| Re: I Think My Brother Is Under Spell by Brunicekid(m): 10:54pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Rhaspody:
He's not under any spell. He thinks chasing ladies with money is the way to get them. I was once like that. Until I learnt the hard way.
He will learn. Give him time TRUE |
| Re: I Think My Brother Is Under Spell by Nobody: 11:09pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Pheals:
I think my bro is under spell or it's just love ?
It all started years ago when he fall in love , they say true love doesn't exist but to him it exist ; according to him and what i witness, the relationship begins on "lies" yes lies that was uprooted at the begin of the relationship although it's a common thing to lie in other to save a worthy relationship to some ladies but to me you shouldn't hide things from someone u truly love .
You're a woman, you can send the girl away if you deem it fit.
You may lose you're brother when the next break up happens
Now let be brief u guys what actually happens , the relationship is a long distance one the lady stays in ibadan why he stays in lagos because of business stuff and he's a busy guy while the girl is schooling so they both don't have time for each others , bro later moved to ilorin from there to Ekiti mind u he always visit his babe in ibadan when he as time even if it's just two days and some time he stays in lagos (his major resident) .
what actually happens is that he goes extra miles for this girl and credit her anytime he as enough he wouldn't stand his babe passing through "rain not to talk of fire " if she calls claiming to be fighting hunger or couldn't pay any bills in schools just believe me bro will have the "money at hand " that specific time to give and vice versa - if he doesn't have , babe won't ask i was wondering if she's checking his account balance with a spiritual mirror or what .
Time goes on this same way as this lady with time rarely give him time with one excuses or the other (He could sub for her but only her shadow will be online to chat with ) since the absent of attention takes in, my bro wasn't normal again (he's an introvert and a very timid guy) this bring room for him to think and worry a lot ... Worry a lot on a girl i can't count the load of gifts he as shower on her without collecting a dime from her ...
My bro could personally tell her not to buy even birthday gift for him but could get for her if it was her birthday (although he didn't like collecting from someone) it's normal of him ( he's so nice when he as enough , he's a rare gem) his friend told him to broke up with her ; i overheard them talking i couldn't forget he was been mock ,his pal was like "am not sure u have eating this gal up to five times since 4 years" --normally that's how guys do talk . Finally this girl called him and say it's over that's when things got worst they have to give my bro a compulsory leave in his work (since he very much valuable to them ) he wouldn't tell us what actually happened but my closeness to him make him later speak after series of persuasions ( it cause me a lot , he don't usually talk , he like keeping things to himself ) i was forced to call this girl (something i regret ) she told me it's over without a tangible reason to point at ...
The break up revealed to me personally that my bro has spend a lot on someone who i think is not worth it (from buying of cell phones *i can't still count four phones when they were together , jewelries , shoes etc ) he so much love her ...finally it works with the help of one of his female close pal
He got over it with times ( i witness real love , my bro could wake up to give a girl missed calls of over 100 rings ,missed calls o . She won't pick it and he keep on insisting on her a month or two later the lady posted a pic with another guy ) with all this bro wouldn't give up on her for months ,i try my best to keep parents finding out not... He return to work and get over it ..
Close to a year and a half , the lady called him back seeking for financial help giving excuses of her bf been somehow ( i find nothing bad in it but the way she approach him) she text him "telling him if she can't help he should delete her contact and even abuse him (gbam bro still rescue her and she apologize with tears , called me and also apologize , i couldn't talk I don't want my bro to feel bad but fire was burning inside me ) before we all know they are back together after a year and the half ( i think bro is under spell , and he started giving her money again ) i spoke with his old pal , a lady she told she sense the coming back of the lady and warn him to stop picking her calls and replying her texts ..she encourage him to find a lady all this while but bro rarely approach ladies (although i know his taste " a little " he didn't like slay queens or ladies dressing half nudes or with make up not to talk of someone who's not submissive or a bad cook/ ladies showing off) She's back without no shame and bro is still playing the lover boy , although i also see changes in her ...only God knows the amount he as sent to her during this lockdown i began to think
He's under spell ... Am worried , he became mumu that know one could mock because of his kindness and generosity ... Those who knows the lovers stories of his are all against him taking her back ( life isn't fair - most relationship is usual opposite one good partner and the other been bad )
So sorry i would not brief it i was writing base on my feelings thanks
am sincerely sorry for any typographical or grammatical errors
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| Re: I Think My Brother Is Under Spell by oazeez1991(m): 11:12pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Notin like spell in dis case. Ur broda is just a SIMP, nd I must say, he's battling wif low self-esteem. He really need help, psychologically, not just spiritually. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Brother Is Under Spell by drmikeadams(m): 11:14pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
Pheals:
I think my bro is under spell or it's just love ?
It all started years ago when he fall in love , they say true love doesn't exist but to him it exist ; according to him and what i witness, the relationship begins on "lies" yes lies that was uprooted at the begin of the relationship although it's a common thing to lie in other to save a worthy relationship to some ladies but to me you shouldn't hide things from someone u truly love .
