actually i saw my friend's girlfriend in an hotel with some dude,tempted to tell my friend wondering whether he will believe me or not what do you think is it right tell him

There are non-intrusive ways of revealing secrets. Be ur brothers keeper; Tell, Better if she's present and U aren't attacking anyone.

Yes, even if it looks bad he will later come to realise that its a favor for him

to hell wid proofs,tell him abeg.

poster i will advice you to do it the guys way. If its your close pal and you know he can handle it.Just tell him but if its the weak type leave the poor guy to find out himself cos some guys could be so foolish that after you tell him he will go and tell the babe

how close is this your friend? if he is very very close like your main man than yes but if not forget it

o boy mind ur biz abeg, the guy possibly knows his babe is a multi-cock sucker .

It depends on what your guy or better still how serious your guy is with this gal.
i had such stuff happen around me last year when i got to know my colleague was going out with someone else and then he had this other gurl who would always come around. Quite a dicey situation sha. Use ur head.

You'v got to tell him if you really close pals. You need to have his back!

Take pictures

get an unknown number and send a text to your guy. simples

@190

Is this not the storyline of a movie called  [b]The Dilemma [/b]starring Vince Vaughn and Kevin James?

could be

Just close your month tapa like nothing happend. Believe me if you do, you will be the one breaking the relationship. Beside, how are you sure that she's having an affair with that guy?

actually my friends is so weak so won't tell him and won't want people to start thinking i broke their relationship,i know karma will catch her,i'm having different perception about ladies because she playing along her card very well. i'm helpless to my friend let him find out by himself

Does hotel equal sex and cheating
Whats wrong with a girl geting into a hotel with a dude?

lovemoi2:

Does hotel equal sex and cheating
Whats wrong with a girl geting into a hotel with a dude?

a suspicious mind would think so,but certain actions speak louder than voice

@poster
and you called yourself a FRIEND?! abeg, you are no more than acquaintances if you could act in such manner!

FIRST: why didnt you run up to the girl and ask her STRAIGHT UP what she was doing in that hotel with a dude?! her answer and demeanor would have made you understand if there was foul play or not. not saying anything to her face and then run your mouth later is considered being a biatch (in my world).
SECOND: what would you want YOUR friend to do IF they saw your girl in a hotel with someone?!
LAST: it doesnt matter if your friend believes you or not, as long as your conscience is clear. tell him what you know and let HIM make his choice as to what to do with the rat. . . . . . . . . and if he wants to use that to be mad at you then so be it.