Oh...
Thank God!
Not another 'redpill-children's' tale.

One thing I know about women is that they are like animals who follow their instincts. So,forget all these prescribed paths about being romantic and needless chivalry. I ,personally, use women's instincts against them and in dealing with them.Most of them do not use their mind, but follow their instincts.

The more you try to please a lady.. The more you reduce her attraction towards you..

Women are not easy to understand,just do your best,and never overtry while doing that. Peace!

Women. Women. Women. Morning, afternoon and night! Nigerians boys get up and be useful to yourselves and your loved ones!

You want to "simply be a man" but if she tries to "simply be a woman", you all will gather here to trash-talk them from morning till night.

Jobless lot.

Isn't money part of what u need to be a man

Money stop nonsense in a man's life.

Great100000:
There’s been a lot of debate as to what exactly is the domineering factor that attracts a girl to a guy. Nine out of ten guys would probably say it’s money. But they are grossly wrong.

While there's no doubt that money is very important, and it would naturally attract ladies to you, money isn’t predominantly what would make a girl fall madly for you and be willing to do anything for you.

Besides, the fact remains that there are a lot of ladies out there who couldn’t care less about your money. There are career ladies who earn decent pay and are doing very well on their own.

You can’t dabble your money in front of such ladies and expect them to lose their minds. For all they care, your money matters very little to them.

Also, we’ve seen and heard of situations of a woman dating a very well to do guy, yet she’ll still go behind his back to sleep with a total loser.

Money can never keep a woman faithful to you. You must realise this. If you still feel money is the only thing that drives girls crazy, you need to banish that idea immediately.

So what makes a girl go crazy for a guy, What makes her go completely crazy about him? What is the most attractive feature in a guy that girls just can’t resist?

You might say it’s love and affection. The typical prince charming kind of guy–the fellow who plans the most romantic dates, buys her flowers and saturate her ears with sweet words.

The truth is, you can be the most romantic guy in the world and treat your girl as a goddess. The fact remains, if a girl doesn’t like you, all your efforts are as good as useless.

It’s not uncommon for a guy to treat a girl with all the care in the world and shower her with pretty gifts, yet she’ll drool and seek after the attention of a guy who doesn’t care if she exists.

It’s weird, you might think. You shower a lady with so much affection and she’s more drawn to a guy who isn’t concerned about her existence.
Women don’t do this deliberately to hurt you, nice guys, out there. It’s just the way they’ve been psychologically fashioned. Humans desire things they can’t have.

The most unattractive feature that drives a lady away from a guy.

As a man, there’s nothing more that reduces your value than trying to please a woman. The approach is counterproductive and dead on arrival.

A lot of you might read this and conclude that I might be high on some expired Oshogbo weed.

That’s because most of you have had your minds colonised by the erroneous fairy tales displayed by Hollywood and Filipino movies.

They produce movies depicting that the nice, caring and patient guy always gets the hot girl.

They make you believe this lie because it appeals to your senses. But the reality is grossly a wide contrast from what you see in the movies.

And the harsh reality is, the nice guys don’t get the hot girl. He never will. Because he lacks something every girl desires in a man.

The most attractive feature every girl desires in a man.

The most attractive feature you can display as a man to get ladies frolicking after you is to simply be a man!

Yes, read that again. Simply be a man. A real man.

There’s nothing that irritates a woman more than having a man who is always eager to do her bidding. Who goes the extra mile to please her and often places her demands above his.

Guys, doing this is not going to get her to love you. Instead, she’ll quickly lose respect for you as you’ll be considered a walkover.

A woman worships a man who has a backbone. Who does his thinking and can’t be manipulated by a lady.

A girl will never completely love and respect a guy who agrees to everything she says– who nods in agreement to all her desires and takes her as a priority.

Dear men, a woman should never be your utmost priority. Your goals should.

What I’m writing may come as a hard pill for some of you to swallow. And some of you might say my assertions are inaccurate. But if you could exercise some bits of logical scrutiny, you’ll agree that what I’ve said paints valid truth.

Still in doubt? Think for a moment: why do girls always fall for bad boys? They know this guy is no good, and often doesn’t treat them well. Yet they still cling to him.

The “bad boys” so to say, have one thing that has always worked for them... They just don’t care.
I’m not saying you should become a jerk and start treating women rudely. That’s not what I’m implying.

