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She prefers handfan to AC. any advice on this?

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I'm shy

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I beat him up when he gets me annoyed. I am too strong for my own good so I have turned him to s punching bag. What do I do?

Ishilove:
I beat him up when he gets me annoyed. I am too strong for my own good so I have turned him to s punching bag. What do I do?

Beat him more

When she is angry she asks me to leave the house


I really don't k ow what to do

Vyzz:
When she is angry she asks me to leave the house



I really don't k ow what to do

When next she does that, show her the rent receipt.

My Landlords' daughter,

Since she returned from school, because of the lockdown.........


Hmmmmmmm
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she prefers water than tissue

Ishilove:
I beat him up when he gets me annoyed. I am too strong for my own good so I have turned him to s punching bag. What do I do?

Wow! U re so lucky u are'nt dating a man o.

She farts too much and she's not even fat sef.. what should I do!!?

ForestHill:
She prefers handfan to AC. any advice on this?

Marry her na wife material

Ugaboy:
I'm shy

Why are you shy

myles16:
She farts too much and she's not even fat sef.. what should I do!!?

We need more information so we can help you.

Does her fart smell?

Is it a silent one or the one that sounds like a thunder?

Does she fart when you have sex with her?

I met this lady since august last year, professed love to each other and started dating, though it kind of a long distance relationship cos she lives at orile while i live at agbado, but my problem is her money matter as in her needs never seems to end and i always gives to her whenever she asked...I once gave her 200k free oooo. but my concern is that she has not added any single value to my life whether in monetery or in advice or otherwise. Though she's a sales girl who earns salary on monthly basis. Am seriously worried about this trend cos i know that anything that you attach yourself to that doesn't add value to you is decreasing your value. Should i call off this relationship or tell her point blank that she does not add value to my life.

Ekejoestar:
I met this lady since august last year, professed love to each other and started dating, though it kind of a long distance relationship cos she lives at orile while i live at agbado, but my problem is her money matter as in her needs never seems to end and i always gives to her whenever she asked...I once gave her 200k free oooo. but my concern is that she has not added any single value to my life whether in monetery or in advice or otherwise. Though she's a sales girl who earns salary on monthly basis. Am seriously worried about this trend cos i know that anything that you attach yourself to that doesn't add value to you is decreasing your value. Should i call off this relationship or tell her point blank that she does not add value to my life.

With all this epistle, you still need an advise ??

ForestHill:
She prefers handfan to AC. any advice on this?

First of all, find out why she does this. You might think its weird, but look deeper, you might see a logical reason to this.
Has it caused her a life threatening cold in the past? Dig deeper sir

Ishilove:
I beat him up when he gets me annoyed. I am too strong for my own good so I have turned him to s punching bag. What do I do?

As hard as this sounds, its a serious issue if this is true.
You will end up up turning the mental health of the entire family, if you guys marry, especially the children.

A solution is this. Everyone has trigger points that shows their various levels of anger. For instance, someone might be 'normally angry' in an argument, but when he starts coming closer to his partner or raising his voice, or saying "what did you just say now?' , its a sign that the aggression or anger is entering 'red zone'

Discuss this with your partner. Discover yours. When you do, set it as a boundary. Once you get to this stage, try to walk away. This might be difficult at first, because you aren't used to backing down in a face off, so plead with your partner to help you by also walking away too if you havent done so by this moment.

Another point is to discuss in the Olen where the public are. There are certain people who no matter how angry the get, their self consciousness of crowds or people around them don't let them get angry beyond a certain point, of bring violent. If you Fall into this category, then try it.

Apart from the physical steps above, you need to add prayers to it.
You need to address the issue on all fronts, both physical and spiritual. Dont settle for only one side, it won't stop.

Lastly this issue can't just clear away immediately. You need to be patient but determined. People with worse behaviours overcame, ishi, I'm sure you can too.

Update me on your progress.

Vyzz:
When she is angry she asks me to leave the house



I really don't k ow what to do

This is a serious issue.
And it needs to be address immediately. This is because if you guys plan on getting married, every little argument will end in separation (God forbid)

Solution.
Locate the moment she is at her happiest mood, and talk to her.

Start with how much you appreciate her and love her etc. BE ATTENTIVE AT HER REACTIONS AT THIS POINT. YOU WILL KNOW WHY BELOW. Then when the blushing starts , branch into how she hurts you with this action. And how she needs to stop it.

