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| I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by geolabious(m): 9:57am On Dec 27, 2010 |
Help!!! I think am fading away. I met this girl 3years ago, i could remember she told me i was her second boyfriend and immediately asked her why are u not together just to learn and gain something from that she said he his a playboy and to romantic. Ohh to cut the story short she finally accepted ma request. All ma friends n family knws her cos i truly love her not only being ma first love since i was born. The 1st 2yrs was full of funs as in making her laugh oo. I was very surprise since August she has being behaving somhow as in pointing out ma mistakes like. Why dont u call me since morning, u dont even care 4me and soo. Then i knew som1 is trespassing, with d little knowledge i av abt relationship i always apologize to her even if she offended me atleast am 23yrs old. Sometime she wont pick ma call, i dont hav time to visit her cos she just concluded her sec level and she is a virgin dats wat she told me anyway. Am an undergraduate, always hookedup with assignments, class work, and am the class rep just a very busy boy cos i dont play with my education but i just need som1 i will be sharing ma prob with thats all. I could remember she told me to follow her to a nite party lol ma respond was dat i cant go pherhaps am having 2test on monday she was very angry i think cos she bang the phone off me. 14/08/2010 she told me a huge lie. Dat she was bleeding from her private part, To be realistic i think its painful cos she was crying when she called me then i prayed for her, and i asked her some few question are u menstratin or wat cos i dont understand as a Vet Medicine Student i knew wat was happening. I kwn her Hymen has being broken. Its was after a month she nawh toldme she met a gut named , he loves him cos his romantic,caring, and so. Uhmmm i knew she was trying to point out anoda mistakes of me. Inconclusn was he the one dat disvirgin u she was surprise she said noo he did nt disvirgin me dat 1day he went to his house to cook and washes his cloth uhmm i neva get dat kind of opportunity oo. After he nawh romance her n hav s*x with me but just once ooh at the age of 16yrs and she asked me to 4giv her then i did cos i love her so much. But last 2weeks she told me I NEED A SPACE BTW BOTH OF US, a space i dnt really understand not until a frnd told me anoda name 4relationship SPACE is BETRAYED. Since then av being dreamin thinking of her send her several messages xpressin how much i love her, atleat 3msgs a day but i finally stop texting her cos she neva respond to any. Nawh i need your help how can get her back or is it possible for me to deleted her image and everything abt her from ma heart? |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by InkedNerd(f): 10:02am On Dec 27, 2010 |
Why would you want her back? Seems like she's been creepin' around on you. Don't you think you deserve better than that? |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by geolabious(m): 10:26am On Dec 27, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd:But i still love her |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by InkedNerd(f): 10:36am On Dec 27, 2010 |
She obviously didn't have you in mind when she was cheating on you so why do you still have her on you're mind? If she cared about you in any way, shape, or form, the why she put you through something like this? What kind of love is that? Remember, this is your first love--there will be others hence the term first love!! Don't you want someone better? Someone who will love you and appreciate you? Personally, I would have given her the deuces and called it a day. I wouldn't wanna stress myself over someone like that. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by geolabious(m): 10:42am On Dec 27, 2010 |
Uhmm u hav a point but i dont think i can stop thinking of her despite all she did to me. I wish i could see som1 beta than her rit away just to fill the space then may be i will getova her. Am tired of this thinking of her ooo. Pls wat can i do? |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by InkedNerd(f): 10:49am On Dec 27, 2010 |
You don't need her or anyone else to fill anything. You make it sound as though you will die if you don't have someone by your side. You need to work on yourself as a person before you can even think of being with someone else. Finding someone to replace her will do you no good because it seems as though you may have some sort of self esteem issue. If you indeed do have self esteem issues, then you need to love yourself first before you can love someone else. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by degubi(m): 11:03am On Dec 27, 2010 |
My first reaction was to scold you for being involved with someone who just finished secondary school i really wonder what you have to offer her, but that is the way of the world. You still have a lot to learn in the affairs of the heart and this might be your first lesson, at the stage she is in there are things she wants that you might not be able to meet. If she is asking for space then its best you give her that. You will not die if you do not speak with her or see her all you need to do is concentrate on your studies, engage in meaningful friendships and make it a goal to better yourself, with time you will get over her and find the love you seek. |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by InkedNerd(f): 11:05am On Dec 27, 2010 |
degubi: Yupp. |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by Woke4all(m): 11:49am On Dec 27, 2010 |
