These days almost every lady on social media and dating sites would say they like men who can hold intelligent conversations. The question is what type of conversations do they mean,what exactly are intelligent conversations,does she want to know what my political views are or does she want to talk about business?

Also,why can they initiate these 'intelligent conversations',I mean did they swear an oath to not do that?


Your views on this please!!


Nairaland ladies come and answer oooo!!!

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First of all; Individual differences must be put to account. That is you should know the girl and the things that interests her. Those topics you know when brought up usually ends up making her all chatty and excited to talk endlessly.

What most of them refer to as unintelligent conversations; are having close ended statementsthat often border around repetition and unnecessary questions (have you eaten, how was your night; what did you wear today) and ending the discussion there without expanding on it.

Notwithstanding, small talks are nice and can be a good way to drive into a more interesting conversation.

About why they don't initiate such conversations, it still depends on individuals.
1. Some think it's your duty to make them find you interesting to chat with; so you should do the research and find what pleases her (almost like sex lol).
2. Maybe you didn't take their submissions serious in previous conversations.

Discussing hypothetical situations can be a good discussion topic: matters relating to romance, relationships (not erotic - but depending on your communication level), career development, personal development, fears, weaknesses, strengths et al.

Long story short, know your woman and you can bring out her chatty button to even initiate such intelligent conversations herself

Typical Nigerian girls

Asking for her account details is an example of intelligent conversation.

When you tell them what they think "real" men should say... For most, you would be deemed intelligent!

Ohh some girls, intelligent conversation shouldn't be on men. A guy can't engage in intelligent conversation if he's not brilliant, reasonable and responsible.
They should simply put "they want responsible and reasonable guy"

Not all ladies sha.I've Met Some Ladies Who Initiates Friendly Conversation.As For Why They Do That, I'll Leave That For NL Ladies To Answer

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Stephenomozzy:


First of all; Individual differences must be put to account. That is you should know the girl and the things that interests her. Those topics you know when brought up usually ends up making her all chatty and excited to talk endlessly.

What most of them refer to as unintelligent conversations; are having close ended statementsthat often border around repetition and unnecessary questions (have you eaten, how was your night; what did you wear today) and ending the discussion there without expanding on it.

Notwithstanding, small talks are nice and can be a good way to drive into a more interesting conversation.

About why they don't initiate such conversations, it still depends on individuals.
1. Some think it's your duty to make them find you interesting to chat with; so you should do the research and find what pleases her (almost like sex lol).
2. Maybe you didn't take their submissions serious in previous conversations.

Discussing hypothetical situations can be a good discussion topic: matters relating to romance, relationships (not erotic - but depending on your communication level), career development, personal development, fears, weaknesses, strengths et al.

Long story short, know your woman and you can bring out her chatty button to even initiative such intelligent conversations herself

You don't and will never know a Nigerian girl enough to hit them with the right discussion....


These girls are very confuse.....


They don't really know what they want....Whether happiness or good convo or money or cars or big house or big mattress or tall black handsome man...


Every day, they will increase their list of wants in a man..... It's about time they make their own man oh.....

They are so confusing that, men don't even know how to please a woman anymore....

Intelligent conversation to women won't pass gossip, entertainment, latest fashion, latest trend, when you going to change the furniture and rebrand the kitchen, what happens in zee world, nagging about how you are not going to church, asking you maybe she is adding up, and most time I lie "babe you perfect" just to make her happy, how she is confused on which cloth to wear, how her shoes is so much that she as never wore some of them in my mind I keep wondering why you keep buying them when you have abundance, while me have only 3 pairs of shoes, how a guy irritate her at her place of work, in my mind I know she likes the guy, if I go on and on she fit suspect say na me..... Wetin concern me with your intelligent conversation, for work na joke I dey crack abi wey dey put food for table.... Just be feminine and look good am OK... If I need intelligent conversation I need logical thinking which I can not get from her, cause most women reason with emotions....

From personal experience, maby ladies who say they want intelligent discussions usually can not hold a conversation for 5mins, except the topic is shoes or bags or Nollywood movies.

Blackmoran:
Intelligent conversation to women won't pass gossip, entertainment, latest fashion, latest trend, when you going to change the furniture and rebrand the kitchen, what happens in zee world, nagging about how you are not going to church, asking you maybe she is adding up, and most time I lie "babe you perfect" just to make her happy, how she is confused on which cloth to wear, how her shoes is so much that she as never wore some of them in my mind I keep wondering why you keep buying them when you have abundance, while me have only 3 pairs of shoes, how a guy irritate her at her place of work, in my mind I know she likes the guy, if I go on and on she fit suspect say na me..... Wetin concern me with your intelligent conversation, for work na joke I dey crack abi wey dey put food for table.... Just be feminine and look good am OK... If I need intelligent conversation I need logical thinking which I can not get from her, cause most women reason with emotions....

