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Matured Mind Please. No Insult by iykeklef(m): 3:43am On Jun 23, 2020
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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by iykeklef(m): 3:47am On Jun 23, 2020
My brothers I really need help cry
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by paqman: 3:54am On Jun 23, 2020
Go for a deliverance bro. At a certain point in life if you are having wet dream and you can't last longer when having sex , someone is manipulating your body against your wish it might be a witch , it might be a spirutual wife . You gat a battle ahead of you

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by Anfield247(m): 3:56am On Jun 23, 2020
It's ur mindset, when have sex, stop thinking it's too sweet. Let ur mind travel far from what ur are doing.

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by RoyalBlu(f): 4:02am On Jun 23, 2020
These symptoms are pointing to an untreated infection.

Please do well to go for thorough test and screening.

You'll be fine.

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by iykeklef(m): 4:06am On Jun 23, 2020
Please how much will the test cost me?
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by iykeklef(m): 4:08am On Jun 23, 2020
paqman:
Go for a deliverance bro. At a certain point in life if you are having wet dream and you can't last longer when having sex , someone is manipulating your body against your wish it might be a witch , it might be a spirutual wife . You gat a battle ahead of you
someone once told me something like this before. But I never believed. Thank you very much sir
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by iykeklef(m): 4:09am On Jun 23, 2020
RoyalBlu:
These symptoms are pointing to an untreated infection.

Please do well to go for thorough test and screening.

You'll be fine.
please how much will the test cost me sir
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by iykeklef(m): 4:12am On Jun 23, 2020
Anfield247:
It's ur mindset, when have sex, stop thinking it's too sweet. Let ur mind travel far from what ur are doing.
I've tried this method several times and still get disappointed. Even the breathing trick. Mehnn I'm just tired. My friend adviced me to take trams 200mg, but to my greatest surprise it didn't work!!

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by RoyalBlu(f): 4:18am On Jun 23, 2020
iykeklef:
please how much will the test cost me sir


It doesn't cost much. Just go to any good Lab close to you.

I'm a woman tho smiley

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by RoyalBlu(f): 4:20am On Jun 23, 2020
iykeklef:
I've tried this method several times and still get disappointed. Even the breathing trick. Mehnn I'm just tired. My friend adviced me to take trams 200mg, but to my greatest surprise it didn't work!!


Thank God it didn't work for you. Please stay away from such hard drugs. It ain't worth it at all.

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by iykeklef(m): 4:34am On Jun 23, 2020
RoyalBlu:



It doesn't cost much. Just go to any good Lab close to you.

I'm a woman tho smiley
sorry. I didn't check your profile. Thanks

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by alphaRego01(m): 6:21am On Jun 23, 2020
Frustration can encourage all this rubbish in a mans life like masturbation.try to change ur current way of living.is it family pressure? Peer pressure? Just reevaluate urself and find were de negative energy is coming from..and neva forget to pray and ask God for divine consolation. because it is more spiritual as it is physical

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by Nobody: 6:44am On Jun 23, 2020
iykeklef:
someone once told me something like this before. But I never believed. Thank you very much sir



Sorry sir, but it's no witch....

It's your mentality and your natural build up.....

You can do a quickie before the .ain sex, it will help you to last longer during the main session.......


We all have our natural build up

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by Nobody: 6:45am On Jun 23, 2020
iykeklef:
I've tried this method several times and still get disappointed. Even the breathing trick. Mehnn I'm just tired. My friend adviced me to take trams 200mg, but to my greatest surprise it didn't work!!


Drugs will not help you
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by Nobody: 6:47am On Jun 23, 2020
RoyalBlu:



Thank God it didn't work for you. Please stay away from such hard drugs. It ain't worth it at all.


Aswr.....

The thing does no good ......

It can easily lead to death during sex.....


I dunno exactly, but it ain't really bad to last 2 minutes,at least if you can do 2minutes for 5 or six rounds cheesy smiley wink

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by callmeRichie(m): 7:01am On Jun 23, 2020
A wet dream is still a normal thing for males bro. We can't control our subconscious mind, so that's a norm. And your premature ejac wasn't a result of this! Don't get it twisted.

