This is a qusetion for the women out there? How Do you deal with the fact that you caught your man red hand and Like shaggy said he denied it was him untill you showed him proof.And the person he s seeing is his former girlfriend. Then he apologies(half heartedly).

Do you leave him?
Forgive and move on?

What would any of you do if God forbid you found yourself in that situation?

you need to think hard,

i have once heard it said that ex girlfriends are the strongest threat.

sometimes he hasnt just moved on from her, and he hasnt managed to leave her really. so think if i were you i would test him to see if

its me or her he really wants in his future.

sometimes men use girls when they have had a bad fight with their girlfriends. or are just on a break,

you dont wanna be babysitting a man for another woman he is going to go back to in the end.

Would anybody's reply change if I said we were married and I have a hard time forgeting the fact that he once loved his former girlfriend (maybe even more than me if I have to face the reality)

did you enter marriage knowing this fact?

i forget him nd move on with my life

I have 3 solutions:
1.Laura Bobbit style!
It is said that if a part of your body makes you sin, you should cut if off. Only that I will help the guy.

2. Flog him till he is really sorry (this one is not such a good option cos he can overpower you - so pick your battles carefully)

3. Just let him go. It'll catch up with him sometime soon and you'll find someone better (probably the one I'm most likely to do)

Il stay with him for a while, while I plan my revenge strategy.
Then I will hit where it hurts the most and wont look back.
Infidelity IS WRONG.