Now note that part that you are telling her how much you love her and appreciate her. IF SHE ACTS UNMOVED OR UNINTERESTED, THEN YOU HAVE A BIGGER ISSUE.

This is because , once a woman doesn't have respect for a man, its totally a waste of time still being in that relationship or appealing to her sense of emotions.
If the above is true, we both know what to do.

ITS NO USE INCREASING YOUR SPEED IN A WRONG DIRECTION.

I wish you all the best bro. Cheers

nnamdiosu:


As hard as this sounds, its a serious issue if this is true.
You will end up up turning the mental health of the entire family, if you guys marry, especially the children.

A solution is this. Everyone has trigger points that shows their various levels of anger. For instance, someone might be 'normally angry' in an argument, but when he starts coming closer to his partner or raising his voice, or saying "what did you just say now?' , its a sign that the aggression or anger is entering 'red zone'

Discuss this with your partner. Discover yours. When you do, set it as a boundary. Once you get to this stage, try to walk away. This might be difficult at first, because you aren't used to backing down in a face off, so plead with your partner to help you by also walking away too if you havent done so by this moment.

Another point is to discuss in the Olen where the public are. There are certain people who no matter how angry the get, their self consciousness of crowds or people around them don't let them get angry beyond a certain point, of bring violent. If you Fall into this category, then try it.

Apart from the physical steps above, you need to add prayers to it.
You need to address the issue on all fronts, both physical and spiritual. Dont settle for only one side, it won't stop.

Lastly this issue can't just clear away immediately. You need to be patient but determined. People with worse behaviours overcame, ishi, I'm sure you can too.

Update me on your progress.

Thank you for your kind advice. Let me give you a brief background-

He is very tall and well built, almost 6'4, while I am plus sized and a 5'5. As a result of our height difference he is always chooking my head under his armpits. His armpit smells 'man man' and I have warned him severally not to be playing this kind of radarada play with me but everything is always a joke with him. I told him not to look at my small height o, I am strong o. You, he did not hear.

One day he didn't have his bath and he stuck my head under his stinky pits again. That did it. Something snapped in me.

I got a stool, climbed on it (my hand cannot reach his face) and smacked him across that loveable, very handsome and troublemaking face. You should have seen the shock on his face . Lol.

He sha slapped his own back. We fought long and hard that day but I won because all the fufu and banga I eat is not for fun.

Since then I use my fists to express my displeasure. He says he is still with me because I am not moved by his looks when I am going turbo on him. Yeah, it's not healthy. The relationship is... toxic but there's a certain method to our madness. We fit each other.

Ekejoestar:
I met this lady since august last year, professed love to each other and started dating, though it kind of a long distance relationship cos she lives at orile while i live at agbado, but my problem is her money matter as in her needs never seems to end and i always gives to her whenever she asked...I once gave her 200k free oooo. but my concern is that she has not added any single value to my life whether in monetery or in advice or otherwise. Though she's a sales girl who earns salary on monthly basis. Am seriously worried about this trend cos i know that anything that you attach yourself to that doesn't add value to you is decreasing your value. Should i call off this relationship or tell her point blank that she does not add value to my life.

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Hello bro. Trust me as hard as it sounds, a lady who truly lives you won't act so. You might ve amazed to discover that although she displays this sort of behaviour with you, she might ve doing the very opposite with some other guy.

Let's try a simple experiment. Call her now and tell her you need xyz amount of money very urgently and immediately. Make it a l
Moderately big in figures.

This are the possible relations from her.
1. I dont have. Look else where.
2. I have but I want to use it
3. Where so I get that kind of money from na?
5. Me thats a sales girl ? Where do I get it from?

Replies like this above are red flags. But...

1. I have but I can give u half.
2. I don't have but what do WE do
3. Come and take.

The above are green flags. It shows what affects you, affect her too

I'm not saying that the above tests are complete litmus test. No. I'm just trying to prove a theory here...when a lady really loves you, you problems becomes hers and she tries to solve them with you.

Try it and let's see. If she gives a reply within the green flag, then its just a mindset or character in her that you need to talk about. Try the recommendation above.

Whatever happens, take it in good faith. Cheers buddy

nuelyoyo:
We need more information so we can help you.