You've not been sexually fit before.

1. Stop masturbation, if you do too much of it.

2. You need supplements, so go for consultation.

And watch your Rod of Moses scatters the seastongue

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by skinny419(m): 7:20am On Jun 23, 2020
iykeklef:
Lemme go straight to the point. I've been experiencing wet dream since 2011, wake up sometimes in the morning and boom, my boxer Don wet. Please this thing is really destroying me. Before my sperm was thick but now it's watery. The 3 problem i have now are
1. Having wet dreams
2. Watery sperm
3. I release before 2mins during intercourse.
My brothers please help. God bless
Dis is serious..U nid 2 pray every morning, mid night. stop everyform of masturbation n porn..may GOD help u.

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by iykeklef(m): 8:10am On Jun 23, 2020
alphaRego01:
Frustration can encourage all this rubbish in a mans life like masturbation.try to change ur current way of living.is it family pressure? Peer pressure? Just reevaluate urself and find were de negative energy is coming from..and neva forget to pray and ask God for divine consolation. because it is more spiritual as it is physical
thanks
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by iykeklef(m): 8:12am On Jun 23, 2020
I do watch porn sometimes sha grin
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by iykeklef(m): 8:14am On Jun 23, 2020
Thanks all.. I appreciate smiley
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by Eobikoru: 8:14am On Jun 23, 2020
No be everything be Deliverance , bros something's in life r mental, during sex don't just think of the pleasure just back with mind set of reaching 20 minutes
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by IyaTola: 8:16am On Jun 23, 2020
Very simply because your prostate gland has begun making semen, the white goop, and your testicles have begun making sperm cells, so that you can make babies. When there is too much, and you’ve held it in too long without release, joysticks get erect and hard in your sleep.

All males. they stiffen up and throb. That’s what they do. It’s like an exercise. If there are too much fluids built up in the body, it has to be released. The body will make it release in your sleep so that when the penis is hard, it will begin pumping all that excess goop out. It is much more fun, pleasurable, and controlled when you let it out while awake, if you masturbate. That way, you have control over where all that goop goes and when. You don’t have to wake up with sperm all over your bed. Most men usually woke up when they began my wet dreams, the few times they’ve had them, and thier penis was erect and they was orgasming, squirting their sperm out. Most guys, realize what’s happening and masturbate the rest of the way to finish the orgasm.

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by IyaTola: 8:19am On Jun 23, 2020
iykeklef:
Lemme go straight to the point. I've been experiencing wet dream since 2011, wake up sometimes in the morning and boom, my boxer Don wet. Please this thing is really destroying me. Before my sperm was thick but now it's watery. The 3 problem i have now are
1. Having wet dreams
2. Watery sperm

3. I release before 2mins during intercourse.
My brothers please help. God bless
I'd say two nocturnal emissions a month is totally normal for a 20-something male, but it's a personal thing, so maybe it's "more frequent than usual" for you?

The only cause I know of for nocturnal emissions is a condition called ALOS, Acute Lack of Sex. If you wish to make them go away, the only cure is having more frequent orgasms while awake.
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by Leezah(f): 8:37am On Jun 23, 2020
iykeklef:
Lemme go straight to the point. I've been experiencing wet dream since 2011, wake up sometimes in the morning and boom, my boxer Don wet. Please this thing is really destroying me. Before my sperm was thick but now it's watery. The 3 problem i have now are
1. Having wet dreams
2. Watery sperm
3. I release before 2mins during intercourse.
My brothers please help. God bless
It’s common to equate sexual prowess with sexual stamina — although, amazing-and-short sex is almost always preferable to awful-but-long banging. Most people might not want to admit that they couldn’t make it past the five minute mark, but research shows almost half of men orgasm in two minutes or less.

A 2017 survey by British intimacy gadget retailer Lovehoney found that the average sex session is a manageable 10 minutes (19 if you include pre-intimacy). The good news is that according to research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, 10 minutes is right in line with how long people want sex to last. According to the study, seven to 13 minutes is a "desirable" length of time to be going at it in the bedroom. But if your sex life feels like a hundred meter dash and you need a 400 meter relay to get off, here are some things you can do to improve your mileage.

