our mothers.

plappville:

You should respect her for everything both the pains and all, every mother would appreciates a child that show her respect.( U are a man to have sounded in this manner )
Not becos u ve a bad relationship with your mother then u ve every reason not to respect her.
I can understand that not all mothers shows love for TheIr child also, despite that. We still have to respect our mothers.

you got it wrong dear i respect her and i dont have any bad relationship with her


but once your mother start to talk of birth pain it means she is now trying to buy respect from you

every woman does go through pain nothing special about thats nature  it is like saying "i raised you  "  what do you expect it is your duty to look after me if you didnt want responsiblity you shouldnt have had me 

respect should be always there but mother dont try to bribe us with pain thing and i raised you statement, who did you want to go through the pain and who should have raised me ? when i didnt ask to be born

i am a product of your happy moments unless if it was despoil

Strenght of a woman

ZIM DRILL:

you got it wrong dear i respect her and i dont have any bad relationship with her


but once your mother start to talk of birth pain it means she is now trying to buy respect from you

every woman does go through pain nothing special about thats nature  it is like saying "i raised you  "  what do you expect it is your duty to look after me if you didnt want responsiblity you shouldnt have had me 

respect should be always there but mother dont try to bribe us with pain thing and i raised you statement, who did you want to go through the pain and who should have raised me ? when i didnt ask to be born

i am a product of your happy moments unless if it was despoil

All thesame i hear u Man!
i am glad to read this though, you got it wrong dear i respect her and i dont have any bad relationship with her

ZIM DRILL:

i shouldnt respect for the sake that it was painfull to give birth to me, thats how nature or GOD intended it to be nothing special about it

Shouldn't you also respect her for choosing to birth you, even though she could have chosen to abort you for several reasons, one of which could be fear of the pains that go with childbirth?
I just think this is an additional reason to love and respect and appreciate women, especially one's Mother. E no easy o.

I dunno about Y'all sha. Few minutes after I viewed this video, I just flung ma arms around Mama's neck and kissed her. Woman was like ''What do you want this time''. I just smiled. I alone know the reason for ma action.

ZIM DRILL:

it is like saying "i raised you  "  what do you expect it is your duty to look after me if you didnt want responsiblity you shouldnt have had me 

Erhmm. . . . We just have different ways of viewing this issue.
I think raising me up is another reason to be thankful and respect her. It's her duty- Yes, but thousands have chosen, for several reasons, not to perform that duty. She could have chosen not to, too.That she did perform that duty, is enough reason to appreciate her. Do I need to remind us of hundreds of women who got pregnant and chose to abort or birth and abandon the product of their happy moment?

The part at the end got me confused.
Is she trying to be erotic?

@ MissyB

Thanks hun! I am sooo excited!

The bond between mother & child is very strong because the mother carried the child for 9 good months. During pregnancy we know what the mother suffered; morning sickness, some women go in & out of hospital, until they deliver, delivery is not easy, etc. The mother would always want to feel her baby's movement, sometimes talking to her unborn baby lovingly. That love for the baby is always strong, except of course in cases of unwanted pregnancies. So why would anyone say that he or she would not respect the mother for giving birth to him or her? People like ZIM DRILL should be made by God to experience what a woman goes through during & after pregnancy, just once. Then there will be no room for these long arguments. Like MissyB rightly said, some women do not want to have babies because they feel it would ruin their figure, forgetting someone gave birth to them. Some sell their baby for money, some abort their pregnancy, some give birth & abandon their baby. So ZIM DRILL you have a lot for which you should be grateful to your mum. And after delivery a woman has to bring up the child until the child settles down. Even then, she never stops having anxious moments for her children. A man does not worry as much as the woman, & of course we now know why. Therefore, women deserve gratitude & respect from their children always.

NAJALYN:

The bond between mother & child is very strong because the mother carried the child for 9 good months. During pregnancy we know what the mother suffered; morning sickness, some women go in & out of hospital, until they deliver, delivery is not easy, etc. The mother would always want to feel her baby's movement, sometimes talking to her unborn baby lovingly. That love for the baby is always strong, except of course in cases of unwanted pregnancies. So why would anyone say that he or she would not respect the mother for giving birth to him or her? People like ZIM DRILL should be made by God to experience what a woman goes through during & after pregnancy, just once. Then there will be no room for these long arguments. Like MissyB rightly said, some women do not want to have babies because they feel it would ruin their figure, forgetting someone gave birth to them. Some sell their baby for money, some abort their pregnancy, some give birth & abandon their baby. So ZIM DRILL you have a lot for which you should be grateful to your mum. And after delivery a woman has to bring up the child until the child settles down. Even then, she never stops having anxious moments for her children. A man does not worry as much as the woman, & of course we now know why. Therefore, women deserve gratitude & respect from their children always.

dont let emotions make all your reasoning

you cant separate natural love and buying love and affection

it is natural to respect your mother but it is plain buying respect if your mother use the pain thing to get respect from you

and a mother doesnt need to remind me of want she went through why? becoz some reasons are how nature or god intended there is no other way, so get on with it

the question is, who does she want to go through want she went through? she choose to have a child so gear up with it


just like a father who find reason not look after his child you cant carry foul over the payment becoz you made him/her it is your responsibilty and dont ever say it if it wasnt me who send to school you wouldnt be who you are, wake up it is your responsibility to school, cloth & feed me


dont get me wrong i aint against respecting our parents but they should use reason to ask for respect, most of them reasons are how nature intends or who the law detects so i dont see the reason why they ask for respect using those reason

@ZIM DRILL, do you have some personal problem with your mom? (NO OFFENCE)

Hum na so o what mothers go thru dis woman was even lucky dey did not use razo to tear her bumbo it is so painful infact since i became a mother i started having double respect for my Mum i don't joke with her at all cos the price of a mother is, hum be right back

soft girl:

Hum na so o what mothers go thru dis woman was even lucky dey did not use razo to tear her bumbo it is so painful infact since i became a mother i started having double respect for my Mum i don't joke with her at all cos the price of a mother is, hum be right back

hunni are you trying to scare us or is that part of the process? 

NAJALYN:

The bond between mother & child is very strong because the mother carried the child for 9 good months. During pregnancy we know what the mother suffered; morning sickness, some women go in & out of hospital, until they deliver, delivery is not easy, etc. The mother would always want to feel her baby's movement, sometimes talking to her unborn baby lovingly. That love for the baby is always strong, except of course in cases of unwanted pregnancies. So why would anyone say that he or she would not respect the mother for giving birth to him or her? People like ZIM DRILL should be made by God to experience what a woman goes through during & after pregnancy, just once. Then there will be no room for these long arguments. Like MissyB rightly said, some women do not want to have babies because they feel it would ruin their figure, forgetting someone gave birth to them. Some sell their baby for money, some abort their pregnancy, some give birth & abandon their baby. So ZIM DRILL you have a lot for which you should be grateful to your mum. And after delivery a woman has to bring up the child until the child settles down. Even then, she never stops having anxious moments for her children. A man does not worry as much as the woman, & of course we now know why. Therefore, women deserve gratitude & respect from their children always.

You ve spoken well, [b]ZIM DRILL[/b]argu too much, i was not ok with his arguments but i just decided to let him be.

rokiatu:

@ZIM DRILL, do you have some personal problem with your mom? (NO OFFENCE)

I ve asked him this same question, because mean reading him, i sensed it this way.