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Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Moseskito(m): 7:13am On May 23, 2020
if truely what ur saying is the truth nd ur afraid of him bcoz he is older than you or his masculine more than you then my dear I will say am not only disappointed in u but ur also a disgrace for allowing a fellow guy like you make u emotional traumatised...
the best way to stand up to a bully is also been a bully. try to forget ur fears remember u will only cry at his beatings,always make him want to fight you every time u see him nd don't hesistate to fight back even though he will beat you try that for a week nd u will see that you will be able to stand up to him anytime he trys nonsense with u or with anyother person around you...
mind you tel him mom that she should address the issue ooo b4 these house turns to a combat zone everyday
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Aliii(m): 7:28am On May 23, 2020
Ebus12:
My fellow nairalanders
Good afternoon

I have been a member for close to a year now.... Even though I have been a guest for about 2 years before joining.

I have sought advice here twice and your advice has really helped a lot. Please help me once more my people

I just got admitted into a school in the south East while my parents live in the North.

My parents (my mum especially) pleaded with me to stay with her eldest sister and her children for a while, at least for my first year in school

I didn't want it at first ... But I had to agree just cuz of the way my mom was now on my neck.
She worried I knew nothing about the east.... She wanted me to get a bit used to the East

With the help of my dad..... She succeeded in convincing me to stay in her sister's house.

My first weeks in the house was quiet peaceful and fun not untill my cousin brother started looking for his biscuits

Funny right

It seemed funny that a 23 years old dude would turn out to be a devil just cuz of an ordinary 100 naira biscuits.
Mind you ... He is the only son
He asked everyone and everyone denied taking it. He asked me and I too denied it.... Cuz I didn't take it.

He beat hell out of me... Insisting I was the thief.
We became almost enemies and didn't talk to each other for about 2 months.
Aways from that ... We reconciled tho

But he still remained a trouble to my life
Always beating me as if am an animal.... He beats his sister too.

But it seems mine is worst
He has stopped me from sitting on a particular chair in the parlour.
He bullies me ... Telling me there is nothing I, my parents, or anyone can do to him.

I received the beating of my life today because the Tv remote got spoilted and he is insisting it's me. He accuses me of virtually everything that goes wrong in the house.

I'm getting sick, depressed and it's affecting me alot.

I don't want to disturb my mum about it ... It might cause problem between she and her sister
I don't want to be the cause of anyone's quarrel with another person.

I wish to go home. And I can't go back home now ... Cuz of the Corona virus and the inter state lockdown.

Please what do I do ?
Help me out
He gets worst by the day.
I will advice you from experience,I once stayed with my aunty in Ibadan the plan was for me to finish high school there ,not because my parents were not well to do but because the lady claimed to like me and wanted I stay with her ,it was a had decision for my mum because she wouldn't want to let go her last born but my dad insist ,getting to Ibadan I saw hell the woman turn me to house boy she has a store where she cooks ,I was literally doing everything and not going to school,while her kids was going to school I watched her kids go to school everyday ..while I am in the kitchen pounding fufu,washing dishes ,she beat nonesense out of me if I mention school to her ,she only permit I eat once ,while her kids eat like 5 times and that once is very little ,sometimes I have to eat from scrap and remains of customers ..I was so scared to tell my mother because I think I we caused problem within the family ,they may call me devil for trying to break the home ,I thought no one would belive me ,my mum had to come visiting this woman bought new clothes for me ,started treating me well and and warned me not to tell my mother or else I we see ,I was so scared ,my mom ask me if I was OK there ,I told her yes with tears in my heart ..she left ...to cut the long story short ,I suffered there for years school I didn't go till one day ,I ran out of the house I went back home told my mom everything she cried and blamed me for not telling her ..I went back to school ,I have finish my university done my nysc now gotten a good job ,her children who entered before me couldn't finish ,so destiny can be delayed but not denied ,but the onus fall on us when it comes to delayed..imagine I've stayed there still in fear ,so my dear tell your mom so they know.

