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Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Beke2020: 9:23am On Jan 11, 2020
Good day ma,

I read this woman’s story. (Click here to read the story she is referring to).Sincerely,I could feel her pain.Truth be told,there are alot of women like me in this situation and there is nothing any one of us have not tried.

With my own situation,I have concluded that some people do not really like s*x. Or some others have low libido and pride will not allow them seek help,at least not Nigerian men. I got married about four years ago and this is my story:

My husband and I dated for two years plus and then,the s*x was like once in a month or so. I did not bother myself because I thought things will change after marriage. I also did not want to be too forward as his girlfriend then,so he will not see me as wayward or something.

Fast forward to our marriage. I got pregnant a month to our wedding,so after wedding,the sx got less and less and his excuse was that I was pregnant. But I was not happy. I tried to tell him it doesn’t matter but we had Sx like only 4 times during my pregnancy.

After I had my baby,he became a 2 minute man. I was like,what is going on here? He will not allow me touch him. He only touch me when he has an erection and before you say jack robinson,he is done.

I fought this thing. I tried to talk to him that me I have feelings too but if I dared talk to him,he will withdraw. I tried to make him take some things that some people recommended but he refused to take them.

From once in a month,s*x became once in.....


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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Nobody: 9:40am On Jan 11, 2020
La click la bend

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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by ebenezary(m): 10:25am On Jan 11, 2020
God have mercy
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Karemarealty288(m): 10:42am On Jan 11, 2020
Set trap for him with another man's anus and see his reaction.

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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by ShagariBillions(m): 10:52am On Jan 11, 2020
Drug his drink with viagra, get a juice he will like and put some Aphrodisiac in it.
But before that, try wearing more sexy wears at home, make sure you are sexy enough if not enrol in a gym, smell nice all the time and make sure you are clean at the middle.

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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by chigoizie7(m): 11:17am On Jan 11, 2020
He must be a GAYbriel

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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by frozen70(f): 3:57pm On Jan 11, 2020
ShagariBillions:
Drug his drink with viagra, get a juice he will like and put some Aphrodisiac in it.
But before that, try wearing more sexy wears at home, make sure you are sexy enough if not enrol in a gym, smell nice all the time and make sure you are clean at the middle.

For how long will she be doing that

She should talk to him about it and if he remains deaf ears

Get a intimacy gadget and use it when she feels Hot

Some men can be a case and he alone knows what the woman doesn't know
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by jamalkareem(m): 4:16pm On Jan 11, 2020
Stroke his Roddy piper with delay spray and he would automatically turn to Joseph the carpenter!
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by redpencil: 4:24pm On Jan 11, 2020
ShagariBillions:
Drug his drink with viagra, get a juice he will like and put some Aphrodisiac in it.
The man will just die for nothing
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by GreetMe(m): 5:20pm On Jan 11, 2020
Some men become less active in sexual relations after marriage.

1. Don't only be concerned about his sexual health, are you sure your husband is okay? Is there anything troubling him? There are certain problems that can drastically reduce sexual urges when you think about them. Ask him all these questions.

2. Open up to him, tell him that you don't derive matrimonial satisfaction with the way he handles affairs of the inner room.

3.You can try using pornographic materials to arouse him before copulation.

4. Try to investigate if he has another lover outside the home or you did anything to provoke him. Sometimes a simple apology could do the trick.

I don't wanna suggest you check if he's homosexual or something related because...

a. You fit chop slap wen you dey do ur findings and ur husband na straight man. grin

b. It may be true and it may break ur heart.
(But am here to console you though kiss)
Goodluck!

Intimacy gadgets will not satisfy you forever undecided

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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Emestar1999: 7:28pm On Jan 11, 2020
Are you sure your husband is no gay? Or are you having infection that makes the pussy.....? Cus some guys gets discourage once the pussy ......
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Originalsly: 7:53pm On Jan 11, 2020
@ OP.... would you be forwarding our comments to the writer?
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by jossy1luv(f): 8:16pm On Jan 11, 2020
There are three kinds of people when it comes to sex
1. The over active (sex almost everyday)
2. The active (3 or 4 days in a week)
3. The under active (once or twice in a month)
Know where your boyfriend/girlfriend falls in and compromise, but if you can’t, yapa. Marriage doesn’t change anything it only gets worst. My own 2cents

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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:57pm On Jan 11, 2020
- many men are tired of mounting their partner
- many men have too many gf and thus not in hurry to fukc someone every day
- many men are turned off by their now babywhale looking partner (due to childbirth)
- many women wrongly believe that just laying motionless next to a man should make him mount her
- many women think that the way a man mounts her at the beginning of dating, will be the same until death do them part
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Samfloxin(m): 9:44pm On Jan 11, 2020
This situation is very terrible. It can also happen on the side of women...that one is worse cos men hardly hold conji.

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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Jodha(f): 12:56am On Jan 12, 2020
Madam seduce him ... provided he has blood running through his vein ....if yhu can do the right thing yhull unlock the door of pleasure...

