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Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by 0Dipo: 2:35pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Landnaira5: 2:42pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: She said she renovated the house and changed stuff around the house it’s fair to imply she does? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by wunaESQ(m): 2:44pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
call a family meeting.. meeting of elders |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by thinkmoney(m): 2:46pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso:Those are the actions of an abusive and possessive man. You don't seize or damage somebody especially a spouses things with the purpose of getting things from them. It's physical abuse and blackmail. I will advice you to be more transparent with your finance as you would want him to too (especially if he is transparent). Still, trust is earned not forcefully demanded. I have a partner that earns more than me, she does a lot for us, I have been transparent with what I get, but I have noticed, that whenever I have money, she demands and get me involved in things she normally would do on her own, till my LAST DIME. after she exhaust me, she takes up responsibility but I become powerless after and dependent on her whims and grace. I have decided to be more shrewd with my finance from now onward. She will not be disappointed whenever she discover I have been keeping back in the future, because of how she has misused my transparency now 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by belcom10(m): 2:46pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
I don't know what this generation of our want to turn to. Always thinking they are smart but foolishness is hung around their neck. A man came to seek your hand in marriage, you bonded as one. Now you can't disclose to him your finance . And you expect him to be happy and sees you as his wife. No, He can't trust you. That marriage will look like contract based. (Note: men should be independent of financial obligations from their wife. ) But wife should not take advantage of this, And acted selfish. You can support your husband too financially . It's what bring happiness to home, you got each others back. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by nwadiuko1(m): 2:48pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
I think you should be in your parent's house if you don't like your husband knowing your take home.....but you know his...... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Landnaira5: 2:51pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by chibjohn(m): 2:53pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso:You started your marriage on a wrong foundation. There shouldn't be any secret between you two. Tell your husband how much you earn. It's no big deal. If you find it so difficult to do so, you shouldn't be married to him in the first place. He doesn't have legal right to your pin nor money. But as a supportive wife, you should help out in the house. |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Millenniumlady(f): 2:54pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
ednut1:So even if i have 3mil in my acct. You can't borrow and pay my bride price or provide for my needs 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
GeneralPula: And it’s just one year ooo! Imagining 49 years of this I know this is not a true life scenario sha, a new member is just looking for reactions to an inflammatory post. |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Landnaira5: 2:55pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
kiki 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by deco22(m): 2:59pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Kekereekun123:Did you read where she said she refurbished the apartment with her own money or you just jumped to comment? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Lastmankc(m): 3:01pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Sorry op, you got married to a boy and not a man 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by rayval(m): 3:05pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
There is no advise to give in this case. You only need to hear the truth. You simply married the wrong person. If you married the right person, hiding stuffs like finances shouldnt be a problem. How can you marry someone you do not trust? |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Dthespian: 3:17pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
[quote author=aeion post=90357446]He doesn't have the right to take your ATM card away from you nor demand your PIN. If he needs money, I'm sure he knows how to ask but forcefully having direct access to your money at his choosing should be a no-no.] Aunty pls don’t listen to this fellow, It’s your marriage, build it with wisdom, patience and tolerance comments such as this will only incite and ignite tension, we’re not in the marriage with you...don’t let an outside opinion destroy your union |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Nobody: 3:18pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
chibjohn:she's doing that already. It's wrong of him to bully her by seizing her ATM, twice. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Truth001(m): 3:19pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Hello Sister, I believe you are the only one that took the oath with him on your wedding day, try and remember the content. The Bible made us to understand in Eph. 5:21 & 25 that A wife should put her husband first, as she does the Lord. A husband is the head of a house. A husband should love his wife as much as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it. You too have become one, nothing is owned by one of you again, your money, body, everything is his, while his is yours. No secret of any kind. None of you must do anything behind eachotthers back. Two of you needs to understand this. I pray the Lord will help you both and settle every storm ravaging your marriage. |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by ednut1(m): 3:19pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:nah. If i have done everything to get money but no money. Na ur money we go spend na. See u 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
[quote author=Dthespian post=90374953][/quote] The era of women being miserable in toxic marriages and staying with low value, man children who don't know how to be decent human beings is coming to an end. Why should women tolerate bullshit from men in the name of marriage 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by LINTUNE(m): 3:20pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
bigseank:very selfish woman..no mimd her jawe...i tire for naija women and their rubbish mentality |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Nobody: 3:22pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Truth001:God forbid. Husband love your wives as christ loves the church. Christ wouldn't do what her husband did. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Chinny024(f): 3:23pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
If he does by fire by force approach, open a new bank account. Wire all your money there... Chikina...Save for rainy days ooo...A child is on the way...Such man fit no even buy yam nor pepper soup when you've delivered.... That shows he married your ATM...Inukwa.. I hate men that reasons like fowl.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Mavrick2012: 3:24pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
aeion:am sorry to say,all these you wrote will only cause more harm in the young family. |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by walab: 3:24pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Be open to your husband What belongs to you belongs to your husband so also what belongs to your husband belongs to you.Share in love.1+1= 1 in marriage.Above all let Christ be the foundation of your marriage . If you are not financially transparent to him ,you are also discouraging him from being transparent to you. He is the head , you are the neck.You need each other to make the marriage work. May God bless your marriage |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
wunaESQ:That never favors women |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by walab: 3:27pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Be open to your husband What belongs to you belongs to your husband so also what belongs to your husband belongs to you.Share in love.1+1= 1 in marriage.Above all let Christ be the foundation of your marriage . If you are not financially transparent to him ,you are also discouraging him from being transparent to you. He is the head , you are the neck.You need each other to make the marriage work. May God bless your marriage ! |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by saintneo(m): 3:31pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso:Humans are naturally selfish, if you can't trust your husband even in this early time of your marriage, then why did you marry? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Landnaira5: 3:32pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by ume1000: 3:36pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Judybash93:I think the problem here is trust for instance your if wife doesn't want you to know how much she earns 1.she doesn't see a future with you 2. May be adulterous 3. Has an entitlement mentality For God sake why hide your earnings from one whom you would spend the rest of your life with Cos it will always breed curiosity and curiosity breeds all manners of imaginations |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Otiv: 3:39pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Guys let it be your prayer that in your lifetime you will make so much money that you wont have to bother about how much your wife makes . You guys obviously are not even in love to start with ! UzorChinonso: |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Judybash93(m): 3:39pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
ume1000: Yeah. You're right. My point is the husband should use another form of strategy instead of using the old forceful strategy. 1 Like |
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