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Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Twyse: 10:35am On Dec 22, 2019 |
millionboi2: Keep fooling yourself.... Many are satisfied with where they are while few just wants more from life, I guess I am part of the few and no you are no wizard. You are just here trying to make a big deal outta nothing. All I need is some advice. Thank you |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Twyse: 10:36am On Dec 22, 2019 |
millionboi2: Well you seem to be the bigger fool and full of negativity. You sure need help... You are probably not worth any reply |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Twyse: 10:41am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Originalsly: Asides the take home, the job isn't reliable... It's a contract job and downsizing could happen at any time. If I make about a 120-150k with a more professional title or more reliability to it. Trust me I am fine. I am not all about #500k take home... I just want something I know that if I work my ass out I still have my job unlike here if you work your ass out, you are not appreciated and could be laid off without a blink. |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Twyse: 10:44am On Dec 22, 2019 |
jmoore: Talk like a mature person even if you don't have an atom of maturity in you. |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Twyse: 10:45am On Dec 22, 2019 |
TheApologist: Thank you |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Twyse: 10:48am On Dec 22, 2019 |
[quote author=annford post=p85122344][/quote] I told you everything. I just want more from life... I know what I want and how driven I could be. I want to be able to carry 70% of my responsibility without consulting the support of my wife, then she can carry the other 30%. I pay rent, I settle my parent monthly and I transport myself and still save... |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Cherez: 10:50am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Life has been very far to you but you chose the line unwittingly. If you ever miss this lady of yours, you'll regret it all your life. Better get .arrived in January, do it low key and move on 1 Like |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Twyse: 10:51am On Dec 22, 2019 |
annford: Lol I see how intelligent but insensitive you are. Look beyond the surface sir. It's fine, I know you still wouldn't get it |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Twyse: 10:52am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Cherez: Thanks for the advice... Will try work something out. BTW, asides losing her or not... What else can be done to augment my take home considering the fact that getting a job in Nigeria is like trying to break a rock. |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Kapilta(m): 11:02am On Dec 22, 2019 |
People that doesn't even earn half of what you earn are married with kids. What some of you don't understand is that life is life, you can only force it to do your bidding(wishes) but nothing will just happen on a platter of gold so in the meantime while bending the world to do your wishes and bidding, you don't have to stop living, you've got to live it. All i'm trying to say is that, there's absolutlely no day you'd ever be satisfied with what you have in life, all that matters is how you live it. And life is being run with brain. With that your salary, even if your wife recieve smaller self, you can still live like rich folks cuz it will all boil down to how you live life. 1 Like |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by luminouz(m): 11:03am On Dec 22, 2019 |
You want her and the baby but economy is not good abi? She is a good woman? She will support you? If yes to the above,then go ahead and marry. 1 Like |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Cherez: 11:07am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Twyse:Bros, just drag your wife so your new family lives within your means ie if your wife earns N200k with your N92k. Live withing the means of N100k then put whatever she wants offer as savings while you keep looking for a better job. Seek self satisfaction, all you need is a supportive woman which you've got now. Life na small small, just keep growing. Bros, fire up!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by MedicH: 11:08am On Dec 22, 2019 |
annford: No mind the guy. Instead of being thankful 1 Like |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by millionboi2: 11:08am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Twyse:you very stupid to have carried ur problem to a public forum,bcoz u lack d wisdom and a capital fool datz wat u are. #u are doom bcoz I'm a wizard |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Kapilta(m): 11:10am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Twyse:join the stock market. Invest in company stocks. When investing, don't forget you share both the income and the losses. Make sure to understand and always study the market. But the best way is focusing on some particular companies so your attention wouldn't be divided, at the end if you keep putting the money you might end up becoming such companys chairman/c.e.o someday. You can focus on companies like Total Nigeria, 7UP botling company, Guiness Nigeria, Nigeria brewery, etc. Just make sure to choose just one or two so as to remain commited and focus. You can start with as low as 10k, the higher your stake, the higher your dividend. But it will be of good if you keep putting the dividends back to the company so you can keep receiving higher dividends. 1 Like |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by millionboi2: 11:13am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Twyse:hahaha.....mumu fake ass like u Inferiority like u. Can u listen to urselv,....u too foolish no wonder u carry ur problem com public forum. |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by annford: 11:13am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Twyse:I am sorry for my insensitivity. I have moved past it. |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Nobody: 11:15am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Twyse:Then save to start a side hustle. That's what most people do. If your side hustle is more profitable, expand it and leave the contract job. It always help. Talk to your woman. Make sure u communicate. Don't lose your woman because of man ego and pride. U can ask her to invest and She will get a % so it will not look like she started that for u. Lots of guys are so envious of u here actually. Be wise. Meanwhile, take her to the court immediately then, follow up with whatever that remains as she is already pregnant. She should carry that pregnancy with settled mind to avoid hbp. |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Nobody: 11:20am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Kapilta:Its not easy to buy stocks from those companies. So very hard. Even if u will, just a negligible amount that will not amount to anything in the future. Politicians, big biz men and executives by behind closed doors before they offer the public peanut. Wicked people all over 1 Like |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Raalsalghul: 11:27am On Dec 22, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:The kind of advice you give on this forum ehn, the anambra babes I know are not like this. 2 Likes |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Kapilta(m): 11:41am On Dec 22, 2019 |
sassysure:says who? How much does a poor man have to invest in a company that requires more than 8bil as working capital? The execs and all also borrow money from banks to invest in company stocks. Find you a better stock brokers and do something. If you know you have such huge amount that can make you a major stakholder in companies then approach investment companies rather. |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by ednut1(m): 11:51am On Dec 22, 2019 |
What did i just read biko. U have no problem except your silly ego. This is 2020 some women are bread winners. The richest woman in 9ja is richer than her husband. Have they divorced |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by ednut1(m): 11:52am On Dec 22, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:this is.crap lol. Most times he dey increase sufferings. But his madam has a good job dem go dey ok |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Nobody: 11:54am On Dec 22, 2019 |
Kapilta: We are talking about the poster starting something with the small amount he will save and not me. Will you help him buy stocks from those companies you listed? It's always good to be realistic when advising people. |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by millionboi2: 12:03pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
jmoore:d guy is an idiot |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Gerrard59(m): 12:03pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
MurphyG1: Nonsense comparison! Femi Otedola's dad was a former governor of Lagos state. Mike Adenuga at a point worked with IBB. 1 Like |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by gregyboy(m): 12:53pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Since it has happened ,then take in the baby ,hustle harder but please for now let it remain just you the baby and the mom Even when things go better you could just had another baby to make it two If you allow frustration to loose guard you and you end up having sex and having countless babies you might be the next guy to commit suicide |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Nobody: 1:32pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
ednut1:Make him no chook eye for d woman money sha cos she may lose d job when d pregnancy brouhaha starts. |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Nobody: 1:32pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Raalsalghul:Uhmmmmm |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by aminusodiq(m): 1:53pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
All i can aay to d op is dat.... YOU ARE VERY UNGRATEFUL |
Re: Life Is Unfair, It Hurts by Hisduchess(f): 2:00pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
jmoore: Exactly my thought.the reward for sex is pregnancy so sometimes I get confused when someone has an unprotected sex and says that they are surprised when pregnancy shows. Op you never ready to marry cos 92k is averagely okay to marry if you truly love that babe |
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