LAST MONTH

I had a deep conversation with a former colleague I just had my brunch.

Then he came to me and told me that his ex who he dated since college that they had broken up!

So shocking! Guess what they had been dating for 7 years and he never saw future with her instead he bleeped another lady while in a relationship with his gf turned ex , he went miles to go see the lady didn't bother about the transport fare.

Guess what he said to me: that he decided to give her space he didn't want to sound like he wanted to end the relationship which is what he had been waiting for and then the lady instinct was to move on even though is heartbreaking especially fr a guy she loved and the guy totally had already moved on.

He now told me that the girl he went miles for is the one he want to settle down with not the 7 years relationship.

He said the ex has been insecure , I wouldnt blame her , a relationship where you are insecure simply state the fact that

1 The Relationship is not healthy
2 You are not happy
3 It is not love

When he said all of is story it made me reflect in my own personal kind of relationship from being engaged and dumped and from one broken relationship to another , falling for thei wrong kind of guys being insecure in the relationships.

Having an imagination of what I want but in reality is just a single girl waiting for her equal partner.

The man to love her right and treat her special.

The man who would be ready to settle down and have family instead of living in doubt ness in the relationships and face realities.

The man who sees you as your equal and love every single flaws and imperfections of you.

The man that will support and carry your burdens.

The man that wont wait for you to say those things before he acts upon those things.

There are lot of words but one last thing I will say is simplicity is happiness , the man who does not allows peoples opinion define him and would not tolerate being treated in a bad way but protect and defend you


Waiting for that man!

Yaaaay I commented first...
oya lemme continue with my Vaseline

Well, this would teach ladies to stop wasting time on guys.

emperorsversion:
Yaaaay I commented first...

oya lemme continue with my Vaseline

lmao!

Saintmary:
Well, this would teach ladies to stop wasting time on guys.

exactly! Men who just want to Bleep and not ready to settle day am just waiting for that man because I know is out there and am not giving up

Wordsfrombimpe:
exactly! Men who just want to Bleep and not ready to settle day am just waiting for that man because I know is out there and am not giving up

Spend your energy on getting skills and making money.
Any man who asks you out, never go to his place, meet him in public, don't have sex (in fact, you will weed out a lot of players with this method)
Sooner than later, you will strike gold.

Saintmary:

Spend your energy on getting skills and making money.
Any man who asks you out, never go to his place, meet him in public, don't have sex (in fact, you will weed out a lot of players with this method)
Sooner than later, you will strike gold.

..this method never fails

Phenomenal16:
..this method never fails

Loud it Sister!

Saintmary:

Spend your energy on getting skills and making money.
Any man who asks you out, never go to his place, meet him in public, don't have sex (in fact, you will weed out a lot of players with this method)
Sooner than later, you will strike gold.

I already have the skills and am a business woman , from my profile you know what am talking about. Am An all-rounder lady when it comes to skills.

Saintmary:

Spend your energy on getting skills and making money.
Any man who asks you out, never go to his place, meet him in public, don't have sex (in fact, you will weed out a lot of players with this method)
Sooner than later, you will strike gold.

thanks for sharing will take note of that

Wordsfrombimpe:
I already have the skills and am a business woman , from my profile you know what am talking about. Am An all-rounder lady when it comes to skills.

Take it higher then, no one says you can't become a billionaire just because you are a woman.
All the best.

Blow whistle and pass

Saintmary:

Take it higher then, no one says you can't become a billionaire just because you are a woman.
All the best.

thanks bae

frubben:
Blow whistle and pass

lmao!

It is an evil thing when a guy/lady keeps a relationship for years knowing fully well that they do not intend to settle down from such a relationship.Except if the relationship is ended due to medical incompatibilities, unresolved family differences or spiritual reasons. A break up from such relationship is capable of leaving either partners in emotional instability, psychological trauma,trust issues and a never happy spirit.

Jaybeth:
It is an evil thing when a guy/lady keeps a relationship for years knowing fully well that they do not intend to settle down from such a relationship.Except if the relationship is ended due to medical incompatibilities, unresolved family differences or spiritual reasons. A break up from such relationship is capable of leaving either partners in emotional instability, psychological trauma,trust issues and a never happy spirit.

deep words

Wordsfrombimpe:
exactly! Men who just want to Bleep and not ready to settle day am just waiting for that man because I know is out there and am not giving up

Right now i will never date a girl i don't forsee marriage with or that will waste my time.
The last girl I dated made me realize sex was really overrated and what matters was genuine feeling of love and total commitment
She had a different genotype from mine and would cause medical complications If we were together.
She didn't know about her genotype or wven bloodgroup until the day I told her to do which she did because of service and I called it off.

Today we re still good friends because I was sincere to her and told her the truth of were our relationship was going.

evil1:


Right now i will never date a girl i don't forsee marriage with or that will waste my time.
The last girl I dated made me realize sex was really overrated and what matters was genuine feeling of love and total commitment
She had a different genotype from mine and would cause medical complications If we were together.
She didn't know about her genotype or wven bloodgroup until the day I told her to do which she did because of service and I called it off.

Today we re still good friends because I was sincere to her and told her the truth of were our relationship was going.

interesting thanks for sharing

Wordsfrombimpe:
interesting thanks for sharing

Hi can we talk?? I really want to have a discussion with you.Beep me I'll return the call. Hoping to hear from you.

Your friend is evil sha...7 years na wa.... ....na this reason de make girls not to put all eggs for one basket