What I’m saying is, if you want women to run after you, do not chase them.

The number one thing no girl can resist in a guy.

If there’s one thing that’ll always get a woman’s attention focused on you, it is confidence.

No woman can resist a confident man – a man who has a firm identity of who he is and isn’t tossed to and fro.

Men, it’s time you stop watching these Zee World movies that are trying to turn you into a sissy. Embrace your role as a man– a leader.

Set goals for your self and work towards improving your career.

A woman wants a man she can rely on. A man who she can trust to protect her. If you keep agreeing to everything she says because you don’t want to offend her, how can she trust you to defend her when someone tries to confront her?
In summary, a woman can’t resist a confident man who doesn’t do ridiculous things to impress her.

You are still a small boy, as you grow older and get more exposure, your brain will reset.


Genevieve caught on camera flirting with Wizkid!!

You know Genevieve know Wizkid is reliable according to you right


On a more serious note, whoever told you some women don't care about a mans money is fooling you!

She may not come out openly to ask you to give her money or buy her stuff, but she will never accept a hello from you to talk of dating you if you are broke, so tell me, what does she want

The number one thing women consider before accepting to date any guy is his ability to provide their needs even if she may not have any need at the moment but she will size you first and know if you can pay her bills when the time comes, that is why Zhara Buhari did not marry a guy working in Shell (as good as Shell job is), and reason Dangote daughter did not marry a medical doctor working in an FMC, and reason Beyonce did not marry a guy working with HP computers in Houston, and reason Kim Kardashian did not marry a mechanical engineer working with Tesla, and reason Linda Ikeji turned down all the good guys only to become a babymama to a guy forming billionaire and friend of Dangote.


Try and wake up, stop trying to form loverboy, go and work hard and pray to be financially buoyant as a young man so that you can understand life much more better than the lies small girls tell you in your school that they don't care about a guys money!


The only group of females that may not care much about a guys money are teenage girls below 19yrs who are still in high school or just finished secondary school because at that stage, they are still trying to live their life based on romantic novels and movies they have watched.

franchasng:
You are still a small boy, as you grow older and get more exposure, your brain will reset.


Genevieve caught on camera flirting with Wizkid!!

You know Genevieve know Wizkid is reliable according to you right


On a more serious note, whoever told you some women don't care about a mans money is fooling you!

She may not come out openly to ask you to give her money or buy her stuff, but she will never accept a hello from you to talk of dating you if you are broke, so tell me, what does she want

The number one thing women consider before accepting to date any guy is his ability to provide their needs even if she may not have any need at the moment but she will size you first and know if you can pay her bills when the time comes, that is why Zhara Buhari did not marry a guy working in Shell (as good as Shell job is), and reason Dangote daughter did not marry a medical doctor working in an FMC, and reason Beyonce did not marry a guy working with HP computers in Houston, and reason Kim Kardashian did not marry a mechanical engineer working with Tesla, and reason Linda Ikeji turned down all the good guys only to become a babymama to a guy forming billionaire and friend of Dangote.


Try and wake up, stop trying to form loverboy, go and work hard and pray to be financially buoyant as a young man so that you can understand life much more better than the lies small girls tell you in your school that they don't care about a guys money!


The only group of females that may not care much about a guys money are teenage girls below 19yrs who are still in high school or just finished secondary school because at that stage, they are still trying to live their life based on romantic novels and movies they have watched.

*yawns*
Same ol' story...
Money this, money that...

No one is disputing the fact, that money is involved one way or the other when it comes to dealings with the opposite sex, but the emphasis on it, is getting ridiculous.


Well, I guess it's mostly a naija conundrum.
Lemme ask you this question, I'd love to read your reply.
Do you think it's possible for a female to share the hotel bill with a guy she'd have sex with?

Kingsteve:


*yawns*
Same ol' story...
Money this, money that...

No one is disputing the fact, that money is involved one way or the other when it comes to dealings with the opposite sex, but the emphasis on it, is getting ridiculous.


Well, I guess it's mostly a naija conundrum.
Lemme ask you this question, I'd love to read your reply.
Do you think it's possible for a female to share the hotel bill with a guy she'd have sex with?

It can never be overemphasized!!


You trying to sound different will never help you get your desired women or woman today.

