I think is high time women tell us what they want from us, if they want a relationship or a helper

The goal of most relationship is to lead to a successful marriage and a peaceful family. But the way relationship are been done this days in my country Nigeria, I think is becoming something else. Most ladies now sees relationship as a money making machine. Onces they venture into a new relationship they now lay all their responsibilities upon the young man who might still be struggling to be stable financially.

Engr. Iheanyi wrote a post concerning this matter on Facebook, he said is high time women tell men what they want in a relationship.

Relationship is not a poverty alleviation scheme. Relationship shouldn't be all about money. Is good for a guy to help her girl but, but girls you should also learn to be independent and also help guys too. There is no place it is written that your boyfriend should be acting as your Dad.

His post reads:

"I think is high time women tell us what they want from us, if they want a relationship or just they just need a helper, how can you meet a girl today, next week she started demanding for 5k urgently, her data has finished etc."

That Relationship is not a poverty alleviation scheme. got me rolling

Gat me rolling too

Ernerstdavid55:
Gat me rolling too

"I think it's high time women told us..." Op take note.

I think its hight time you realise not all relationships are meant to lead to marriage. Sometimes all you care about is just now, enjoying what have now with whoever you are with. Ladies have realised that, thats why they mostly care about money at that phase of their lives. Once they r ready for marriage they transform immediately. Love for money instantly diminishes.