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Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Icyversed: 8:22am On May 23, 2020
bro,look for a way when you know he will beat you,then go and hid your phone somewhere and record the whole scene.send it as a whatsaap msg instead of telling them.

one day,he might change the game plan and molest your innocent virgin ass...trust me on this one except your lucky

sorry bro and best of wishes...
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Odogwu999(m): 9:38am On May 23, 2020
C as u dy do like woman me i no dy fear any modafoka be u giant or wat i go do u wetin pain pass death. Shebi em get balls anytime him bully u hit am 4 dia him go meloo
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Chamber2000: 9:51am On May 23, 2020
Ebus12:


Am 17 bro
Will be 18 by August
Which school are you in and which area let's send men to treat his fvck up
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Samuelxxx(m): 10:00am On May 23, 2020
guy stand up to him ....especially in public ...just make sure you give him mark ...no matter the amount of beating he give you ...na you be boss ...he won't near you again ....what are sticks for .....hit him naa...this thing don happen to me .....give the guy first attack ....
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by saintsylve(m): 10:46am On May 23, 2020
[quote author=Ebus12 post=89797602]

I can't fight him
He is older than I am

He is bigger than I am
Forget his age.... His stature is like that of a giant [/quot

Damm! I just had to laugh at the sincerity of this Op before they push you to your death.
Sorry man!

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Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by uzzyphilip(m): 10:53am On May 23, 2020
If u can't beat him, bite him very hard, make sure u challenge and beat him back.
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by NazBoss: 11:12am On May 23, 2020
Ebus12:


Am 17 bro
Will be 18 by August


I think I understand you better now, but still my advice to you is to try as much as possible to avoid him, as it is right now you are a threat to him in that house since he is the only boy in the house before you came, keep a distance from him, Thank God you have data go online download some of your course work and be reading forget about watching TV for now, finally has soon as they left travel ban make sure you travel to see your mum and explain to her your predicaments staying with her sister and tell her nothing will makes you stay with them again unless she wants you to forfeit the admission.
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Venzal: 11:32am On May 23, 2020
All of you saying OP should fight back may not understand. That yamayama cousin may be a cultist. And if op tries fighting back, he is more or less done for.
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Mypeople2(m): 11:46am On May 23, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Grew up watching and loving wrestlemania
grin grin grin grin Please take it easy o so that one day you will not give your husband smack down grin grin
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by SweetCunt97(f): 11:56am On May 23, 2020
Mypeople2:
grin grin grin grin Please take it easy o so that one day you will not give your husband smack down grin grin
Lolzzz. He's safe
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Lindalilian: 12:32pm On May 23, 2020
are you a boy or a girl, which state are you exately ??

if enugu I can refer you to my sister she's in final year in unn and still in sch and she lives alone.

if abakaliki I can refer you to my uncle he's a commissioner for work and you'll be welcomed to stay with them

if another state,I'm sorry just disappear, I mean leave the house and just take a walk don't come back home let them find you small or go to he police station and report the case they will escort you to the house and earn the bully...


believe me the guy go write statement and will never try such again, especially if you are a girl, I hate dudes laying hands on women.


or go to ya school, some non teachinf staffs will still be on some lecturers would still be in sch for one reason or the other tell them your prob, the staffs might ask you to put a call to your mum to know you'd be staying with them or the lecturer will help you go home.
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by roliks99(f): 1:11pm On May 23, 2020
nkemdi89:
At 23 you don't have sense , leave that house and get that boy arrested to teach him a lesson, na wa at your age , continue to be depressed na nonsense.

He's 17 and his cousin is 23
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by ebenmosi360(m): 1:36pm On May 23, 2020
Find a way to beat him up, people like him only leave u when u act stronger
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by ebenmosi360(m): 1:48pm On May 23, 2020
If u can't beat him up,set him up. And beat sh*t out of him anytime he tries it.. they should be bad guys around Ur street. Find some change and set him up for a beating spree
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Dharkcocoa: 4:13pm On May 23, 2020
It's a pity you have to go through that.
Same issues I'm having with my elder brother. He isn't happy anytime I'm home my presence just irritates him.
I would advice you to avoid him totally that guy is a bully and an attention seeker.


And please inform your parents, damn the consequences . it's best for your mum to have issues with her sister than have you delivered in a casket to her. Please be wise
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Kaykay999(m): 5:17pm On May 23, 2020
Give me just one round of kpekus tongue
I will beat him up for you angry
I will f**k that nigga up
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Kaykay999(m): 5:19pm On May 23, 2020
Dharkcocoa:
It's a pity you have to go through that.
Same issues I'm having with my elder brother. He isn't happy anytime I'm home my presence just irritates him.
I would advice you to avoid him totally that guy is a bully and an attention seeker.


And please inform your parents, damn the consequences . it's best for your mum to have issues with her sister than have you delivered in a casket to her. Please be wise

Incase if that your bro becomes aggressive in anyway towards you ehh just call me 080....... undecided

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Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Vyzz: 6:52pm On May 23, 2020
U dey disgrace me ooo Kukuma carry bottle break his head Ur mom would hear about it and u won't be the one to tell her. As Aba boy I b
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Hathor5(f): 6:53pm On May 23, 2020
Karleb:
You dey craze oh!

