Good morning guys, I just need advice from mature minds. There is this girl I really love and she know, she loves me too but a times her actions speaks otherwise like she moves with different guys so much and when I call a times,she would just say she is busy but actually she is another guy and it really hurts me. Now the part getting me confused is that sometimes she would visit me and she would cook, clean the house, wash my clothes, and also take me out.
so guys I need advices please

That 2nd thought.....listen 2 it.

Maybe ur mum’s prayers about marrying a Delilah has reached heavens.

Marry her. She's a keeper

Minnmick10:
Good morning guys, I just need advice from mature minds. There is this girl I really love and she know, she loves me too but a times her actions speaks otherwise like she moves with different guys so much and when I call a times,she would just say she is busy but actually she is another guy and it really hurts me. Now the part getting me confused is that sometimes she would visit me and she would cook, clean the house, wash my clothes, and also take me out.
so guys I need advices please

If you're sure she is with other guys...just end it. It means she doesn't truly love you. Period.



I'm getting bored reading stories like this on nairaland, Everytime.

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This lady has not made up her mind yet on settling down, not even with you or anybody else. You are being deceived by such gestures as cooking, cleaning, which to some ladies, is nothing as it's been their normal house household chores. She is exploring and wants to see what the rest of the world has to offer. If she hits a jackpot, your relationship with her is a goner and your time wasted.
Try call her and let her know how you feel and tell her what you want that will make the relationship better. Give her some time(at least six months) to adjust to what both of you have agreed to. If you don't see any changes, kindly and quietly walk away.

Minnmick10:
Good morning guys, I just need advice from mature minds. There is this girl I really love and she know, she loves me too but a times her actions speaks otherwise like she moves with different guys so much and when I call a times,she would just say she is busy but actually she is another guy and it really hurts me. Now the part getting me confused is that sometimes she would visit me and she would cook, clean the house, wash my clothes, and also take me out.
so guys I need advices please

Be sure that she love you. OP don't let her use you as her backup plan.... You need to be serious if you really want to settle down with her.

You’re in love with an unstable character. She is conditioning you to take shît. Let me tell you something, you will NEVER be enough for her. You will always have to share her with other guys.

Convert her to a nakking partner while you commence your search for a correct babe.

AfroKnight:
You’re in love with an unstable character. She is conditioning you to take shît. Let me tell you something, you will NEVER be enough for her. You will always have to share her with other guys.

Convert her to a nakking partner while you commence your search for a correct babe.

Sometimes, an initial part of a post makes sense... but there'll just be one stupid sentence that ruins everything, and then we start wondering... to like... or not like the post?

Stories like this make me believe guys have lost it these days...spits

Minnmick10:
Good morning guys, I just need advice from mature minds. There is this girl I really love and she know, she loves me too but a times her actions speaks otherwise like she moves with different guys so much and when I call a times,she would just say she is busy but actually she is another guy and it really hurts me. Now the part getting me confused is that sometimes she would visit me and she would cook, clean the house, wash my clothes, and also take me out.
so guys I need advices please

Not a relationship is for marriage...its actually for us to feel comfortable....if ur not close to marriage..ignore all this nd have fun....

PrimadonnaO:


Sometimes, an initial part of a post makes sense... but there'll just be one stupid sentence that ruins everything, and then we start wondering... to like... or not like the post?

Sometimes, you think a monicker implies good sense, then she comments and you know it’s just another airhead.

Minnmick10:
Good morning guys, I just need advice from mature minds. There is this girl I really love and she know, she loves me too but a times her actions speaks otherwise like she moves with different guys so much and when I call a times,she would just say she is busy but actually she is another guy and it really hurts me. Now the part getting me confused is that sometimes she would visit me and she would cook, clean the house, wash my clothes, and also take me out.
so guys I need advices please

Recently, I ended a relationship very similar to this, though I'd have been happier if I followed my intuition earlier. Notwithstanding, I'm glad I made the right choice for my mental & emotional health...I'm experiencing true happiness already.

Guys, if you're in a committed relationship with a lady & you notice that she's seeing other guys, don't hesitate to quit that relationship abruptly; cos it's a time bomb. Here's a standing fact: That kind of lady will continue to cheat on the guy endlessly, even if caught red handed, she would devise another hidden means to cheat. Also (very important), such lady will not RESPECT that guy no matter what. She will continue to act up as though she loves him but in the truest sense, she has no love for him & the respect she has for him has long vanished....she's just pretending all along. Once she gets the 'bigger better deal', she will leave the guy unbeknownst to him.

Nigerian guys should wise up & curtail the affections we have for our ladies these days. They don't worth it. A good number of them are beautiful undoubtedly but something 'dark' lies within them. So endeavour to apply Logic/discretion & don't ever forget to TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS....INTUITION DOESN'T LIE!!

@Op, you've been adviced.....the ball is in your court.

You can marry her, but don't come back here for any advice on how she is misbehaving

Break up with her. Don't let a yeye woman give u another man's child cos such will definitely happen.

These are the signs

Always listen to ur inner voice or intuition

She is weighing her options with the different guys.
Move on immediately and don't even explain to her.
Just keep moving, yes, I mean move very very far!!!!!!!