joseph1832:
Personally I believe this post by the OP goes both ways. This doesn't just apply to women but men as well.

Yes, it goes both ways, but a woman’s situation is more delicate.

She’s fated to be the disadvantaged one depending on the choices that she makes.

So she’s got to be extra smart and careful about the choices she makes.
I feel so sorry for girls who are wasting the prime years of their lives getting into meaningless relationships... partying away... and spending all their money on frivolities!

They’ll wake up one day, the good men are gone... no career to fall back to, no tangible investment, biological clock ticking, womb destroyed, or saddled with a baby they’ll keep struggling to raise.

Foolishness is too costly!

Kccheechy:
is ishilove not saying the truth?? Didn't Choima abandon her education to follow Davido upandan?? Has Davido married her legally? Is she not one of his babymamas? I thought she will be the last-bustop for Davido but I was wrong. After all the praises and global hyping he gave to chioma, he went ahead to get his makeup artist pregnant. If only she gave herself some respect, refused to become a baby mama for him and not throw herself at him, maybe he would have taken her seriously.

on the contrary, may be she wouldn't have been as popular as she is today.

Never forget, she Chioma is popular today because of Davido and also because she chose to have a blind eye towards his many sexual activities.

In life you must learn to play politics decisively or you'll find yourself replaced.

Ishilove:
Tell this to Chioma


The only thing she is known for is being Davido's girlfriend and mother of his illegitimate child.

That's a wrong term to use on any child

We are not in the 11th century

Desist from using such words

A child is a child
Period

MoodyQueen:


Okay.

Since you wouldn't accept your wife as an equal because you paid her bride price, well then you should have no qualms accepting other women.

After all, you only paid your wife's bride price.

So let's take about equality for other women.

.

With great pride, most girls these days loose thier sense of morality. They dump common sense like it's toxic. They choose to be lied to and brainwashed like it's the best and only option in the market. They want a good and honest relationship, but they wanna take advantage of it. They've made it a custom to attract men with nudity /indecency, but they do not realize, nudity (big bress, big yansh, figure 8 and other nonsenses) doesn't keep a man!

Ladies need to realize they only attract respect buy being modest, and responsible.

Getting attention online and offline won't help them, and will never be enough!! It only leads to heartbreaks and depression!

If life is a competition, nobody is a winner!

Learn to be at peace with yourselves

Learn to talk/caution yourselves regularly.

Do not be negatively influenced by by friends and society at large.

Let your happiness and contentment come from within.

There are good men out there, there are good ladies out there! But bad eggs don overshadow the good ones.

Lastly,

As we live each day, let's spread Love and Common Sense. The world needs both!

Peace!!

Anuoluwa1234:
Nice write up.. thanks for the reminder .
Ladies now a days, really need to add more values to themselves.. sincerely ..
Most females out there now, are filled with misplaced priorities.. even in sch, but once u are well groomed, you won't fall peer pressure easily..
Money, money money, everyone shouting give me the bag , as if someone collected their bags in the first place.. . Well, I can't blame them, the situation of the country self is not pleasing at all..
Thanks once again, for the reminder..

Which of the bag dem dey talk because I no understand

PrimadonnaO:


Yes, it goes both ways, but a woman’s situation is more delicate.

She’s fated to be the disadvantaged one depending on the choices that she makes.

So she’s got to be extra smart and careful about the choices she makes.
I feel so sorry for girls who are wasting the prime years of their lives getting into meaningless relationships... partying away... and spending all their money on frivolities!

They’ll wake up one day, the good men are gone... no career to fall back to, no tangible investment, biological clock ticking, womb destroyed, or saddled with a baby they’ll keep struggling to raise.

Foolishness is too costly!

Exactly, this mistake is really too costly for ladies but they won't understand . Instead they will be competing with men for who is more foolish.

MoodyQueen:


I can offer the same thing a man can offer.

Pe pe ri pe pe p e ri pe pe, no go dey do pass yourself X2ce

Premiumwriter:
pesin go pay ur bride price and u want make him see u as equal?

For which planet?

Bride price...how much?

Ishilove:
Tell this to Chioma


The only thing she is known for is being Davido's girlfriend and mother of his illegitimate child.

Do you know her bank account balance? No?

FuckTheWorld:
[s][/s] Shut up!
See who's talking... Smh
This world is indeed filled with Hypocrites...
Not every guy is a pusṣy worshipper!
Get a life and fk off!
Cc: WICKEDfucker

U can't face me Alone, u had to call ur brother..
Man up oh u Simp

Ishilove:
Tell this to Chioma


The only thing she is known for is being Davido's girlfriend and mother of his illegitimate child.

Haba, wetin d girl do you nah


Gist between 2 girls

Girl 1: I am broke
Girl 2: you don't have a boyfriend?

Me and my aproko: do girls now work at "boyfriend limited liability company"

HantaVirus:
How dumb ass posts like this makes front page is appalling

It goes both ways nigga, a woman who wants to be treated as a Queen must be ready to treat her man like a King...It shouldn't be a gender biased shit

Tha Fvck

Instead of wailing, you shud create an intelligent post That will make front page na.


Dumb fellow..uno even thank God say u get opportunity for ur life to dey for nairaland

Ok we've heard

FuckTheWorld:
There's nothing nice about his write-up. The guy is a Hypocrite. Pusṣy worshipper and Pusṣy ass niggà. Don't be deceived.

PrimadonnaO:


Yes, it goes both ways, but a woman’s situation is more delicate.

She’s fated to be the disadvantaged one depending on the choices that she makes.