See, I am more philosophical than you can ever be. I have written lots of relationship books selling globally as we speak. I wrote them many years back when I was like you thinking man woman affair is just about emotion, philosophy and all the Whatnots, but today as I gain more exposure and practical knowledge about life, I have realized that some of the principles I highlighted in my previous books can never work today, and reason I am planning to revise my books and re-publish them to avoid misleading the current generation because change is constant.

Women are changing with the current global economy situation, not just Nigerian women but western women too.

I don't blame them but my only issue is their doing it in excess to their own detriment later.


You really need more exposure, life experiences outside your school and street to make you understand women better.

As for your last question, yes western ladies do it because its a culture and norm, not because they don't care about men's money.

And of course there is always one guy a girl doesn't like to tax or doesn't like him to spend much on her, that does not mean she does not like or care about men's money because the money she is ignoring from Peter, she maybe collecting from Paul.

All women are gold diggers, it all depends on the level of their greed and the guy they met, stop being fooled

franchasng:
It can never be overemphasized!!


You trying to sound different will never help you get your desired women or woman today.

See, I am more philosophical than you can ever be. I have written lots of relationship books selling globally as we speak. I wrote them many years back when I was like you thinking man woman affair is just about emotion, philosophy and all the Whatnots, but today as I gain more exposure and practical knowledge about life, I have realized that some of the principles I highlighted in my previous books can never work today, and reason I am planning to revise my books and re-publish them to avoid misleading the current generation because change is constant.

Women are changing with the current global economy situation, not just Nigerian women but western women too.

I don't blame them but my only issue is their doing it in excess to their own detriment later.


You really need more exposure, life experiences outside your school and street to make you understand women better.
As for your last question, yes western ladies do it because its a culture and norm, not because they don't care about men's money.
And of course there is always one guy a girl doesn't like to tax or doesn't like him to spend much on her, that does not mean she does not like or care about men's money because the money she is ignoring from Peter, she maybe collecting from Paul.

All women are gold diggers, it all depends on the level of their greed and the guy they met, stop being fooled

I was more interested in your answer to the question I asked, the rest wasn't necessary.
Thanks for acknowledging.


And by the way, speaking of exposure (giggles)...
I've visited more continents than you can ever dream of.
Let's not go there though, just take my word for it.

Kingsteve:


I was more interested in your answer to the question I asked, the rest wasn't necessary.
Thanks for acknowledging.


And by the way, speaking of exposure (giggles)...
I've visited more continents than you can ever dream of.
Let's not go there though, just take my word for it.

You don't sound like someone with such exposure though I believe you, but maybe you were one of those black gigolos going from house to house servicing unfaithful fat white women

Nice thread.

franchasng:
You don't sound like someone with such exposure though I believe you, but maybe you were one of those black gigolos going from house to house servicing unfaithful fat white women

Like i adviced...
Don't go there!
I'm way more exposed than you, and I've been around.
Africa, Europe, Australia, North America and Asia.
Naming the countries would take up more space and time.

And if you must know, I'm not your average naija person
I've got dual citizenship.
Uk and Naija.

So as you can see...I'm 'exposure' personified!
I've been around, and I've seen things, different people with different cultures.

This year, I'll be conquering the Scandinavian.




you never reach!

Kingsteve:

Like i adviced...
Don't go there!
I'm way more exposed than you, and I've been around.
Africa, Europe, Australia, North America and Asia.
Naming the countries would take up more space and time.

And if you must know, I'm not your average naija person
I've got dual citizenship.
Uk and Naija.

So as you can see...I'm 'exposure' personified!
I've been around, and I've seen things, different people with different cultures.

This year, I'll be conquering the Scandinavian.




you never reach!

Now I love to hear that, but you need to stop being boyish and foolishly romantic, don't join in breeding next generation of sissy men who think life is all about Telemundo and Zeeworld soap operas they watch on TV!!


Your exposure ought to have reflected on how you see life, reason I am still suspecting you as one of those Gigolos who service unfaithful fat white ladies

On traveling exposure, you are right you may have traveled farther than me because I have not been to North America and Australia.

franchasng:
Now I love to hear that, but you need to stop being boyish and foolishly romantic, don't join in breeding next generation of sissy men who think life is all about Telemundo and Zeeworld soap operas they watch on TV!!


