mcporch:
I’m In a Verge of Breakup. Please Help!!!!

I’ll try as much as possible to make this brief and short.

So I’m 27 I have a girlfriend she’s 28, She’s quite submissive tho irrespective of the age differences between us.

We’ve known each other for over 10 years now, we dated for two years when we were younger before she broke up. I Love her still despite her decisions all through our stay apart, dated few ladies but the love and affections wasn’t as what I felt for her. The Long story short, Years later I asked her out again so we can get back together which she accepted and we started dating I had a genuine love still.

Now I get to realize her past with guys she dated after our breakup as a kid then, tho she might actually had sex with them it’s not a prob with me, She told me about her ex and how the breakup went with them, she actually told me in length. But I got my greatest shocker when she actually told me she had an Abortion for a guy she dated.

I’m shocked cuz I never expected that and I’m already thinking of proposing and making a possible future with her but with what she had told me I don’t know if I can continue cuz I honestly can’t get that off my head since I heard that Statement. I’ve been trying to be normal tho cuz I know I love her but. Candid opinions and Suggestions is highly needed so I don’t take the wrong decision by wrong moves . Thanks and i appreciate

ambassadorgozie:
I rushed nd book space thinking that i will read a different tin, not knowing dat it is same old shit, nonsense

soberdrunk:
Just 1 abortion!!? You better marry that babe, she is still a virgin. If she didn't tell nko?

Waterview:
The ball is in your court, the age difference is no big deal..... You don't need our advice, go for what you want.


I'll never marry someone who has done abortion or a non-virgin.

#team Virgin.

mcporch:
I’m In a Verge of Breakup. Please Help!!!!

I’ll try as much as possible to make this brief and short.

So I’m 27 I have a girlfriend she’s 28, She’s quite submissive tho irrespective of the age differences between us.

We’ve known each other for over 10 years now, we dated for two years when we were younger before she broke up. I Love her still despite her decisions all through our stay apart, dated few ladies but the love and affections wasn’t as what I felt for her. The Long story short, Years later I asked her out again so we can get back together which she accepted and we started dating I had a genuine love still.

Now I get to realize her past with guys she dated after our breakup as a kid then, tho she might actually had sex with them it’s not a prob with me, She told me about her ex and how the breakup went with them, she actually told me in length. But I got my greatest shocker when she actually told me she had an Abortion for a guy she dated.

I’m shocked cuz I never expected that and I’m already thinking of proposing and making a possible future with her but with what she had told me I don’t know if I can continue cuz I honestly can’t get that off my head since I heard that Statement. I’ve been trying to be normal tho cuz I know I love her but. Candid opinions and Suggestions is highly needed so I don’t take the wrong decision by wrong moves . Thanks and i appreciate

Prettynpink:
So she becomes less of a Woman for that? Would you feel better if she had had the baby? You're either holding some very archaic views or you don't really love her. Besides for her to open up and tell you that means she really loves you. You don't get women like that everyday!! For more relationship advice send me a whatsapp message on 09053070552

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Prettynpink:
So she becomes less of a Woman for that? Would you feel better if she had had the baby? You're either holding some very archaic views or you don't really love her. Besides for her to open up and tell you that means she really loves you. You don't get women like that everyday!! For more relationship advice send me a whatsapp message on 09053070552

Omazik:
My dear the abortion could have been for you. You too could have caused another girl to commit abortion. That she opened up to you is the more reason why you should trust her the more. would you have been better if she had concealed everything for you? Love forgives and counts no offense.This singular reason will make her respect and submit to you the more if you go ahead and marry her.good luck.

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Lostz:
she actually meant hookup

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SHAME ON ME.

Omar09:
This is the very thing I have been talking about. People making the wrong choice and putting other people at a tight spot to go against one's very ethics and norms.
How could she make that decision to have sex without protection and now she aborted a baby. What if she contracted the STIs?
You make your choice in life and leave people out of taking decisions all in the name "love" that doesn't exist.

Modified
After fvcking around and catching fun, they want to retire on some good boys all in the name of LOML.

It's ok to bang around, just don't leave evidences

Michellekabod2:
the op never stated she expects marriage from him,or she is burdening him with the responsibility of dealing with her alleged "mess"
for all I know a sexuality active guy is not the "good boy", he is a bad boy like herself. Fair
Hypocrisy and cowardice.

Omar09:


The op stated he wants to build a future with her and tie the not. You just didn't read it right.

I'm not sure you actually read my comment right. I never said anything about a sexually active guy as being a good boy. You should read that again.