AdaoraJoy:
This is why I don't want to get married

come my side if you wan wear wrapper or pyjamas No b problem as long as am seeing your face is fine by for me

PrecioussB:
“Before we got married, she used to wear ‘Camisole‘ & ‘Bump-short‘ (she‘s got this charming and sexy appearance). but now she has 3 kids and she goes around tying wrapper in the house. The sight of wrapper irritates me a lot, i see it as a thing only illiterates do. I complained to her about how i feel. But she said she needs to be free at home. Her appearance is pissing me off.“
This is an ordeal of a Nigerian man, what can he do?
Please advice him.

You know, I hate it when people whine after marriage about how the other partner is no longer looking the way he/she did while they were dating. Maybe if you took initiate here fella, you would not be online telling us how you hate seeing your wife in wrapper .... WHINE, WHINE, WHINE!!!!

Her wrapping herself like a burrito is likely indicative of you(slacking off) not doing your own job in complementing her and making her feel just as beautiful as you found her to be back before you both got married. Human beings(note this is not gender specific) tend to react positively to complements paid them by people in their lives. When you don't pay your partner complements often, they tend to feel you are not as pleased with them as you used to be back before the changes that supposedly took place (e.g probably child birth, weight gain, growing old).

Why don't you begin to complement her body, get her size and buy her that bum short you want to see her in, and a a good negligee. Don't stop there! Surprise her by taking her shopping for a dress you feel she will love( don't purchase it if she hates it), and take her out wearing the purchase in question. Make her realize that you believe her beautiful in said dress.
Jeeezz! These things aren't rocket science.
Now, if she tells you that she prefers herself in wrapper than in anything else you get her, then you two, like two adults that you are, need to talk about the underlying reasons and you will learn a lot from that too, if and when you come to that bridge.

PrecioussB:
“Before we got married, she used to wear ‘Camisole‘ & ‘Bump-short‘ (she‘s got this charming and sexy appearance). but now she has 3 kids and she goes around tying wrapper in the house. The sight of wrapper irritates me a lot, i see it as a thing only illiterates do. I complained to her about how i feel. But she said she needs to be free at home. Her appearance is pissing me off.“
This is an ordeal of a Nigerian man, what can he do?
Please advice him.

Try and get knickers and tights with tops for her

You can take her to market to pick house wears

She may not have all these I mentioned at home and trying wrapper is more convenient for her

MoneyMindset:
come my side if you wan wear wrapper or pyjamas No b problem as long as am see your face is fine by for me

PrecioussB:
“Before we got married, she used to wear ‘Camisole‘ & ‘Bump-short‘ (she‘s got this charming and sexy appearance). but now she has 3 kids and she goes around tying wrapper in the house. The sight of wrapper irritates me a lot, i see it as a thing only illiterates do. I complained to her about how i feel. But she said she needs to be free at home. Her appearance is pissing me off.“
This is an ordeal of a Nigerian man, what can he do?
Please advice him.

I've been thinking of making you my friend. But how am I sure you wouldn't be tying wrapper if I just decide to take it further?