Now let be brief u guys what actually happens , the relationship is a long distance one the lady stays in ibadan why he stays in lagos because of business stuff and he's a busy guy while the girl is schooling so they both don't have time for each others , bro later moved to ilorin from there to Ekiti mind u he always visit his babe in ibadan when he as time even if it's just two days and some time he stays in lagos (his major resident) .
what actually happens is that he goes extra miles for this girl and credit her anytime he as enough he wouldn't stand his babe passing through "rain not to talk of fire " if she calls claiming to be fighting hunger or couldn't pay any bills in schools just believe me bro will have the "money at hand " that specific time to give and vice versa - if he doesn't have , babe won't ask i was wondering if she's checking his account balance with a spiritual mirror or what .
Time goes on this same way as this lady with time rarely give him time with one excuses or the other (He could sub for her but only her shadow will be online to chat with ) since the absent of attention takes in, my bro wasn't normal again (he's an introvert and a very timid guy) this bring room for him to think and worry a lot ... Worry a lot on a girl i can't count the load of gifts he as shower on her without collecting a dime from her ...
My bro could personally tell her not to buy even birthday gift for him but could get for her if it was her birthday (although he didn't like collecting from someone) it's normal of him ( he's so nice when he as enough , he's a rare gem) his friend told him to broke up with her ; i overheard them talking i couldn't forget he was been mock ,his pal was like "am not sure u have eating this gal up to five times since 4 years" --normally that's how guys do talk . Finally this girl called him and say it's over that's when things got worst they have to give my bro a compulsory leave in his work (since he very much valuable to them ) he wouldn't tell us what actually happened but my closeness to him make him later speak after series of persuasions ( it cause me a lot , he don't usually talk , he like keeping things to himself ) i was forced to call this girl (something i regret ) she told me it's over without a tangible reason to point at ...
The break up revealed to me personally that my bro has spend a lot on someone who i think is not worth it (from buying of cell phones *i can't still count four phones when they were together , jewelries , shoes etc ) he so much love her ...finally it works with the help of one of his female close pal
He got over it with times ( i witness real love , my bro could wake up to give a girl missed calls of over 100 rings ,missed calls o . She won't pick it and he keep on insisting on her a month or two later the lady posted a pic with another guy ) with all this bro wouldn't give up on her for months ,i try my best to keep parents finding out not... He return to work and get over it ..
Close to a year and a half , the lady called him back seeking for financial help giving excuses of her bf been somehow ( i find nothing bad in it but the way she approach him) she text him "telling him if she can't help he should delete her contact and even abuse him (gbam bro still rescue her and she apologize with tears , called me and also apologize , i couldn't talk I don't want my bro to feel bad but fire was burning inside me ) before we all know they are back together after a year and the half ( i think bro is under spell , and he started giving her money again ) i spoke with his old pal , a lady she told she sense the coming back of the lady and warn him to stop picking her calls and replying her texts ..she encourage him to find a lady all this while but bro rarely approach ladies (although i know his taste " a little " he didn't like slay queens or ladies dressing half nudes or with make up not to talk of someone who's not submissive or a bad cook/ ladies showing off) She's back without no shame and bro is still playing the lover boy , although i also see changes in her ...only God knows the amount he as sent to her during this lockdown i began to think
He's under spell ... Am worried , he became mumu that know one could mock because of his kindness and generosity ... Those who knows the lovers stories of his are all against him taking her back ( life isn't fair - most relationship is usual opposite one good partner and the other been bad )
So sorry i would not brief it i was writing base on my feelings thanks
am sincerely sorry for any typographical or grammatical errors
 U see y I love naija babes,,, Ur brother dey spend for another girl him don turn mumu If na me dey spend on top u now,,u go call am love "And I cry,u cry ,we cry together""jarule 2 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Brother Is Under Spell by yomi007k(m): 11:23pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
coronavirus19:
I dey o baba, shey make I show for ur side?? I get small package for u and family No worry. E get some boys wey dey owe me money since 8 years now and dem no wan pay. I need you to carry everything wey you get and go dey with all of them. I know say you dey find where uou go chill. You know say lockdown dey. So my eye dey red.  1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Brother Is Under Spell by Stillthebest: 3:52am On Apr 15, 2020 |
 He is not under any spell. He is just a weakling who got lucky dating a pretty girl(to him) then gets obsessed with her. The lady can't marry him never. Ladies don't like weaklings. She is just using your brother. she knows his weaknesses and she is taking that advantage. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Think My Brother Is Under Spell by Karleb(m): 5:47am On Apr 15, 2020 |
Your bro is a simp. Not just a relationship simp but a simp in general.
He is a kind that could easily be manipulated by people he trusts. One saving grace for people like him is that they are naturally stingy. But your brother isn't which makes his case worse.
I blame his parent though. 1 Like |
