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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Odion2016(m): 4:50pm On Apr 01, 2020
Mind your f***king business
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by hilfinity(m): 4:51pm On Apr 01, 2020
Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!

Hahaha grin
Maybe he discharges crude oil instead of semen

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by ikorodureporta: 4:51pm On Apr 01, 2020
Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''? As in he masturbates and people pay him? What a noble profession!!!
prly donating semen
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by aod1(m): 4:52pm On Apr 01, 2020
OP note: na person wey no drink water mind him business na him coro dey catch...

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Nobody: 4:53pm On Apr 01, 2020
The disparity is strong in that family sha.The family produced a doctor and a superstitious ediat.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by spiritmasquerad(m): 4:53pm On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.
Were in the bible is it a sin
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by XshegzzyeeiX: 4:53pm On Apr 01, 2020
Babatunde40:
You are living with someone and judging him for masturbating. Have you thought maybe your presence hinders him from bringing girls home. Pack and let him be
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Nobody: 4:53pm On Apr 01, 2020
The disparity is strong in that family sha.The family produced a doctor and a barely literate, superstitious ediat.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by guy222: 4:54pm On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.
Bros you are nothing but a jobles idiot, you should have told us that you caught him raping a goat, otonto like you

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by ignis: 4:54pm On Apr 01, 2020
Na children full Nairaland.

What is this doing on front page?
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by NiCurious: 4:56pm On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:


But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

It's a normal human act, but a sin if you're Christian, apparently. If your parents would be disappointed if they got to find out, BEST YOU KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Antichristus: 4:57pm On Apr 01, 2020
Leave him alone. Men who lived longest masturbated every other day. Catholic Priests, and nuns are chief masturbators, you’ll only know if you’ve spent time behind convent, seminary and monastery gates. A word is enough for the wise.
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by passengar(m): 4:57pm On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:


I never mentioned he's involved in premarital sex even if he's involved I really won't get guilty of what I know nothing of.

I'm only concerned about the one I've seen him do.
Is that the only sin you have seen him committing? like he doesn't lie?,don't you think your parents should also know he lies too?...my bruv mind ur f^ckin business

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Nobody: 4:58pm On Apr 01, 2020
Meedon:


So you are justifying fornication right?
See there is nothing like fornication if a man and a woman agree within themselves that they would agree to be with one another for life as husband and wife.The sex they have afterwards is a sealed covenant.They don't need no wedding ceremony.
Our forefathers married in the bedroom not in the church/mosque or court.
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by davido91(m): 4:59pm On Apr 01, 2020
How about you leave him and don't say a word. Masturbation is a phase that comes and goes (well... at least for most people). Your brother will be fine grin grin grin grin


Then again if he continues the act after a long time, he should seek help
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by mechanics(m): 5:00pm On Apr 01, 2020
Pray for him to change.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by segun18(m): 5:01pm On Apr 01, 2020
Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!

LOL
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Amumaigwe: 5:01pm On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

From your story and reaction when you caught your brother in the act, I deduce the following:

You guys are from a strict Christian family, which explains why you felt reporting your elder brother to your parents or even the pastor would help assuage your feeling of indignation, not minding the fact that your brother is no longer under the control of your parents, having become a full adult.

Secondly, because on his extreme religious background, he succeeded in attracting to himself another no-sex-till-marriage church sister, who might be helping herself with a side boyfriend or even as deep in masturbation. Both are now keeping themselves "chaste" so that the marital bed will be undefiled.

Unfortunately, so many people in serious relationship/courtship are also in this kind of quagmire of self-deception.
It is so pathetic.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Kwecheeh100: 5:01pm On Apr 01, 2020
Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''? As in he masturbates and people pay him? What a noble profession!!!
you bad niiiii...

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Meedon: 5:01pm On Apr 01, 2020
emddi:
See there is nothing like fornication if a man and a woman agree within themselves that they would agree to be with one another for life as husband and wife.The sex they have afterwards is a sealed covenant.They don't need no wedding ceremony.
Our forefathers married in the bedroom not in the church/mosque or court.


