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Wrong Impression About "Gay Tendencies" In Straight Guys by Nobody: 12:56pm On Jan 22, 2020
Why Do Some Known Straight Guys Do ‘Gayish’ Stuff?

I won’t lie to you. I love watching straight guys give each other BJ. Moreover, I really get into blowing guys who identify as straight. Let me first correct an impression: having gay sex does not necessarily make you gay, same for gay guys who have sex with the opposite sex. Sex and sexual orientation are two different things. Sex is fluid and anyone could have any type of sex depending on the circumstances, place, condition and mood. After all, I myself later identified as being bisexual.


Now, the first time I sucked off a straight guy, I was 22 years old. His name was Mike and we played football back in high school. It happened over the summer college break, in his parent’s garage and I’ll never forget it. Before I knew it, we were swapping head up against the trunk of a Chevrolet. The dude had a very thick and long D..k like a small pestle. It was so hot. I had hooked up with other guys before but most of them were nothing like Mike. That’s because the other dudes were either bi or full gay. But Mike was as hetero as you get. He had a girlfriend and he was a body builder -plus he loved hunting and fishing.

After the first time, we found ourselves regularly draining each other out when nobody was around. Sometimes it even happened just before he was about to hang out with his girlfriend.

The lessons I learned from that entire summer with Mike have lasted me a lifetime. The major take-away is this.
Straight guys suck D..k a lot more than you think!
What follows are 7 reasons that straight guys suck D..k based on personal experience.


1. Straight Guys are Curious
The number one reason straight guys suck D..k on the downlow is because they are curious. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. In my experience, they want to know:
 What another D..k feels like in their hand
 How one feels in their mouth
 Techniques to teach their girlfriends
 How their rooster compares to other guys
If you’ve ever watched video of straight guys sucking D..k, you already know that most of them do it because they are curious. It’s a guy thing. Because men are wired to be competitive, it’s just part of the landscape.

2. Straight Guys Like Getting Blown
Another top reason straight guys suck D..k relates to the sensation of getting sucked off. Sure, they like sticking their junk in a VJ but at the end of the day, they really prefer a good old-fashioned Mouth Action.
Here’s why:
 It’s simple
 They don’t consider it “gay”
 Usually quick and fast
I’ll clue you in more about this in just a bit but heterosexual men are usually down for a quickie anytime of the day. I have accidentally walked in on a straight guy who sucked D..k at work with a known gay guy he supervised.

3. Prove Straightness
I’ve personally been sucked off by 3 different men who were married and identified as straight for this reason. Believe it or not, some guys will suck off another guy to prove they aren’t gay. Have you ever hooked up with a woman to see if you liked it? How about to prove to yourself that you weren’t completely gay? Well, in many ways that’s how straight guys think when they suck D..k.
In other words, they are trying to demonstrate to themselves that they really are straight!

Straight Men in Prison
4. Confinement
Some guys end up giving blowjobs to one another because they are confined in the same space together. This is a very common experience in the military.
When I was 25-years old, I was in the Marine Corp. There was a curious guy I would regularly get with. He wasn’t gay but because we were in basic training for 12 weeks, we were in close quarters. In fact, lots of straight guys in the military do this type of thing. There are other situations where same sex hookups happen with men. A big one is in prison. I’m talking federal/state penitentiaries and prison camps. On this one, I can’t say it happened to me but I do have a buddy who was sent in for misdemeanour. When he got out, he told me how straight guys forced him to suck their D..ks while locked up. He also said those same straight guys held him down while they sucked his D..k. Crazy but true!

5. Male Bonding
Not too long ago, a scientific study was released that showed men who identified as straight bonded better with other guys when compared to women.
One of the reasons cited in the study was because they felt less judged by their buds. Now it’s important to point out this was a small study using young straight guys only. But still, it helps to explain why D..k sucking among straight guys is a safe activity for many. Part of bonding is emotional closeness. This invariably leads to physical touching. Over the course of time, the bonding becomes more intimate. Eventually, it leads to something oral.