So she’s got to be extra smart and careful about the choices she makes.
I feel so sorry for girls who are wasting the prime years of their lives getting into meaningless relationships... partying away... and spending all their money on frivolities!

They’ll wake up one day, the good men are gone... no career to fall back to, no tangible investment, biological clock ticking, womb destroyed, or saddled with a baby they’ll keep struggling to raise.

Foolishness is too costly!

You've said it all like really if u talk dey will say u don't know the in-thing or u are a JJC

good advice but respect yourself because you actually respect yourself and not because you're hoping a man will love you.

Ishilove:
Tell this to Chioma


The only thing she is known for is being Davido's girlfriend and mother of his illegitimate child.

When u hear she is running her PhD programme I pray you won't be shocked.

With other business and properties to her personal hustle.

As far as it is Nigeria, that thing you are reading and acquiring knowledge to achieve , Someone else can get with Just a phone call.

DenreleDave:


Forget it.. Davido made her known jare.. She is known for notin except for Davido

Forget it..true Davido made her known but then na person God go send to you as a helper na...
She was already a chef before Davido came in the picture...

DenreleDave:
Don't push yourself on any guy, place yourself on a platform of respect.. Don't force any guy to love u, u wash his cloth, warm his body whenever he feels cold, sex him whenever he is Hot, u cohabit with him when he has nt made any move to wife you. You don't have a plan, no focus, all you know is him. You depend on him for everything you want, you have abandoned yourself and personal development.. All you just want his make him feel okay, he keeps achieving his but your own is halted.

Pussy loses value over time, it's not worth invest your future on.. Wear and tear depreciation.

Some of you even abandoned your education for a guy because he is already rich, hence, you don't need a certificate, you don't need a skill, you don't need any hustle... It will shock you when he starts treating you like a trash.

Short story: I have a female frnd (Shola, nt real name), she has a frnd (bisi). Bisi met a guy when he was in school, well to do guy. Bisi got pregnant for him and she dropped out coz the guy is very okay... The guy even rented a shop for her and fast forward, he started misbehaving.. The girl na drop out, she no get any skill notin notin.. All she have is herself and what she offered the guy (pussy). Even their kid is with her mother since the guy has finally ignored her.. Bisi came to Shola now coz she needs a place to stay and a job.. Shola was like when Bisi dey enjoy her man, the money n all, Bisi no remember her but Shola helped her secured a job now sha..

My point : don't let any guy deceive you with I will take care of you.. I will set up for you, you don't need any skill or cert... Don't sacrifice your future for money, develop yourself...

Don't let guys see you as an object of ridicule.. The truth is once serious guys hear that u r a single mother or hear a story that one guy housed u for like years and he didn't marry, he will think twice about you..

Moreover don't live your life for a man, live because you are a lady of value which no man can toss any how..

Be wise..... Don't sacrifice your future on the altar of love... Build yourself.. Respect yourself.. See ur man as a co-factor not as the main determinant..

We are all men and women of value

This is IT!

DenreleDave:


Instead of wailing, you shud create an intelligent post That will make front page na.


Dumb fellow..uno even thank God say u get opportunity for ur life to dey for nairaland

I don't conversate with S.S.C.E holders like you... We're miles apart...Even my dog looks healthier and more attractive than you..

Broke ass motherfucker with no Glory.

Bleep you.

FuckTheWorld:
There's nothing nice about his write-up. The guy is a Hypocrite. Pusṣy worshipper and Pusṣy ass niggà. Don't be deceived.

He might be a pussy ass nigga as u said but at least he made sense. focus on the message not the messager.

HantaVirus:


I don't conversate with S.S.C.E holders like you... We're miles apart...Even my dog looks healthier and more attractive than you..

Broke ass motherfucker with no Glory.

Bleep you.

Short cut.... Kindly take and rest in p...




My mosquito is healthier than you

See as ur glory dey shine inside showglass

Decency is needed in a good relationship.

The couple needs it.

PrimadonnaO:


Yes, it goes both ways, but a woman’s situation is more delicate.

She’s fated to be the disadvantaged one depending on the choices that she makes.

So she’s got to be extra smart and careful about the choices she makes.
I feel so sorry for girls who are wasting the prime years of their lives getting into meaningless relationships... partying away... and spending all their money on frivolities!

They’ll wake up one day, the good men are gone... no career to fall back to, no tangible investment, biological clock ticking, womb destroyed, or saddled with a baby they’ll keep struggling to raise.

Foolishness is too costly!

the thing here is they don't know this. They sometimes see themselves or believe themselves to be like men.

MoodyQueen:
Lol. Just see me as an equal.
I don't want or need any worship from a man.

But you are never an equal to the man in a marriage. In what normal, working system have you seen two equal heads?

Starz825:

Forget it..true Davido made her known but then na person God go send to you as a helper na...
She was already a chef before Davido came in the picture...

Did u know Chioma b4 davido brought her to limelight?

FuckTheWorld:
This one boyfriend don dump am

Short cut to ur problems

Ishilove:

Am I lying?

That's how useless a Igbo wife is to a Yoruba husband....
Chioma brought pussy as the only value into her marriage...watch as the marriage scatter in no distance time.

Nice write up but many of them will just read and pass and pretend they've leaned something while they have not. They will be busy loving up instead of developing themselves.

Ishilove:

Lol. She is a chef because her lover came online and raved about her cooking. I can cook well too but does that make me a chef? As for the endorsements, also her lover's influence.

At times you need someone to lift you. If her partner lifts her, then what's the sin in that? You are just a hateful, embittered soul.

If you are not careful, you will die before your time consequent of the bitterness your soul emits.