czarr:
Find one fake actress very fine, single, young, big ass "sister" in the lord...and call her your spiritual mother, arrange to see her with your wife to be and make sure she is a subtle flirt, women notice this, always call her mama, and tell your fiance she is a prophet, after your first meeting with her and your fiance.....she would be worried, may even start to accuse you of sleeping with your "prophet".......but first go and see her pastor. women can only listen in situations where they feel cornered, she'll say she is not comfortable with your prophet and then you say the same about her pastor.... that's when you guys can reach a compromise.

Op, I Can See Ur Pride & Arrogance In Ur Post As I Read. If U Don't Change Dis Behaviour Of Urs U Still Issues In Marriage. No Matter D Kind Of Lady U Marry.

Very true

Newbielearner:
It's not like it's a big deal to see the pastor. But the way she said it is what I want to confirm. Did she say, "My pastor or no marriage"? If so, you're the one desperate to marry. You're the one who has seen something scarce and she's now aware. It means you were the one who introduced marriage in the relationship, not that she asked when you'd marry her.

Well, talk to her calmly and ask her who she loves more. You or the pastor. If she replied you in a dominant manner, your home would be ruled by what the pastor says. If she responds calmly and tries to convince you, it means she wants it too but seeing the pastor matters to her. Then you should go.

I believe in God sent and responsible pastors. But they shouldn't be the reason my wife (to be) would or wouldn't respect me...