Aunty slapped her brother in-law for taking food from her pot by himself without telling her. Brother in-law stopped eating at home to avoid further insult. Brother in-law is an undergraduate. The brother noticed and asked his brother why, he said nothing. Brother wasn't satisfied, asked his wife, aunty said ask your brother. Brother insisted on finding why so he asked other souls in the house and they told him what happened. Brother was very angry and felt disrespected by his wife who could have reported to him to handle the issue. Aunty doesn't work so brother provides everything down to maggi. Brother told wife to apologise to his brother, aunty said never. That the house is hers. Brother in-law jejely carried his luggage and left without telling anyone. Brother has told his wife to leave his house since she cannot accommodate his family members but feels free with her own family members. Aunty feels her husband is being unreasonable and seeking advise on how best to proceed. Oya, members of the advisory committee, advise We need your advice Who's to be blamed?..(Cp )

Aunty should go work on herself.
You won't accomodate your husband's people but will accomodate your own people to me i see that as selfishness.
And beside i don't see any big deal in she apologizing to her brother-inlaw she won't die if the word "i'm sorry"comes out from her mouth.

Too bad of her. She should learn to accommodate her husband's family. And the word I'm sorry has done more good than harm in life. I don't joke with I'm sorry even if I'm wrong but just for peace to reign.

PS. But when the other party is riding on my I'm sorry, I sabi give myself brain.