It's obvious that when she was rolling with you her eyes were still close unlike now! Bros her level don change, eye don open! Abeg move on abi Girls don finish for market  ? |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by chikeorji123(m): 11:50am On Dec 27, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd:gbam supported,since she even declared u give her space, l advice u to do so and move on.But mark my word,she ill come back,she just want enjoy herself since you are too honest for her liking.That's SOME ladies for u,they don't appreciate what they have until they loose it. |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by 1one: 11:59am On Dec 27, 2010 |
WHAT are you doing with a sixteeeeeen year old GIRL? Gosh!Does she even know the spelling of A-L-W-A-Y-S .And to think you've been going out for 2 or 3years?that means she was 13 or 14 when you met her, hellllllllllllllo, any pedophile cop in the house! Dude,just leave the girl alone and get serious with your life,bury your head in your animal anatomy. i'm sure you want to come out as a certified VET.As someone said nobody should inform or feed your self esteem it should be innately sourced,knowing who you are and knowing what you made of,knowing that you have something to offer the world,knowing that there are no two 'You's in this world.You don't need a girl as badly as you think.let your consciousness drown in that fact and you are good to go,as they say you will lose money chasing women but you can never lose women chasing money/education. |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by Mygoldie(f): 12:00pm On Dec 27, 2010 |
i rarely read thru long post but the last line of your post caught my eye, Nawh i need your help how can get her back or is it possible for me to deleted her image and everything abt her from ma heart? PLEASE DELETE HER FROM YOUR MIND,YOUR JUST TOO YOUNG FOR THIS HARDWORK. Go out and make new friends,enjoy your life,but in a sensible way dear. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by Woke4all(m): 12:08pm On Dec 27, 2010 |
^^  |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by geolabious(m): 12:57pm On Dec 27, 2010 |
degubi:Nopee i was surprise when she told me her age. To be sincere she looks older than 16. I just dont know why i love her and i really need to pray to God to renew my ribs rit away. Woke4all:How i wish i could help her to achieve her dreams uhmmm Inked_Nerd:Grab something there. Thanks |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by iice(f): 1:52pm On Dec 27, 2010 |
When will people learn? If you are a spare tire, you'll always be a spare tire. Anyway. . .try to focus on yourself. Let the pain all out and take it easy. You have a full life ahead of you to enjoy and experience. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by 190: 4:49pm On Dec 27, 2010 |
This tale get as e be, coupled with the font type and excitement and everything!! |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by dastudent(m): 4:54pm On Dec 27, 2010 |
Let me be a little bit ash. I used to be what you are now.loving as you call it(lol) and saying things that don't make sense now that i think of it.Why should you do everything to please someone who is not making an effort to do the same on the same level. My friends say i am crazy because i am nonchalant about relationships.I care about people who care about me.When i like someone,i make them know but if i don't get a positive feedback,why in heavens would i stick to it. The Wierd thing is i don't cheat on women but i also wouldn't really cry my ass out if she leaves. All i can say is don't eff yourself up like a slowpoke because of a girl and say you are lonely.Surround yourself with people who care about you and love yourself plus find like 4 different cool hobbies you can engage in not including watching tv all day or beating yourself while watching porn. Shit that was 4 paragraphs long. |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by livedit(f): 7:12pm On Dec 27, 2010 |
Your in college dating a now high schooler? I don't even have to say that you are TOO old for this young girl because that's what she is. She is a 16yr old girl doing what 16yr old does at this age. Your looking for a woman in a little girl. I can understand you have feelings for this young girl, but you truly need to find someone grown up and mature. What you are seeking in this young teenager you are not going to find. Who cares how old she looks. The fact is, she is not older. Her body may "look" older, but she is a young, immature, inexperienced child mentality. Right now, you need to be focusing on your studies than worrying about having a relationship with this minor. Rather she is a virgin or not is irrelevant and not any of your concern. At this point, only thing you can do is ask God for forgiveness, forgive yourself, forgive her, let her go and move on with your life. She has definitely moved on with her life and you should too. Why waste all your time and brain cells on someone you are definitely not compatible with, who is not ready for no relationship, not in love with you nor wanting to be in a relationship with you. This is why she is not returning any of your calls or responding to any of your text. Please try harder to leave this young girl alone. You have so much more important things you should be attending to than worrying about her. Just allow yourself some time to get over her. There is no magic pill you can take to rid your "feelings" of her. But you can pre-occupy your time and thoughts on something productive to keep yourself busy. In time, you will forget all about her and move on with your life. It's hard, but not impossible. |
| Re: I Think Am Fading Away. I Need Som1 To Help Me by geolabious(m): 7:40pm On Dec 27, 2010 |
Thanks very much for alll the comment this enof to delete her image but with all i Gods intervention dats all i will say for now livedit: Thats just the fact ma sista. |
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