Okay what about having sex with many girls as a teenager tongue
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by redsun(m): 5:02pm On Apr 01, 2020
Did you say he is a doctor and 29 years? He seems like an accomplished adult.

It is either you masturbate or you have sex, both do the same thing; letting off steam. It is better than unsafe. And with the number of HIV positive in Nigeria that is not aware of their status, he is better of easing himself his own way until he finds a safe woman that can appeal snd keep up with his appetite.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by OBku4(m): 5:03pm On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:


I never mentioned he's involved in premarital sex even if he's involved I really won't get guilty of what I know nothing of.

I'm only concerned about the one I've seen him do.

Wetin dey worry this f00l. Kai, I wish say I Sabi you. Na better slap I for wose you!


So some guys still be f00ls reach like this!!


Or are you female?
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by addexx: 5:04pm On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.

Do no report anything. That would be very immature of you. He's not a kid. He's having challenge with masturbation. He's not doing anything that would directly harm the family or anyone. You can only report to a trusted therapist or clergy. What if you report and your folks react wrongly? Or his girlfriend abandon him. He might be affected by the stigma and end up hating you for it. Then he begins to withdraw from everyone, then depression starts...etc
Pray for him, advise him, encourage him and only report to a trusted professional.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by NevetsIbot(m): 5:05pm On Apr 01, 2020
Op... I do not know why you'd carry this on your head and think you have the right to report.


His sexual preferences are not your concern as long as they do not have any direct effect on you. He also isn't complaining.

Why would you even think of telling your parents. If you were my younger brother.. I'd kick you out after giving you the slaps of your life. Your brothers sex life is his own headache. Leave him.

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Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Ajtaiwo24: 5:06pm On Apr 01, 2020
He should stay away of watching porn video
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by Papadoh(m): 5:08pm On Apr 01, 2020
The hardest part of business is minding your own.

Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by guy222: 5:09pm On Apr 01, 2020
I wonder how some people reason, you caught your elder brother masturbating and you are asking us what you should do, ok my advice for you is that you should pack out of his house then proceed to a radio station and announce it to the whole world. Idiot of your type, did you caught him raping someone? Or did you caught him stealing or killing someone? Infact bringing this issue to this forum shows that you lake respect and home training, you dont have single respect for your elder brother, you are telling us that is a sin against God where else people like you smoke all types of weed or can you swear that you have not slept with a lady befor? My question for you is that is fornication a sin? If yes, have you done it befor?if yes, done shut the Bleep off
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by NevetsIbot(m): 5:09pm On Apr 01, 2020
ornicus:
The disparity is strong in that family sha.The family produced a doctor and a barely literate, superstitious ediat.


Hahahaha... I was about to say something related to this.

He who Masturbates is brilliant enough to grad through medical school and possibly doing well for his age.

He who feels godly and wants to report talks like a brain deficit person
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by ajayidayo2012: 5:10pm On Apr 01, 2020
freeman131:
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living.

I started living with him in Abuja since April last year.

One night I had a strange nightmare so I decided to tell him about this but to my utmost surprise I caught him masturbating using a porn video in his laptop.

I was really shocked and as a caring younger bro I tried to confront him.

He told me that he's been battling with this act since his University days.

The surprising thing is that he's got a pretty girlfriend who loves him so much.

I had already advised him on seeking spiritual cleansing from our pastor, all to no avail.Now I feel really guilty knowing this and confused about how to make him stop this.

Should I inform my parents, pastor, siblings or his girlfriend?

Please I need constructive advice thanks.
Well..I think you should shut the door and mind your own fucking business..
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by MamaChic: 5:10pm On Apr 01, 2020
You better don't try it o. Una go be the next topic for Sunday sermon. Hiaan!!!!
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by hAlexandro(m): 5:11pm On Apr 01, 2020
grin grin
I have noticed for about a year now that my Elder brother(age 29) who's a doctor masturbates for a living. Is works 2 jobs that's iconic of A man can he masturbate for me I'll pay him
Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Masturbator by OBku4(m): 5:12pm On Apr 01, 2020
emddi:
Now This is someone who knows TRUTH!

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