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When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by IyaTola: 10:53am On Jan 15, 2020
I got chatting with this intelligent, brown skin uncle from NL and he was like 'babe, I am crazy about you, but I don't have a car oh'.
Me- who car help? Me that don't have a wheel barrow self.

It got me thinking, why this obsession with material things?
When did material things became a criteria for a man's readiness to settle down?
You could both work together gather your wealth if you both are sincere.
Personally, wealth is a bonus.

P/s nothing lasts for ever including wealth, everything you spend years toiling for can all be gone in a twinkle.

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Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by Dreiwizzy: 10:55am On Jan 15, 2020
I love people around me to feel comfortable.

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Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by lavylilly: 10:55am On Jan 15, 2020
Nice motivational talk.
Be realistic not materialistic.
Uncle might see this nice post and propose only for you to realize how much he hates to work.
Pampers and Baby food are material things and in the market, none is given to anyone when he/she laughs out so loud in love. cheesy
Make sure you discuss finance before you start writing "pls remove my name and post for me"

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Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by StandUpGuy247: 10:58am On Jan 15, 2020
Na so.. Till a richer and more handsome guy go sho grin

Na so my ex bin talk. "I don't need your money" till she nearly wreck me still left me for a richer guy.


The morale of the story... Women and money are more compatible.

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Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by Pascopele: 10:58am On Jan 15, 2020
Many girls of nowadays wants a man driving a car not a man the has vision, one told me about 3years ago that 'vision kill you there, i need a man that owns a car'

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Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by Nobody: 11:06am On Jan 15, 2020
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Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by Nobody: 11:10am On Jan 15, 2020
The ladies that reason this way are 1:1000000000000 in Nigeria.

You are wise my dear and you will make a good wife.

Nonetheless, having a car, a house( rented or owned), a job or a business is also very important to have while you woo your heartrub...but shouldn't deter you from marrying her, if you don't have...and that's if she understands like the Op
Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by Davash222(m): 11:27am On Jan 15, 2020
It's a trap guys... Don't fall for this.

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Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by Preshy561(f): 11:34am On Jan 15, 2020
Davash222:
It's a trap guys... Don't fall for this.

grin
Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by samdavjustin(m): 11:43am On Jan 15, 2020
IyaTola:
I got chatting with this intelligent, brown skin uncle from NL and he was like 'babe, I am crazy about you, but I don't have a car oh'.
Me- who car help? Me that don't have a wheel barrow self.

It got me thinking, why this obsession with material things?
When did material things became a criteria for a man's readiness to settle down?
You could both work together gather your wealth if you both are sincere.
Personally, wealth is a bonus.

P/s nothing lasts for ever including wealth, everything you spend years toiling for can all be gone in a twinkle.

What a question, Incase you missed it, that has always been the norm. You don’t have to be wealthy but you need financially stability to settle down as a man because at the end of the day every will fall on your head even if your wife has small change

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Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by IyaTola: 11:48am On Jan 15, 2020
wink
samdavjustin:


What a question, Incase you missed it, that has always been the norm. You don’t have to be wealthy but you need financially stability to settle down as a man because at the end of the day every will fall on your head even if your wife has small change
Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by AfroKnight: 12:00pm On Jan 15, 2020
StandUpGuy247:
Na so.. Till a richer and more handsome guy go sho grin

Na so my ex bin talk. "I don't need your money" till she nearly wreck me still left me for a richer guy.


The morale of the story... Women and money are more compatible.


cheesy Women deceive guys with that line a lot. Big trap. cheesy
Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by lavylilly: 4:11pm On Jan 15, 2020
undecided
AfroKnight:



cheesy Women deceive guys with that line a lot. Big trap. cheesy
Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by AfroKnight: 5:10pm On Jan 15, 2020
lavylilly:
undecided

Hey baby kiss
Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by Riele(f): 5:26pm On Jan 15, 2020
Material things became the criteria for men to settle down Since it's the only tangible thing they've got to offer .

Marry a broke man at your own peril and watch how he offers you insecurity as a daily meal .
Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by IyaTola: 7:18pm On Jan 17, 2020
Riele:
Material things became the criteria for men to settle down Since it's the only tangible thing they've got to offer .

Marry a broke man at your own peril and watch how he offers you insecurity as a daily meal .
hmmmmm na WA o
Re: When Did Material Things Became A Criteria For A Man's Readiness To Settle Down? by IyaTola: 4:59am On Apr 16, 2023
Happy Sunday

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