Imagine a calabar girl that would dominate you in bed at night&serve you mouthwatery dishes during the day but she's got questionable character& etiquet.Would you care less about her flaws as far as she satisfies you in the other departments? Lets discuss

no way . she won't let u eat d food in peace with her bad character

If you don't have peace of mind, how will you open your mouth to eat or spread the legs apart to "bedmatics"?

Smiles... If she doesn't know how to cook I will teach her ....everyother thing I can still teach her?
You see that character ehn, that is the reason why I would want to marry her in the first place...if it isn't there, Omo it's a No No No ooo.

Men love to be respected more than anything.

Man shall not live alone by bread

Character really matters a lot. Don't be carried away with the sex and good food..... This is exactly what am going through right now.... Bewarn

[quote author=harlos post=88093979]Smiles... If she doesn't know how to cook I will teach her ....everyother thing I can still teach her?
Since you are willing to teach her how to cook you may as well help her with her 'bad' character.

everybody got character flaws, if it is manageable and she is teachable why Not

U love her too dat is why u can endure her
I believe u will miss her too much
So accept her that way and marry her.. congratulations

ubunja1:
everybody got character flaws, if it is manageable and she is teachable why Not

U made a point today, I hope ur followers see this, obviously u are more sensible than they are.

What matters in any relationship is the quality you would want your wife or girl to have. There are some that prefer them to know how to cook only, some character, while some would want their woman to have both. It is an individual thing and you alone must decide on what you want. Ensure the qualities desired by you for any woman exceeds 60%. The remaining 40% can be worked on. No one is perfect.
Please do visit my blog www.hightaughts.com to how to identify Mr Right and Why you don't last on bed.

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It would be too late by then, this is what ought to have been sunk into her since she started her socialization process.
She ought to grow up with her character. Not to grow up and learn them.

Stacyomolola:


U made a point today, I hope ur followers see this, obviously u are more sensible than they are.

That is not Ubunja, madam.

Yeah! We tend to work on her flaws together.

Abfinest007:
no way . she won't let u eat d food in peace with her bad character

which of the food? op mentioned two...

@op, it is better to be alone than with a contentious woman... says the Bible.

Stacyomolola:


U made a point today, I hope ur followers see this, obviously u are more sensible than they are.

continue agreeing with a fake account

favoryte33:
Imagine a calabar girl that would dominate you in bed at night&serve you mouthwatery dishes during the day but she's got questionable character& etiquet.Would you care less about her flaws as far as she satisfies you in the other departments? Lets discuss

If they are flaws you can tolerate or live with no issues.

But if your character is questionable, no matter how delicious your food is or your mastery in the other room, I will not.

When 2 becomes 1. You become her, she becomes YOU.

If your wifey character is questionable, you (husby) character automatically becomes questionable. (Perception).

A wife that cooks delicious meal for you at home with questionable character would eventually kill or lead you to your early grave because of her questionable character.

If you can't live comfortably with a flaw, never ever settle for it.

It depends on the character flaw.
Whether she cooks well or not, I don't mind after all I can't cook well myself.

The major thing is for a woman to let me have peace of mind.

J111333:
It depends on the character flaw.
Whether she cooks well or not, I don't mind after all I can't cook well myself.

The major thing is for a woman to let me have peace of mind.

... As well as give her peace of mind too. Your home will be like a paradise on earth even if you have zero account

Although it depends on the character flaws you mean but I want to assume you mean critical ones like anger problems, bad mannerism, stealing, alcoholic, etc



1. Am a good cook so I cook my own food, I don't see that as a big deal
2. Any guy who knows what he is doing can actually upgrade his wife's sex skills but he need the skills himself.


So why should I endure hell on Earth because of the above

Even the Bible warns of women with bad characters, so why settle for less.



........I WANT THE FULL PACKAGE.....
Good Cook + Madd Sex + Good manners/Characters

Yes, as long as she's willing to change

BigJoe19:
That is not Ubunja, madam.

Really

marrying a lady with character flaws is like digging the concrete pillars to a skyscraper in a relationship. what else do u expect to see if not for destruction

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Character is hard to teach oo... It is Only God that can turn the person around....

Good culinary skills can be learnt,,,,,,, we av YouTube n catering school
Bedmatics can also be learned.....
U see character......... It takes the help of d holy spirit to help someone with a bad character.....
A virtuous woman who can find her worth is far more than rubies......
Am not a man but character should be no 1....people's preferences differ

if her character is unbearable or maybe something that you can't tolerate for the rest of ur life then you back off.
Girls with bad character finds it extremely difficult to change. they most times they don't change even if you try to make them to change. it's only God that can change them. it's more easier to change a guy with bad character than to change a girl with bad character. that's why they say ezi nwaanyi di uko (good women are scarce) because those with bad character most times remain that way for the rest of their lives.
this things happens as a result of too much pampering because she is ur daughter/only daughter (Ada nwaanyi) and she needs egg treatment or be treated softly as of their childhood stage. most parents are guilty of this.
To build a girl's character, you must start it from child birth in other shape her well to the standard she ought to be.
that's my own point of view.

if you can't cope with her behavior just leave her but if you can contain her behavior then you go ahead.

Good food...
Good sex and beautiful face all means nothing, if her attitude sucks!
It's a deal breaker!

BigJoe19:
That is not Ubunja, madam.

so many losers copying me like this other one:

Ubunja01:
it sad you think that of me really, 'hater'.
Im a fan rather. One who admires your work, hence i copied your moniker.
Soon you'll grow used to me, pick an advice or too and become a better ubunja.

Btw because i corrected an error in your reasoning, doesnt mean im dissing you.

ubunja:
so many losers copying me like this other one:

Ubunja if you check well it's one of these females on Nairaland that has the account.