Someone is beating you and you can't tell you mum, when he kills you won't you mum hear about it.

You better pick up a phone now and inform your mum.

Bloody fresher! angry

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Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Samuelxxx(m): 9:27pm On May 23, 2020
BlackDuke:
There is something called Cameroon pepper, it works wonders on assailants who are bigger and stronger than you. Give it a try next time you brawl
boss thanks I will add that to my arsenal ...in case one mofo try me

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Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Holypriesthood: 2:30pm On May 24, 2020
You must tell your parents including your mum,'s sister. It is a must because if you don't do it now nobody will believe it has being going on for a long while now and no good decision will be taken if the complains are not consistent. So keep complaining and reporting. Once the lock down is over pack and leave that house immediately
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Livingfaithhh: 3:41pm On May 25, 2020
Ebus12:
My fellow nairalanders
Good afternoon

I have been a member for close to a year now.... Even though I have been a guest for about 2 years before joining.

I have sought advice here twice and your advice has really helped a lot. Please help me once more my people

I just got admitted into a school in the south East while my parents live in the North.

My parents (my mum especially) pleaded with me to stay with her eldest sister and her children for a while, at least for my first year in school

I didn't want it at first ... But I had to agree just cuz of the way my mom was now on my neck.
She worried I knew nothing about the east.... She wanted me to get a bit used to the East

With the help of my dad..... She succeeded in convincing me to stay in her sister's house.

My first weeks in the house was quiet peaceful and fun not untill my cousin brother started looking for his biscuits

Funny right

It seemed funny that a 23 years old dude would turn out to be a devil just cuz of an ordinary 100 naira biscuits.
Mind you ... He is the only son
He asked everyone and everyone denied taking it. He asked me and I too denied it.... Cuz I didn't take it.

He beat hell out of me... Insisting I was the thief.
We became almost enemies and didn't talk to each other for about 2 months.
Aways from that ... We reconciled tho

But he still remained a trouble to my life
Always beating me as if am an animal.... He beats his sister too.

But it seems mine is worst
He has stopped me from sitting on a particular chair in the parlour.
He bullies me ... Telling me there is nothing I, my parents, or anyone can do to him.

I received the beating of my life today because the Tv remote got spoilted and he is insisting it's me. He accuses me of virtually everything that goes wrong in the house.

I'm getting sick, depressed and it's affecting me alot.

I don't want to disturb my mum about it ... It might cause problem between she and her sister
I don't want to be the cause of anyone's quarrel with another person.

I wish to go home. And I can't go back home now ... Cuz of the Corona virus and the inter state lockdown.

Please what do I do ?
Help me out
He gets worst by the day.







Sometimes, things like this are bound to happen. Like the prayer that Jesus prayed.Luke 23:34 "Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do...."
(1) My dear, pray that God touches your cousins heart. You must be born again too, please ensure that.
(2) Let their be a reasonable gap between the two of you. Don't quarrel with him, don't fight, abuse, insult or have hatred against him, but create a reasonable gap between both of you.
(3) Speak with your parent, if need be. But since there's lockdown and you won't want it to cause a rift, then there's the need to endure. May the Lord help you in Jesus' Name. 0907 980 0917
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by olarge: 9:39am On May 29, 2020
sonnie10:
Mike Tyson was 19 when he won the world heavy weight title
Mike Tyson was 20 years+ when he did.
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by sonnie10: 9:10pm On May 29, 2020
olarge:
Mike Tyson was 20 years+ when he did.

1966 - 1985?
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by olarge: 7:23pm On May 30, 2020
sonnie10:
1966 - 1985?
He first became a heavyweight champion in November 1986 when he knocked out Trevor Berbick in a WBC heavyweight championship title bout.

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Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by sonnie10: 11:18pm On May 30, 2020
olarge:
He first became a heavyweight champion in November 1986 when he knocked out Trevor Berbick in a WBC heavyweight championship title bout.
Your are a small boy. See I watched his first win of the WBC title live.
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by olarge: 2:59am On May 31, 2020
sonnie10:
Your are a small boy. See I watched his first win of the WBC title live.
Big man when did Mike Tyson win his first heavyweight championship title?
Re: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Oblivionz5(m): 9:41am On Jun 01, 2022
Ebus12:


I can't fight him
He is older than I am

He is bigger than I am
Forget his age.... His stature is like that of a giant

Person wey you go carry pako format him head sharp sharp. I no Dey like vawlence but if it’s the last resort then so be it

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