1. Have him masturbate beforehand. If you've seen There's Something About Mary, you know that having sex without masturbating is "like going out there with a loaded gun." Ejaculating an hour or two beforehand makes it harder for a man to come quickly. As Dr. Jane Greer, relationship expert and family therapist, puts it, "You can build up arousal again with slow and intimate pre-intimacy with your partner, so the guy's excitement is initially satisfied and he can better pace himself and sync up with his partner's rhythm."

2. Take advantage of men’s refractory period. Who says sex needs to be limited to just one session? This one won’t work for everyone, but marriage therapist Lisa Thomas recommends starting things up again a few minutes after he ejaculates. “Many men experience less sensitivity during the second erection,” Thomas explains. As long as you don’t mind waiting the few minutes (or switching back to pre-intimacy), and he can get it up relatively quickly, you should have better results in round two.

3. Try something new and out of the ordinary in bed. When you've been with the same partner for a while, your routine sex positions can make his body anticipate coming, and thus come a lot sooner. New positions and sensations will distract him and make him last longer. "The more awkward and unfamiliar, the better," says Greer.

4. Try edging. When he's about to orgasm, have him stop and wait about a minute or so before going back at it. Everyone has an orgasmic point of no return, an "ejaculatory inevitability" as sex researcher Dr. Ian Kerner puts it. Edging trains his body to delay that point so he can spend more time on the edge (and more time pleasing you).

5. Squeeze the base of his penis. This is an old one that comes courtesy of sex researchers Masters and Johnson. You can do this with your hand or using a cock ring. It quite literally stops him from ejaculating. Think of it like bending a hose in half to stop the flow of water, but definitely do not bend his penis in half under any circumstances. Just give it a firm grip.

6. Have him do kegels, yoga, and pilates. All of these exercises strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which help him control orgasm spasms. (And yeah, dudes can do kegels too).

7. Try perpendicular sex positions. This is technically an outercourse position, but it's a way to avoid the most sensitive areas of the penis (specifically, the underside of the head, where a lot of the nerves are located). "Don't actually enter her, but let her glide back and forth along the top of the shaft," says Kerner. Spoon or face each other on your sides, and it can still be enjoyable without making him rush to orgasm.

8. Medicate. In some situations, your partner may want to consider seeing a doctor. A variety of prescriptions are available if premature ejaculation is a serious issue that's negatively affecting your relationship. And while there are over-the-counter supplements that tout their ability to improve a guy’s stamina, your best bet is to go through someone that knows what they’re talking about. Guys can check in with a urologist to see what the issue is and what steps can be taken. And as a general idea, it’s best to avoid supplements you can buy at a gas station.

9. Grab thicker condoms. You should always practice safe sex, so just switch up your condompurchases and instead get your partner something a little thicker (and if for whatever reason you aren’t using condoms, using one will probably dull sensations for him as well as keep you both protected). Keep in mind that it’s still important to make sure you find something that fits right for him. And never double-up on condoms. Double-bagging can lead to issues, like say, losing two condoms in your vagina.

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by SavageResponse(m): 9:19am On Jun 23, 2020
iykeklef:
Lemme go straight to the point. I've been experiencing wet dream since 2011, wake up sometimes in the morning and boom, my boxer Don wet. Please this thing is really destroying me. Before my sperm was thick but now it's watery. The 3 problem i have now are
1. Having wet dreams
2. Watery sperm
3. I release before 2mins during intercourse.
My brothers please help. God bless


You might need to see a psychologist
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by Gman26: 9:44am On Jun 23, 2020
Stop watching porn, stop masturbating for some weeks and you will see a difference. It's psychological.
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by earthrealm(m): 6:11pm On Jun 24, 2020
Leezah:
It’s common to equate sexual prowess with sexual stamina — although, amazing-and-short sex is almost always preferable to awful-but-long banging. Most people might not want to admit that they couldn’t make it past the five minute mark, but research shows almost half of men orgasm in two minutes or less.