Does her fart smell?

Is it a silent one or the one that sounds like a thunder?

Does she fart when you have sex with her?

.exactly

Ishilove:

Thank you for your kind advice. Let me give you a brief background-

He is very tall and well built, almost 6'4, while I am plus sized and a 5'5. As a result of our height difference he is always chooking my head under his armpits. His armpit smells 'man man' and I have warned him severally not to be playing this kind of radarada play with me but everything is always a joke with him. I told him not to look at my small height o, I am strong o. You, he did not hear.

One day he didn't have his bath and he stuck my head under his stinky pits again. That did it. Something snapped in me.

I got a stool, climbed on it (my hand cannot reach his face) and smacked him across that loveable, very handsome and troublemaking face. You should have seen the shock on his face . Lol.

He sha slapped his own back. We fought long and hard that day but I won because all the fufu and banga I eat is not for fun.

Since then I use my fists to express my displeasure. He says is still with me because I am not moved by his looks when I am going turbo on him. Yeah, it's not healthy. The relationship is... toxic but there's a certain method to our madness. We fit each other.

Lol. Now I get.

Truth is, this is actually supposed to be a sort of play /fight...but I'm bothered that along the line, it might turn to something bloody. Let me explain.

Its a know fact that many cases if domestic abuse, (even in the particular fight that ended the life of one of the partners), didnt start all violent. Most started with a certain small push, or small slap. But at the end, it led to death. THATS ALSO WHY THE SURVIVING PARTNER IS MOSTLY IN SHOCK BECAUSE THEY SUDDENLY REALIZED, HOW DID WE GET HERE.


so, there is a strong chance (God forbid), yours could end there...especially when the man realizes that , I'm the man, I have to show extra strength....that extra strength is the issue. It might Introduce weapons, greater physical strength, etc (cause I'm having a strong feeling, your man is holding back not to hurt you)

Thank you for realizing its toxic. Therefore it needs to END. realize that even during normally play, a very healthy person can fall and just give up. How much more in small fist fights.

Now I realize that, (based on your illustration above), you are the initiator. Ishi, you really need to control you. I'm guessing you have lots of brothers or stayed around boys when growing up. Girls like that have being 'trained' to act like this. Lol.

But jokes apart, it has to stop. Try using the implantation plan in gave initially. Its something you both will do. Together. Cheers

nnamdiosu:


First of all, find out why she does this. You might think its weird, but look deeper, you might see a logical reason to this.
Has it caused her a life threatening cold in the past? Dig deeper sir

lol.. Dude relax, seriously..

Ishilove, i need to start buying weed from your supplier...

nnamdiosu:



Lol. Now I get.

Truth is, this is actually supposed to be a sort of play /fight...but I'm bothered that along the line, it might turn to something bloody. Let me explain.

Its a know fact that many cases if domestic abuse, (even in the particular fight that ended the life of one of the partners), didnt start all violent. Most started with a certain small push, or small slap. But at the end, it led to death. THATS ALSO WHY THE SURVIVING PARTNER IS MOSTLY IN SHOCK BECAUSE THEY SUDDENLY REALIZED, HOW DID WE GET HERE.


so, there is a strong chance (God forbid), yours could end there...especially when the man realizes that , I'm the man, I have to show extra strength....that extra strength is the issue. It might Introduce weapons, greater physical strength, etc (cause I'm having a strong feeling, your man is holding back not to hurt you)

Thank you for realizing its toxic. Therefore it needs to END. realize that even during normally play, a very healthy person can fall and just give up. How much more in small fist fights.

Now I realize that, (based on your illustration above), you are the initiator. Ishi, you really need to control you. I'm guessing you have lots of brothers or stayed around boys when growing up. Girls like that have being 'trained' to act like this. Lol.

But jokes apart, it has to stop. Try using the implantation plan in gave initially. Its something you both will do. Together. Cheers

Thanks dear. My brothers are around his size (mum says I was playing truancy the day God was sharing height)

simplelex:
Ishilove, i need to start buying weed from your supplier...

Bad belle

myles16:
She farts too much and she's not even fat sef.. what should I do!!?

she needs to clean up her stomach with purge medicines. Then make daily use of meds that aid digestion e.g kelp supplements.
And ofcourse watch what food combo she eats.