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I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by nlreserve: 7:06am On Sep 25, 2022
This girl is a nurse with nice character and beautiful but I'm a fan of moderate breast and moderate ass or curve.

The issue is that since we started our friendship, she uses this padded tight nickers that helps her look like she has ass and padded bra that makes her boob moderate.

It was later after like three months of meeting her, when we were making out I discovered that it was the padded undies that helped her looked like she had those moderate boobs and ass/curve.

Meanwhile, we were already talking about marriage but the thought of her small ass and small boob scares me as I wouldn't want to cheat on her after settling down.

My mind is telling me that she might add weight and the ass and boobs might add after childbirth since women tend to add weight then but I'm not sure.

Please, is it possible for the ass and boobs to add up after childbirth or I should just move on?

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Jeon(f): 7:08am On Sep 25, 2022
Some women add before child birth
Some women don't add till after child birth
Some women don't add even before or after child birth.

And addition comes in different parts.
some breast alone[apple ]

some hips, butt and thighs alone[pear ]

Some breast, hips, thighs and butt [hourglass ]

some all over[rectangle ]

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Towncrier007(m): 7:10am On Sep 25, 2022
You watch too much porn bro

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by nlreserve: 7:10am On Sep 25, 2022
Jeon:
Some women add before child birth
But, is there guarantee the boobs and ass can still add up since she's 27yo?
Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by nlreserve: 7:12am On Sep 25, 2022
Jeon:
Some women add before child birth
Some women don't add till after child birth
Some women don't add even before or after child birth.
Chai! I might just end this relationship. Why was she even faking ?

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Jeon(f): 7:14am On Sep 25, 2022
nlreserve:
Chai! I might just end this relationship. Why was she even faking ?

Yes,


It's advisable to leave the relationship if what you seek for is breast and butt.

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by rickpat(m): 7:14am On Sep 25, 2022
she MIGHT add weight in the right places after child birth...


my advise to you is don't loose a good woman cus of your selfish and lustful desires...no one is perfect or complete...everyday you will see someone that has some qualities your partner is lacking..but again remember the good qualities your partner has that the stranger may never have...


my concern is why your girl will have such low self esteem to be padding up her body...to me that's a NO NO...No matter how one looks, SOMEONE must love them....she got you to fall in lust with her ass and boobs pad....anyways look beyond her body...THIS IS MARRIAGE WE ARE TALKING ABOUT, IT'S A MARATHON NOT A 100M DASH.....even if you get the ass and boobs you want,it may all fade away after just one child birth...just think bro...and decide what you want in have a long lasting marriage..is it ass and boobs or character and peace of mind?..good luck buddy

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Kollins11: 7:14am On Sep 25, 2022
Op never even wife her yet but she don already dey deceive this SIMPle op. First of all let us deal with the small issues before we enter the big now, there are tendencies that these following things will definitely happen to you.

Did she tell you that she is a virgin? otherwise na borehole you go see down there.

Did she tell you her womb is intact? otherwise you go wait tire she no go conceive because an average Nigerian girl has done series of abortion.

Did she tell you she has cut all communications with her Ex? Otherwise she go dey fvck her Ex during day Time, then fvck you 4 night.

There are many more I can't even type. Well, enjoy your deceitful girlfriend. We go dey here when your premium tears start.

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by nlreserve: 7:15am On Sep 25, 2022
Towncrier007:
You watch too much porn bro
I have had a relationship with a girl with those stuffs and I know how I enjoyed cupping the boob when we cuddled.

With this my present girl, I can't cup anything. They're small.

Why I left the other girl is because she's already a baby mama and she hid it from me. I found out and ended it

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Ruthie0224(f): 7:15am On Sep 25, 2022
If you pamper your babe well, she go add weight.
Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by ExudeLoveToAll: 7:16am On Sep 25, 2022
A case of what you ordered different from what you got.

I understand all your reservations you are having because you were disappointed to see that the appeal you have while ordering the goods is a different appeal while receiving the goods because of too good to be true advert appeal.

I will advice you to check all your options, consider the merits and demerit of your going ahead or pulling out with this same person. If the merit is so greater than the demerit ensure to make an informed decision.