A 2017 survey by British intimacy gadget retailer Lovehoney found that the average sex session is a manageable 10 minutes (19 if you include pre-intimacy). The good news is that according to research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, 10 minutes is right in line with how long people want sex to last. According to the study, seven to 13 minutes is a "desirable" length of time to be going at it in the bedroom. But if your sex life feels like a hundred meter dash and you need a 400 meter relay to get off, here are some things you can do to improve your mileage.

1. Have him masturbate beforehand. If you've seen There's Something About Mary, you know that having sex without masturbating is "like going out there with a loaded gun." Ejaculating an hour or two beforehand makes it harder for a man to come quickly. As Dr. Jane Greer, relationship expert and family therapist, puts it, "You can build up arousal again with slow and intimate pre-intimacy with your partner, so the guy's excitement is initially satisfied and he can better pace himself and sync up with his partner's rhythm."

2. Take advantage of men’s refractory period. Who says sex needs to be limited to just one session? This one won’t work for everyone, but marriage therapist Lisa Thomas recommends starting things up again a few minutes after he ejaculates. “Many men experience less sensitivity during the second erection,” Thomas explains. As long as you don’t mind waiting the few minutes (or switching back to pre-intimacy), and he can get it up relatively quickly, you should have better results in round two.

3. Try something new and out of the ordinary in bed. When you've been with the same partner for a while, your routine sex positions can make his body anticipate coming, and thus come a lot sooner. New positions and sensations will distract him and make him last longer. "The more awkward and unfamiliar, the better," says Greer.

4. Try edging. When he's about to orgasm, have him stop and wait about a minute or so before going back at it. Everyone has an orgasmic point of no return, an "ejaculatory inevitability" as sex researcher Dr. Ian Kerner puts it. Edging trains his body to delay that point so he can spend more time on the edge (and more time pleasing you).

5. Squeeze the base of his penis. This is an old one that comes courtesy of sex researchers Masters and Johnson. You can do this with your hand or using a cock ring. It quite literally stops him from ejaculating. Think of it like bending a hose in half to stop the flow of water, but definitely do not bend his penis in half under any circumstances. Just give it a firm grip.

6. Have him do kegels, yoga, and pilates. All of these exercises strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which help him control orgasm spasms. (And yeah, dudes can do kegels too).

7. Try perpendicular sex positions. This is technically an outercourse position, but it's a way to avoid the most sensitive areas of the penis (specifically, the underside of the head, where a lot of the nerves are located). "Don't actually enter her, but let her glide back and forth along the top of the shaft," says Kerner. Spoon or face each other on your sides, and it can still be enjoyable without making him rush to orgasm.

8. Medicate. In some situations, your partner may want to consider seeing a doctor. A variety of prescriptions are available if premature ejaculation is a serious issue that's negatively affecting your relationship. And while there are over-the-counter supplements that tout their ability to improve a guy’s stamina, your best bet is to go through someone that knows what they’re talking about. Guys can check in with a urologist to see what the issue is and what steps can be taken. And as a general idea, it’s best to avoid supplements you can buy at a gas station.

9. Grab thicker condoms. You should always practice safe sex, so just switch up your condompurchases and instead get your partner something a little thicker (and if for whatever reason you aren’t using condoms, using one will probably dull sensations for him as well as keep you both protected). Keep in mind that it’s still important to make sure you find something that fits right for him. And never double-up on condoms. Double-bagging can lead to issues, like say, losing two condoms in your vagina.

Proffesoress,
Wehdone o grin
Good job, though

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Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by Franktom247(m): 6:28pm On Jun 24, 2020
Anfield247:
It's ur mindset, when have sex, stop thinking it's too sweet. Let ur mind travel far from what ur are doing.

bros how na which motor my mind go enter like this GOD IS GOOD will fit this kind travelling right
Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by paulolee(m): 8:17pm On Jun 24, 2020
i know wet dreams is Caused by too much accumulation of semen in ur body and it discharge by itself in order to produce more but what i dnt know is how it correlates with the watery sperm and quick ejaculation..

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