Konji nah bastard....dress to kill ...

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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Nobody: 2:15am On Jan 12, 2020
Jodha:
Madam seduce him ... provided he has blood running through his vein ....if yhu can do the right thing yhull unlock the door of pleasure...

Konji nah bastard....dress to kill ...
what of if he"s GAYbriel? smiley

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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Jodha(f): 7:50am On Jan 12, 2020
lefulefu:
what of if he"s GAYbriel? smiley
I'm sure he's not...

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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by sparog(m): 8:12am On Jan 12, 2020
Dude might be into other Men more than he's into women

I've never come across a guy that doesn't like sex, it's not possible. We are wired to love sex but it now depends on the kinda sex practices we love... grin
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Raskasal(m): 9:40am On Jan 12, 2020
Jodha:
Madam seduce him ... provided he has blood running through his vein ....if yhu can do the right thing yhull unlock the door of pleasure...

Konji nah bastard....dress to kill ...

I swear. This same thing, my wife does it to me and it took me several months to finally decide to have a side chic. When she finds out, you know their way nah, I cheated on her. But in the real sense she was insensitive to my emotional needs even while in marriage, sighting am tired even when she doesn't step out of the house

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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Raskasal(m): 9:41am On Jan 12, 2020
lefulefu:
what of if he"s GAYbriel? smiley

LOL... That your GAYbriel got me laffing

grin grin grin grin

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Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Jodha(f): 10:39am On Jan 12, 2020
Raskasal:


I swear. This same thing, my wife does it to me and it took me several months to finally decide to have a side chic. When she finds out, you know their way nah, I cheated on her. But in the real sense she was insensitive to my emotional needs even while in marriage, sighting am tired even when she doesn't step out of the house

Yhu should have told her how yhu felt about it instead of cheating...
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Raskasal(m): 4:35pm On Jan 12, 2020
Jodha:


Yhu should have told her how yhu felt about it instead of cheating...

Of course I did... But her response is always cheating is what you have in mind so satisfy yourself. There was even a day she accused me of turning her into a sex machine. Lol, and I hadn't touched her for a month and half. Divorce is what am planning on a full scale now. Some people (men and women) just naturally don't like sex or they have a low drive despite the fact that their marriage is at stake
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Jodha(f): 5:45pm On Jan 12, 2020
Raskasal:


Of course I did... But her response is always cheating is what you have in mind so satisfy yourself. There was even a day she accused me of turning her into a sex machine. Lol, and I hadn't touched her for a month and half. Divorce is what am planning on a full scale now. Some people (men and women) just naturally don't like sex or they have a low drive despite the fact that their marriage is at stake

I feel divorce is rather too rash....do yhu guys have kids?
While yhu guys were dating... didn't yhu notice how low her sex drive was?... didn't yhu guys talk about sex?

I doubt that she doesn't like sex yet....every woman with blood flowing through her veins have sexual fantasies she secretly wants to fulfill..
Yhu just have to discover them and assist her achieve em...
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Raskasal(m): 2:55pm On Jan 14, 2020
Jodha:


I feel divorce is rather too rash....do yhu guys have kids?
While yhu guys were dating... didn't yhu notice how low her sex drive was?... didn't yhu guys talk about sex?

I doubt that she doesn't like sex yet....every woman with blood flowing through her veins have sexual fantasies she secretly wants to fulfill..
Yhu just have to discover them and assist her achieve em...

No kids yet. We courted for three years and during this period, she behaves same.she complains she doesn't feel like having sex with me because am not making her happy by marrying her then. She said after I marry her, I will see how active she is.fast forward to now, I still haven't confirmed that, all I hear is am tired.. so what do you think is the way out
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Hollysaint: 3:04pm On Jan 14, 2020
jamalkareem:
Stroke his Roddy piper with delay spray and he would automatically turn to Joseph the carpenter!
Pls where can I get delay spray , how much and what is the the name of the spray?
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by Jodha(f): 6:55pm On Jan 14, 2020
Raskasal:


No kids yet. We courted for three years and during this period, she behaves same.she complains she doesn't feel like having sex with me because am not making her happy by marrying her then. She said after I marry her, I will see how active she is.fast forward to now, I still haven't confirmed that, all I hear is am tired.. so what do you think is the way out

Do yhu think yhur sexual drive is bigger than yhur love for her?...If yes I'll still advice yhu to talk to her first and let her know the decision yhu want to take...

If NO...I think yhu should try other options like trying to spice things up in yhur sex life....like seduce or something....touch her ass... touch her boobs..
Kiss her neck and whisper "I love yhu" .... stuffs like that will probably turn her on if she doesn't have a medical sex condition....
Most women naturally rarely feel Hot ...so yhu have to make her want it..

Goodluck..
Re: Tried Everything But I Think My Husband Does Not Like S*x by jamalkareem(m): 6:58pm On Jan 19, 2020
You can get it from any good pharmacy

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