Ladies should be confident of exuding their natural bodies, those who like it that way will approach unlike sending the right signals to men before they approach and then sending the wrong signals after they approach.

Personality, I can't be in the OP position feeling pity for a woman because there isn't any sexual attraction from my end because I don't start anything with a lady I'm not sure of her physical and order athributes.

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Jeon(f): 7:20am On Sep 25, 2022
nlreserve:
But, is there guarantee the boobs and ass can still add up since she's 27yo?

She might.
She might not.

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by RavagedHeart: 7:22am On Sep 25, 2022
nlreserve:
But, is there guarantee the boobs and ass can still add up since she's 27yo?

If she's 27 already, don't expect much. Nothing is going to add out of proportion except her tummy.

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by robinso01(m): 7:27am On Sep 25, 2022
As if man shall live by breast and yansh alone.

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by detectivejones: 7:28am On Sep 25, 2022
There is a possibility that she'll add after child birth, but my worry is that you already have an excuse for cheating on her in marriage. If boobs and ass is what you prefer to a good character then by all means do what gives you joy. My 2kobo.
Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by nlreserve: 7:28am On Sep 25, 2022
robinso01:
As if man shall live by breast and yansh alone.
They are very important u know. If they're not important, why the faking? Meanwhile, I wouldn't want my female kids to be feeling like her when they grow. I want my kids to have those important things through their mama gene grin grin

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Timmy9999: 7:39am On Sep 25, 2022
nlreserve:
This girl is a nurse with nice character and beautiful but I'm a fan of moderate breast and moderate ass or curve.

The issue is that since we started our friendship, she uses this padded tight nickers that helps her look like she has ass and padded bra that makes her boob moderate.

It was later after like three months of meeting her, when we were making out I discovered that it was the padded undies that helped her looked like she had those moderate boobs and ass/curve.

Meanwhile, we were already talking about marriage but the thought of her small ass and small boob scares me as I wouldn't want to cheat on her after settling down.

My mind is telling me that she might add weight and the ass and boobs might add after childbirth since women tend to add weight then but I'm not sure.

Please, is it possible for the ass and boobs to add up after childbirth or I should just move on?
in relationship or marriage physical attraction is very important,if your personal is not sexually attractive to you,there will be issues in the middle of the marriage, but if you can look beyond the physical attraction and look at other virtue she process the better for you, because all those boobs and ass can faded away after childbirth and the boobs will no longer looking good as they were before, but other good virtue remains forever.

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by nlreserve: 7:49am On Sep 25, 2022
Timmy9999:
in relationship or marriage physical attraction is very important,if your personal is not sexually attractive to you,there will be issues in the middle of the marriage, but if you can look beyond the physical attraction and look at other virtue she process the better for you, because all those boobs and ass can faded away after childbirth and the boobs will no longer looking good as they were before, but other good virtue remains forever.
True
Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by riverbird: 7:57am On Sep 25, 2022
Inside life grin
Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Honchoslim16(m): 8:03am On Sep 25, 2022
Get out of your feelings and go get some Benji's
Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by HolyMan12: 8:13am On Sep 25, 2022
Jeon:

Some women add before child birth
Some women don't add till after child birth
Some women don't add even before or after child birth.

And addition comes in different parts.
some breast alone[apple ]

some hips, butt and thighs alone[pear ]

Some breast, hips, thighs and butt [hourglass ]

some all over[rectangle ]
You forgot to mention about the puffy face you get anytime you become pregnant grin

Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Mjolnir: 8:17am On Sep 25, 2022
nlreserve:
This girl is a nurse with nice character and beautiful but I'm a fan of moderate breast and moderate ass or curve.

The issue is that since we started our friendship, she uses this padded tight nickers that helps her look like she has ass and padded bra that makes her boob moderate.

It was later after like three months of meeting her, when we were making out I discovered that it was the padded undies that helped her looked like she had those moderate boobs and ass/curve.

Meanwhile, we were already talking about marriage but the thought of her small ass and small boob scares me as I wouldn't want to cheat on her after settling down.

My mind is telling me that she might add weight and the ass and boobs might add after childbirth since women tend to add weight then but I'm not sure.

