Martinez39:
This write up is accurate. Kudos!

mablie:

-There has been a lack of masculine role models in the daily lives of Nigerian males in the last 3 decades hence the confusion we see amongst males on what it entails to be a man today.
-The popularity of Nigerian pop music,nollywood movies even the Nigerian comedies Nigerian men consume is filled with women worshippers and women worshipping themes.Western entertainment is a worse form of cancer.
The mother worshipping which is prevalent amongst Nigerian men (and which they carry like a badge of honour)is another issue Nigerian males have got to do away with because it indirectly leads to woman worship.

There are other issues to contend with but the lack of masculine role models is the main one.It's also a major issue in many societies and communities around the world

mablie:

-There has been a lack of masculine role models in the daily lives of Nigerian males in the last 3 decades hence the confusion we see amongst males on what it entails to be a man today.
-The popularity of Nigerian pop music,nollywood movies even the Nigerian comedies Nigerian men consume is filled with women worshippers and women worshipping themes.Western entertainment is a worse form of cancer.
-The mother worshipping which is prevalent amongst Nigerian men (and which they carry like a badge of honour)is another issue Nigerian males have got to do away with because it indirectly leads to woman worship.

There are other issues to contend with but the lack of masculine role models is the main one.It's also a major issue in many societies and communities around the world

Preshy561:
Give it up to Nigerian women.
No miseducation, no red pill, no hating of male gender or online whinning.

But they are still winning codedly.

Skepticus:


Martinez39, you have got to respect the Sisterhood/Pussy Cartel. They are the masters at scheming without elements of violence and aggression typical with male type. Plus they have existed for the beginning of our evolution as a specie till now.

Like Ubunja would say, learn from the best (women) and I have seen results learning from their mode of operation including those who are outcasts of the sisterhood (prostitutes). They always watch out for each other and for the "best deal" (genetic and financial hypergamy).

As much as we love to vilify them for their scheming, hypergamous attitudes, it's an evolutionary biological element for women to seek for the best mate (in whatever they judge as best) to carry on with our specie and this makes them highly opportunistic. In our wild primate cousins and as far as wild herbivores, like Zebra, their hypergamous demands are more stringent and brutal before a male can get a chance to mate.

We are more lucky that the improvement in the quality of life as a specie gives men more choice in mates than ever. However, they(men) must learn that for their rational pattern of thought (men are more rational), Women are highly incapable of loving men like men would do and expect in return. This means that women are by nature, opportunistic.

For the OP, Madlov3, expecting a better experience from women in one of the most gynocentric nations on earth where women are fiercely independent and can chose to be loose sexually, is setting himself up for disaster. He is better off with a "tameable" hoe from Nigeria from the "wild" ones in the west.

Skepticus:


Women are highly incapable of loving men like men would do and expect in return. This means that women are by nature, opportunistic.

CAPSLOCKED:


BROS. I DON TIRE.

AussiePlayboy:

Simply put. I think you need to put this in a fresh post. Lots of men think it is better out there.

Women hate being accountable for their actions. The very fact that in comparison, when a Nigerian woman cheats, you simply kick her ass out of your house, meanwhile a foreign woman will cheat, and divorce you for whatever reason she makes up, while you pay alimony and child support pending when she remarries - is enough reason to be wise.

Ihategirls:
Hi brownhypo, you tried emailing me?

So WhatsUp?

Brownhypo:
Yeah, Don't you reply P.mails ? We could talk via DM or WhatsApp if you don't mind

Ihategirls:
P.mail replied

pansophist:


True. I wrote about this in detail here.

https://www.nairaland.com/5561958/real-men-dont-fall-love#84582369

Furthermore, Gynocentrism is universal, or at least, predominant in societies that freely digest western values. The places that I have seen that do not have a masculine crisis are the non-western inclined Societies like China, Belarus, Turkey, Vietnam, etc. As someone that is well-traveled, I observe a strong correlation with liberalism and degeneracy. The looser a culture becomes, it inevitably becomes riped to be usurped by western liberal values that seem to hate traditional masculinity, and effeminate men. I know few people that lived in the aforementioned countries and announced how happier they felt, as they could just be a man and express their natural behaviors without opprobrium.

Nairaland is doing a good job in fumigating those beta and simpish behaviors from the few that visit it regularly, but for it to go mainstream, a messiah has to start red pill wisdom on platforms such as Instagram and Facebook and relate with Nigerian men in the language they best understand. They are already a lot on the internet, but they are westerners focusing on the western audience, there should be the Nigerian version. I love women, but I understand them.

Brownhypo:
Didn't get a reply. Maybe I should drop my WhatsApp digits, how about that ?

Preshy561:
Give it up to Nigerian women.
No miseducation, no red pill, no hating of male gender or online whinning.

But they are still winning codedly.

commodorejydes:
Bro I'm face with a similar suitation ,the is this girl I've been dating for about a year now ,we were really in a committed relationship then suddenly she started asking stranger ,she refuse to come visit,she only makes monetary damands ,even on her bday she was not available for me.my instinct told me she was having an affair but I kept on making excuses for her my head .I was so emotionally heart broken cous I've picture life together with her. After her birthday passed she then showed up ,and boom I got the shooker of my life wen I checked her phone while she was using the toilet ,she has been sleeping with a guy she met barely 4weeks ,goes to the guys place ,party together and was even with the guy on her bday .I was so mad n angry ,she started pleading and begging , I just told her to leave ,she refused ,I didn't want to push or force her too cous I have so much respect for ladies ..i vented in words ,called her name n vow never to have anytin to do with her again ...I was so bitter cous I never cheated on her since we've been dating ..funny tinz is she isn't working n has been fully depended on my income .she later left the next day calling friends to beg me ...I refuse ...but the sad thing is I was in pain But still love her ...I felt I needed help ...I was down for weeks,started affecting my work ,I lost peace and sleep ....she kept on begging telling me how hurt and miserable she was saying it was just a mistake that will never happen again ,then I felt petty for her n accepted her back , now I get jealous ,insecure and doubt almost eveytin she says to me ...the relationship doesn't feel the same anymore ...I've been tinking for days now whether or not to breakup with her entering the new year ...

jakandeola:
am sorry I got angry wit u on FP.I was just sad DAT u of all pple didnt greet or congratulated me.u know u will always be dear to me.so i no fit vex for u.merry Christmas baby girl