hi happy people,
my fiancee wants us to live together on campus and i'm not too comfortable with that but she says: we will both learn more about ourselves and how to live together when eventually we get married
Well i for one don't surpport such.
i'm just wondering if it always works out between both parties
what do you think?
i need your views about this

thats whats known as live-in lovers...morally,the society frowns at it...Religiously,the holy book screams and frowns at it,Ethically the world will scream,frown and shout.Co-habitationdoes not worth it cos u as d guy will get worn out of the girl,and there is this tendency dat u guys wont get married cos u have seen it all....also if u break haer heart cos of some stuffs...na swear d girl go use follow you!!!!...so dont agree to her proposition!!!

broda,do not listen to her,cos u gna find out so much u dnt know abt her,when u finally do its not gna be funny.so jst keep the relatnship at the level it is now.NO FOLLOW WOMAN MOUTH OH.

See also: Is it wrong for a couple to live together before marriage?

girl,the guy is just trying to take advantage of you!!!don't consent to his proposal.If he wants to marry you,let him do the honorable thing by waiting till he is ready for marriage;remember,a man cannot buy what he can borrow!!!

rikkyjen:

if u break haer heart because of some stuffs...na swear d girl go use follow you!!!!...

hahahahaha lol lol how funny can this get!! lol lol

in my opinion,i dont think students on campuses should live together.whats the point?more often than not,no matter how in love you guys are, living in one anothers pocket all the time will get tiring.and from what i know it presents problems on both sides,from the guy its a case of well..WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE?and for the girl..more often than not,she will beleive the guy kinda ows her something as her status of MORE THAN A GIRLFRIEND LESS THAN A WIFE STATUS.and heaven forbid something goes wrong..i dont know,ive just seen too many campus mr and mrs situations end in disaster.its better to take things easy,enjoy the moment,yeah spend some weekends together..AND BELEIVE ME..IF I AS A WOMAN TELL MY MAN THAT I THINK WE SHOULD MOVE IN TOGETHER ON CAMPUS...NA LIE..ITS NOT BECAUSE LOVE IS SHACKING ME..ITS BECAUSE I WANNA CLOSE MARK HIM...but hey..thats my opinion...

romantic, y the rush, since u love this woman and want to marry her, then try and persuade her that it might not be such a good idea. tell her that u will be worried that she might not want to marry u if she found out about ur habits such as clippin ur fingernails in bed, peeing around the toilet seat, leavin ur clothes on the floor, leavin dirty dishes in the sink, and the many other bad habits u might have so by convincing her u can actually make her think that it was her idea to not live together in the first place.

so basically gross her out of the idea.

ethically wrong or right?

live-in-puccy-dickyyyyy
the babe wants a free accomodation and dont know how to slam it down

yea, they will both benefit from it. The girl-free accomodation, the guy- free shagging.

I am so sure that the poster is not asking for the moral, cultural or religious consequencies, i am sure it is all cos the bros wanna have her babe and still do some runzzzzzz, Poster, dont mind the babe jare, she wan spoil show, God no go gree for am

snazzydawn:

yea, they will both benefit from it. The girl-free accomodation, the guy- free shagging.

you are right there bros.

And to top it up, no be everytime condon go dey on stand-by so we will be talking about series of D and C's as well

I am not a bros abeg @ sinye

Lmao

Na accommodation problem

lol

the girl wan tye u down
anywhere u dey go she dey there
there is fire on the mountain, , run!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No be small thing o.

Whats her motive for wanting to move in with you.

Dont jeopardize your future,you still got along way to go.

The truth is most of this uni relationships no dey work o.

Guy shine your eye well well.

Often times it neva works out why familiarity breeds contempt!

If you are in just to shag her - then go ahead and do it , She will tire anyways and one of you will force the other out

If na for wifey - tell her no!

Guy, i have some story line for you, listen, when i was in school, my next door Neighbor was living with his GF. Guy you need to see what was going on in the guys house, the guy doesn't have any free time again, not even to giss with homeboys again, the whole shit was too much that the boy was looking for a way out, but it was too late for him to pull out. What are my tryin to say?? Dont even think of allowing the girl to try it, i'am telling you, you will live to regaret it at last. Please, Bros, it's just a brotherly Advise.

good move,,,my guy u don hamer lol

guy make you no accept oooooooo. na so so pressure u go jst dey?

Hmmmmmm, it was so much fun way back on campus then when I harboured one jambite for a full session. Omo, come see nackings! I nack so teyyyy, I almsot forgot I was in final year! O boy, the thing dey sweet sha ooo but e fit make you lose focus for school. And at the end of the day, una fit no marry because one thing led to another and me and the babe no eventually marry in my own case.

kimberluge:

Yeh,ryt are u sure u didn't grt any STDs?  Anyway who cares?!

No I didn't get ooo. The lady in question is married with kids now and so am I. But she called sometime ago to say "I wish I had married you"! Well, may be due to the endless straffing then but who cares?   No need crying over spilt milk 

$ugardaddy:

Hmmmmmm, it was so much fun way back on campus then when I harboured one jambite for a full session. Omo, come see nackings! I nack so teyyyy, I almsot forgot I was in final year! O boy, the thing dey sweet sha ooo but e fit make you lose focus for school. And at the end of the day, una fit no marry because one thing led to another and me and the babe no eventually marry in my own case.

U rocked her day and nite and @ the end u didnt marry her. Another man took ur leftovers. Kai!

BlueBarbie:

U rocked her day and nite and @ the end u didnt marry her. Another man took your leftovers. Kai!

Na so life be at times