Getting married seem to be the ultimate trophy for every lady. But the fact remains that getting married can not be the last goal to accomplish on earth.
They say marriage comes with respect but we fail to read inbetween the lines; can you be respected as a married man or woman if you have nothing to show for it? Like having a beautiful home and children who do not cause nuisance to the society.
Yes, you have been united as a married couple so, what next? Are you ready to build that home in peace or in pieces? Are you ready to make sacrifices as well as raise good kids? Can you make your home a good example to the society rather than neglecting your kids and not training them in the way they should go?—in the way of the Lord.
We complain so much of how the society is corrupt and full of evil but we tend to forget that these evil and corruption we see today is originated from our homes—the upbringing of our children—how we make them perceive things and react to situations. This in turn have created a huge impact on our community; our society at large. We do understand that a family constitute a community, and the community make up the society. Hence, the family is the foundation of our society therefore every honorable act or despicable act in the society is traceable to the family—our home.
Have you ever wondered why people comment that kids who misbehave and lack respect is due to lack of home training? This is why we need to look beyond the wedding dress, the celebration, the title, as well as the houses and the cars.
A beautiful wedding dress on your special day is indeed remarkable but what will your home cause to the society? What will be your legacy? (Our legacy is a combination of the way we live everyday and the impact it has on our friends, our family, our community, and the world as well as how we prepare others for life without us)

Marriage is overrated in Africa

Marriage is not an achievement, it's introduction into problem, only about 10% of marriages can you find true happiness.
I will advise ladies to be single moms, cause it's free from hearthbreak.