Change your circle of women.. You have been dealing with the wrong sets of women for soo long.
Not everything revolves around latest fashion or romance stories.

yanabasee1:


You don't and will never know a Nigerian girl enough to hit them with the right discussion....
These girls are very confuse.....

I'm not talking about 100 pictures-a-day snapping; instagram and facebook uploading girls o.
We're not talking about girls whose best response are "k" and "lol".

Maybe you should change the clique of girls you're hanging around with. I have a lady (my woman) and trust me, she knows just how to blow minds with conversations that you would have to know your onions pretty well not to be swayed off.

Ofcourse, you can't know everything emotional about a woman......but you can know a great deal about the logical aspect of a woman; een if not 100%

Which is a matured statement.

Just let the questions you ask have a good reason.

Talk about your account balance and acquired properties

Davash222:
Typical Nigerian girls

Exactly

Stephenomozzy:


First of all; Individual differences must be put to account. That is you should know the girl and the things that interests her. Those topics you know when brought up usually ends up making her all chatty and excited to talk endlessly.

What most of them refer to as unintelligent conversations; are having close ended statementsthat often border around repetition and unnecessary questions (have you eaten, how was your night; what did you wear today) and ending the discussion there without expanding on it.

Notwithstanding, small talks are nice and can be a good way to drive into a more interesting conversation.

About why they don't initiate such conversations, it still depends on individuals.
1. Some think it's your duty to make them find you interesting to chat with; so you should do the research and find what pleases her (almost like sex lol).
2. Maybe you didn't take their submissions serious in previous conversations.

Discussing hypothetical situations can be a good discussion topic: matters relating to romance, relationships (not erotic - but depending on your communication level), career development, personal development, fears, weaknesses, strengths et al.

Long story short, know your woman and you can bring out her chatty button to even initiative such intelligent conversations herself

Major input!!, Thanks

donbachi:
Which is a matured statement.

huh!?

What i regarded as intellectual conversation is like me getting to know her more and if she wants to know me also

abt needing 5k urgently

have never come across such girl but the day I meet such girl eh, I will study and do research like I dey do project





well when a girl say such, one thing you need to know she's smart, I mean very smart so all you need to do is to be a general researcher in the sense you read alot, research alot, watch interesting stuff, linsten to interview, seminar, etc to accumulate alot of knowledge. but some times if a girl tell you this she mean ya thinking faculty is less than hers and need you to improve

Stephenomozzy:


First of all; Individual differences must be put to account. That is you should know the girl and the things that interests her. Those topics you know when brought up usually ends up making her all chatty and excited to talk endlessly.

What most of them refer to as unintelligent conversations; are having close ended statementsthat often border around repetition and unnecessary questions (have you eaten, how was your night; what did you wear today) and ending the discussion there without expanding on it.

Notwithstanding, small talks are nice and can be a good way to drive into a more interesting conversation.

About why they don't initiate such conversations, it still depends on individuals.
1. Some think it's your duty to make them find you interesting to chat with; so you should do the research and find what pleases her (almost like sex lol).
2. Maybe you didn't take their submissions serious in previous conversations.

Discussing hypothetical situations can be a good discussion topic: matters relating to romance, relationships (not erotic - but depending on your communication level), career development, personal development, fears, weaknesses, strengths et al.

Long story short, know your woman and you can bring out her chatty button to even initiate such intelligent conversations herself

Well said.

Blackmoran:
Intelligent conversation to women won't pass gossip, entertainment, latest fashion, latest trend, when you going to change the furniture and rebrand the kitchen, what happens in zee world, nagging about how you are not going to church, asking you maybe she is adding up, and most time I lie "babe you perfect" just to make her happy, how she is confused on which cloth to wear, how her shoes is so much that she as never wore some of them in my mind I keep wondering why you keep buying them when you have abundance, while me have only 3 pairs of shoes, how a guy irritate her at her place of work, in my mind I know she likes the guy, if I go on and on she fit suspect say na me..... Wetin concern me with your intelligent conversation, for work na joke I dey crack abi wey dey put food for table.... Just be feminine and look good am OK... If I need intelligent conversation I need logical thinking which I can not get from her, cause most women reason with emotions....

... Dramatic beings who luv to
overanalyse events.

rowosky:

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rowosky:

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