Your exposure ought to have reflected on how you see life, reason I am still suspecting you as one of those Gigolos who service unfaithful fat white ladies

On traveling exposure, you are right you may have traveled farther than me because I have not been to North America and Australia.

Lol...
If you took your time to read my initial comment, I acknowledged the fact that money is inevitably involved when it comes to dealings with the opposite sex.

I never said, money isn't involved!
My point is, the overemphasis on money is becoming unrealistic!
With some spare change, one can still get his groove on, and get laid.
It's not rocket science, it's all about the right application.
And that's the message, I believe the OP is trying to pass.

Great100000:
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Stemmed this from Ubunja's work. It's noice tho. Preach the word.

Your goals should be ur utmost priority not women... already know that...
Women don't even worth ur full attention..they will treat you like shit when u come or show simple...op is right..they treat you like walk over like they gat u in the bag already....

The one wey I dey do for this pretty lady for my office now be say....
I already cared for her from the very first day I arrived..cos I met her there..she is a bit pretty and she's my kind of woman so to speak.....
Cared for her so tey I nearly lost all respect(she began to insult me jokingly).. though she already knew I'm fond of her...and she plays along with that.....but later the man in me woke up and I started acting up like I don't care Abt her...
But one thing I noticed is whenever I act that way maybe I saw her from afar...and she is expecting me to say hi to her..I will just look away...she will immediately call my name with a shout as in she doesn't like being avoided esp..from somebody she believe likes her...she kind of get emotional with that kind of action (I noticed it)
Me now don know her scope ...I go come bone ..avoid her so tey if she no see me she go come my office wey dey upstairs ooo...for my mind I go be like yeah I'm winning.. this is a girl that doesn't care.....
If you praise this girls..u are only fueling their pride...

there's difference between the confidence to making money and confidence to approaching ladies, or taking their shits. For the confidence money, alot of things can drive you, family, friends, mentor etc, for woman, when you don't have money you might not even remember where your cucumber is, you have to be excited and except you are naturally a happy person who doesn't care about his present situation. even davido said it, "pepe rest o, when money come man get the liver!!!" in his song assurance.

i've been cutting business deals, doing presentations for companies, having round table meeting for business discussion with managers of companies since i was 19 years old, money didn't come at that early stage and i never asked any woman out, i rely on having good looks so that women can give me good attention or green light then i can have the liver to do the rest. meanwhile, these set of women were not my type of women, But as soon as i started making real money, i would approach any ladies of my choice, big girls i mean, then i realised even the simple girls are the greatest .... you get the gist. Don't get me wrong i don't flirt.

in summary , make money, moderate income or atleast be happy with yourself first, all other women things will fall in place.

CosmicJames:

Sorry, but reverse is the case.
Without confidence, you can't have money.
Confidence comes first before money.
I understand that it is hard to be confident if one doesn't have money.

And that's why you must develop yourself to have confidence.

This confidence we are talking about is a state of mind. A belief system of in your life that help boost your morals.
When you have it in abundance, even money itself will be attracted to you.

dapo456:
there's difference between the confidence to making money and confidence to approaching ladies, or taking their shits. For the confidence money, alot of things can drive you, family, friends, mentor etc, for woman, when you don't have money you might not even remember where your cucumber is, you have to be excited and except you are naturally a happy person who doesn't care about his present situation. even davido said it, "pepe rest o, when money come man get the liver!!!" in his song assurance.

i've been cutting business deals, doing presentations for companies, having round table meeting for business discussion with managers of companies since i was 19 years old, money didn't come at that early stage and i never asked any woman out, i rely on having good looks so that women can give me good attention or green light then i can have the liver to do the rest. meanwhile, these set of women were not my type of women, But as soon as i started making real money, i would approach any ladies of my choice, big girls i mean, then i realised even the simple girls are the greatest .... you get the gist. Don't get me wrong i don't flirt.

in summary , make money, moderate income or atleast be happy with yourself first, all other women things will fall in place.

You just confirmed what I said earlier.

"Without confidence, one can't attract money or women"

Confidence is the same. There's nothing like confidence for money making and confidence for getting women.

What exist is approach.

Making money and getting women demands for different approaches but with the same confidence.

A close look at confidence should tell you that without confidence, you will most likely fail at anything you want to achieve and not just women alone

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