1. Women are attracted to bad guys

This is no stereotype, but rather, a fact in and of itself. Dominant men are usually into excessive smoking and drinking, tattoos, and are into impulsive behaviors. These activities are a thrill for women, so they become easy targets and more like damsels in distress. This, in turn, makes the “bad boys” adamant and in control. No wonder you go head over heels for men in power!

2. You choose someone who can make all the decisions for both of you.

There is an underlying belief that your life would be an easy ride if you didn’t have to make any decisions yourself. And because of this very same reason, you prefer to be with partners who can take the reins and make every decision for you. You then become accustomed to this pattern, which makes you totally dependent on them.

3. Nice people just seem boring to you.

You don’t prefer a partner who just likes to take romantic strolls, holding your hand the whole way. Instead, you prefer a partner who has an adventurous side, someone who can take you along on a wild ride where you are both thrilled by what life has to offer. Those are some real ’couple goals’ for you.


4. Don’t confuse dominance with aggression and abuse.

Certainly, being a dominant person is great, but sometimes this can also make a person violent. This doesn’t mean that dominant people aren’t loving, but they can love you to the extent that it makes them more controlling. Understand the difference between abuse and dominance. If you’re made to do things against your will, this is abuse. If you find yourself in a situation like this, get help by any means.

5. Childhood has more of an impact on your life than you think.

Eventually, your relationship is strongly determined by how you were raised. One or both of your parents were or are still dominant by nature. You’ve gotten used to this lifestyle and subconsciously, you seek the same traits in your partner too. Your submissive nature is a given and you end up attracting dominant partners to fulfill the pattern all over again. As you were raised with this very arrangement, you expect the same from your outside environment as well.

All this epistles on top a girl that will leave the guy for a bladder/worse guy when the time comes?
Thanks, but I'll pass on this one
Give me 5 reasons why we are the poverty capital in the world and I'll respond with enthusiasm

i disagree

UZOR oo! ..."U sleep with one eye closed when in bed with a badguy"~mamav ,2012

Bad guys.....Bad moves.....Bad bangingz.....


Bad guys make good boyfriends....

A woman will always look out for a man who will do everything to protect her and her siblings... And they see bad guys as the right people...


Some will prefer military personnel....

But things are changing as Tall, Dark, Bodybuild guys have been on steady demand these days...

Yes....so,all d single girls should have repentant and unrepentant boko haram members,kidnappers and ritualists as boyfriends....cos I don't have another definition for a badguy....if na ganja and cigar smokers,shayo men and womanizers be ur definition of badguys,then I disagree.

bad guys know lots of things, it's the dark side of him that she depends on for protection and solutions, her wish and fantasy is for him never to turn against she and her kids, she knows she will fall and keeps faith he will be there to catch her before impact , melting and manipulating her to her betterment and happiness is the least she would hope for