I believe every one somehow has a dark secret which they try to keep behind and focus on a new life especially when it is about marriage.

Digging into the past to find that dark secret will always create a problem in that marriage. So why do many people focus on digging into the past more than focusing on building a beautiful future regardless of the dark past.

What's your opinion about this?

Most times, This 'Dark past' is from the female side.

MiztaFabuloz:
I believe every one somehow has a dark secret which they try to keep behind and focus on a new life especially when it is about marriage.

Digging into the past to find that dark secret will always create a problem in that marriage. So why do many people focus on digging into the past more than focusing on building a beautiful future regardless of the dark past.

What's your opinion about this?

..Depends on what you mean by dark secret.I personally don't ve a dark secret.

Yes we all do... but bygones are bygones

I doubt it

SeverusSnape:
Most times, This 'Dark past' is from the female side.

JONNYSPUTE:
..Depends on what you mean by dark secret.I personally don't ve a dark secret.

What is that thing you have done or encountered which you might never tell your partner because it might not be necessary as it was a past mistake.

SeverusSnape:
Most times, This 'Dark past' is from the female side.

That's not true. You don't have to point at female because you as a male have yours.

MiztaFabuloz:


What is that thing you have done or encountered which you might never tell your partner because it might not be necessary as it was a past mistake.

.. To the best of my knowledge,none. I never had anything to hide from her.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. To the best of my knowledge,none. I never had anything to hide from her.

You say so, I won't doubt you.

MiztaFabuloz:


That's not true. You don't have to point at female because you as a male have yours.

I used the word "Most". And i stand by it, Most times it's the ladies that have skeletons in their cupboards.

I don't want to even go into details.

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I know say the dark past wey OP dey yan na all about the wo/man's true mileage; and you know whose mileage is at the disadvantage right?

The only solution to avoid such dark past or doubts na to buy brand new car with 0 mileage.