Please, is it possible for the ass and boobs to add up after childbirth or I should just move on?

As a male physical attraction helps in relationships, if you are not physically attracted, after sometime, sooner than normal..you would find it hard having & sustaining an erection.

The girl may have self esteem issues, but again..all women need help to aid their beauty....from fake eyelashes, to makeup to wigs and weave on, so bust and breast pads is still part of it.

Ask yourself deep down, would you be satisfied with her small boobs and ass?...incase it doesnt grow afterwards?
Is her other good qualities enough to make you not cheat and overlook her small bodyparts??

Therein lies the answer to what you ask.

Marriage is tough, and comes with plenty changes.
Examples

1. A tighty coochie could go loose overtime/childbirth

2. Big boobs could fall and get flat.
3. Flat stomach might start bulging out
4. High sex drive might turn to frigid.

Lastly, women get cancer and may require cutting off the boo.bs....so if that happens, would you end the marriage and walk away??

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Jeremani: 8:23am On Sep 25, 2022
Jeon:

Some women add before child birth
Some women don't add till after child birth
Some women don't add even before or after child birth.

And addition comes in different parts.
some breast alone[apple ]

some hips, butt and thighs alone[pear ]

Some breast, hips, thighs and butt [hourglass ]

some all over[rectangle ]
This one that you didn't insult him, hope all is well? This is unusual

By the way those nurses hardly give birth
Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Towncrier007(m): 8:38am On Sep 25, 2022
nlreserve:
I have had a relationship with a girl with those stuffs and I know how I enjoyed cupping the boob when we cuddled.

With this my present girl, I can't cup anything. They're small.

Why I left the other girl is because she's already a baby mama and she hid it from me. I found out and ended it

Go back to her
Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by fman(m): 8:40am On Sep 25, 2022
Jeon:

Some women add before child birth
Some women don't add till after child birth
Some women don't add even before or after child birth.

And addition comes in different parts.
some breast alone[apple]

some hips, butt and thighs alone[pear]

Some breast, hips, thighs and butt [hourglass]

some all over[rectangle]
Really? So it's possible to add after childbirth?

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Jeon(f): 9:11am On Sep 25, 2022
Jeremani:

This one that you didn't insult him, hope all is well? This is unusual


I just came back from Jupiter grin

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Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by nlreserve: 9:18am On Sep 25, 2022
Mjolnir:


As a male physical attraction helps in relationships, if you are not physically attracted, after sometime, sooner than normal..you would find it hard having & sustaining an erection.

The girl may have self esteem issues, but again..all women need help to aid their beauty....from fake eyelashes, to makeup to wigs and weave on, so bust and breast pads is still part of it.

Ask yourself deep down, would you be satisfied with her small boobs and ass?...incase it doesnt grow afterwards?
Is her other good qualities enough to make you not cheat and overlook her small bodyparts??

Therein lies the answer to what you ask.

Marriage is tough, and comes with plenty changes.
Examples

1. A tighty coochie could go loose overtime/childbirth

2. Big boobs could fall and get flat.
3. Flat stomach might start bulging out
4. High sex drive might turn to frigid.

Lastly, women get cancer and may require cutting off the boo.bs....so if that happens, would you end the marriage and walk away??
This life no balance
Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by HolyMan12: 9:24am On Sep 25, 2022
Jeon:


I just came back from Jupiter grin
Is some place in the Northeast also named Jupiter? cool
Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by nlreserve: 9:28am On Sep 25, 2022
Jeremani:

This one that you didn't insult him, hope all is well? This is unusual

By the way those nurses hardly give birth
I know nurses who gave birth. Why do u say so?
Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by Jeremani: 9:51am On Sep 25, 2022
nlreserve:
I know nurses who gave birth. Why do u say so?
I'm sorry if I generalize, I know like 4 nurses personally, who are having issues getting pregnant.
This not to say all nurses are having the same issues.
Re: I'm About Settling Down But Scared Of This by nlreserve: 10:06am On Sep 25, 2022
Jeremani:

I'm sorry if I generalize, I know like 4 nurses personally, who are having issues getting pregnant.
This not to say all nurses are having the same issues.
They're good at taking that kind of drugs

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