Stress Relief is a Biggie
6. Men Sucking D..k is Stress Relief
Speaking of scientific studies, an important one came out in 2016 that explored the concept of bud sex. The research centered on heterosexual men who live in rural America. The data showed that many guys who live outside of the big cities like sucking off a close buddy when their wives aren’t around.
Key finding: They don’t consider themselves gay!
In fact, the minute you mention that word, the party is over! But if using that term can be avoided, swapping oral is completely OK. Just remember, they don’t talk about it.

7. Gay for Pay
A final reason many straight guys will suck D..k is because they are going gay for pay. Now hear me out because you probably are thinking "what"?
I’m the first to say that under the normal gay-for-pay scenario, the norm is the gay dude pays to blow the straight guy. That said, there are situations where it can be the other way around. An example is mutual attraction. In this situation, the hetero guy is attracted to the other man and uses money as a permission slip to blow him.
The other example is pure money issue. In other words, some straight guys are so broke that they’ll do anything for cash. I know an auto-mechanic who regularly does oral on a friend of mine for a certain amount.
When you’re broke and hard up, you’ll do anything to survive especially if you don't wanna end up a criminal!


Straight D..k Sucking Wrap Up
If you are into straight guys taking a go at each other, I encourage you to relax. Nothing is wrong with you! Don’t ever be ashamed that you are into heterosexual men getting it on with each other. Let’s be real – it’s totally hot. This is the 21st century and your sex life shouldn't be a thing of shame and inconvenience, or something to be judged. You only live once. Plus, there’s something cool about watching straight guys explore one another! But there is a catch: mutual consent. Always engage in sexual activities ONLY where there's a consent and a minor isn't involved.
Re: Wrong Impression About "Gay Tendencies" In Straight Guys by DoomsDayX: 1:43pm On Jan 22, 2020
While walking the surface of the Earth I personally do not like a situation where I see guys who say they are straight but enjoy lesbian porn or enjoy watching lesbians make out or have sex get angry when they see other guys watching gay porn or when they see gays. They condemn it as an irritating act or say they hate gays but meanwhile they don't hate lesbians. That isn't homophobia, that's stupidity. If you hate homosexuals then don't like one side and condemn the other. Almost all straight men are guilty of watching lesbian porn and they say they hate gays. Females too enjoy watching lesbian porn and I can tell you that females have the tendency to become lesbians very easily because your fvck.ed up human society seems to support them in subtle ways like; two women can hold hands but men who hold hands are shamed as gay. Women can hug or shake hands but men should shake hands only except it is a family bond like father and son etc. Everyone seems to enjoy women making out but everyone will shame two men making out and even in human societies where homosexuality is allowed most people still don't like gay men and consider their sexual act "irritating".

And by the way My friend Lucifer isn't gay. He approached naked Eve and seduced her into eating the apple. He didn't seduce naked Adam so we do wonder why religious people blame him for everything that humans do including homosexuality.

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Re: Wrong Impression About "Gay Tendencies" In Straight Guys by Nobody: 1:28am On Apr 04, 2020
DoomsDayX:
While walking the surface of the Earth I personally do not like a situation where I see guys who say they are straight but enjoy lesbian porn or enjoy watching lesbians make out or have sex get angry when they see other guys watching gay porn or when they see gays. They condemn it as an irritating act or say they hate gays but meanwhile they don't hate lesbians. That isn't homophobia, that's stupidity. If you hate homosexuals then don't like one side and condemn the other. Almost all straight men are guilty of watching lesbian porn and they say they hate gays. Females too enjoy watching lesbian porn and I can tell you that females have the tendency to become lesbians very easily because your fvck.ed up human society seems to support them in subtle ways like; two women can hold hands but men who hold hands are shamed as gay. Women can hug or shake hands but men should shake hands only except it is a family bond like father and son etc. Everyone seems to enjoy women making out but everyone will shame two men making out and even in human societies where homosexuality is allowed most people still don't like gay men and consider their sexual act "irritating".

And by the way My friend Lucifer isn't gay. He approached naked Eve and seduced her into eating the apple. He didn't seduce naked Adam so we do wonder why religious people blame him for everything that humans do including homosexuality.
lol. The last paragraph really got me laughing

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