fieryy:
I'll wait till all the broke Single dudes come here and act as if they are all it


But OP, to be honest. It's irritating , but I guess different things for different folks

Strokes

BuddhaPalm:
It's ok to give one's wife an allowance, especially if she doesn't work.

You could also give your girlfriend some upkeep money, if you can afford it and you feel she deserves it.

Prostitutes and escorts are expensive, so a little upkeep for a girlfriend might be better value for money.

In which world are prostitutes and escorts expensive? And how's spending on your girlfriend any different from prostitutes and escorts?

Enlighten me

Thegamingorca:




Lmao! Issues...baby no please, don't step on what's left of the sliver of glass remnants on the floor of my already shattered heart.

Back then, I was waging a one man war on the entire thread for purely comic relief. I'm not at all what you think of me, infact, most of your friends will vouch for me. Offline too. Well except for those who haven't witnessed that bit.

I really dont like the fact that this persona has festered and lingered in your mind till now, vilifying the entirety of my moniker's being. Fierry, it doesn't always end so salty with me

fieryy:


Oh darling, it was very much understood

'Or worse, he is after kpali in a foreign land'
'Asylum seekers will soon have rights'

I just know you have issues, especially based on the thread where I first encountered your moniker.

It might just break your heart that I 'm not going to entertain it. I'm too much of in a good mood, maybe some other day

Get a room you two!

Because he jst want to

This is nt fair...allow him give u wat he can offer.Can u also do d same for him?

fieryy:


Oh darling, of course there are many options out there, but think about it. The better, the more expensive

Ladies, how much do you charge. I want to know how much to be expecting monthly

Omar09:


Strokes

Well, I guess different strokes for different folks

ibkayee:
How common is it in Nigeria for the question to be phrased like it’s a prevalent issue that needs tackling or something like the average Nigerian husband can even afford it

For the very very very rare ones that can, if anything, I don't see anything unreasonable with giving a full-time housewife a regular 'allowance', 'stipends' etc for upkeep, a working wife/girlfriend not so much however whatever a couple want to do/are comfortable doing with their money is their prerogative

The operative word here is salary nor housekeeping money or whatever it is you want to call it.

SweetCunt97:
In civilized societies it is called Upkeep Allowance. It's definitely not mandatory but men who feel like so tend to do it so their women will look good and sort out stuffs on their own without having to ask.

I used the word salary not housekeeping allowance.

lefulefu:
they call it maintanance fee not salary

What are you maintaining and why is it your responsibility as a man who is not her father to be doing that?

duchaB:


Dija, you don go vacation come back..
Na this matter u carry land bah!
We don miss you, u dey do like Rentaghost!!

Covid vastly changed my schedule....they have been trying times work wise.

I'll be sincerce I give my babe cash periodically and its just a thing of , take this manage, and likewise when I am broke I get from her. Unless you are not dating a matured lady and honest lady. A reasonable lady will understand but not a slay queen.

MissRaine69:

Covid vastly changed my schedule....they have been trying times work wise.

Edey everywhere.. Pele!

MissRaine69:

The operative word here is salary nor housekeeping money or whatever it is you want to call it.

I said upkeep, not housekeeping, there’s a difference

Salary would be a regular payment for her to use on whatever personal thing she likes, upkeep (the operative word) falls under that

It’s nonsense!

pcguru1:
I'll be sincerce I give my babe cash periodically and its just a thing of , take this manage, and likewise when I am broke I get from her. Unless you are not dating a matured lady and honest lady. A reasonable lady will understand but not a slay queen.

Man wey sabi.

SweetCunt97:
In civilized societies it is called Upkeep Allowance. It's definitely not mandatory but men who feel like so tend to do it so their women will look good and sort out stuffs on their own without having to ask.

It also helps the man plan, his finances. Once I marry I’ll discuss what she needs for basic upkeep and household even if she works and I trust her to be reasonable about it. It’ll help me plan how to utilise what’s left of my income. Note I’m talking about wife here.

As for those who do such for GFs na them know I can’t do it. I can definitely help her with cash and gifts sometimes but not placing her on salary. Salary for what?

kokaneprodigy:

It also helps the man plan, his finances. Once I marry I’ll discuss what she needs for basic upkeep and household even if she works and I trust her to be reasonable about it. It’ll help me plan how to utilise what’s left of my income. Note I’m talking about wife here.

As for those who do such for GFs na them know I can’t do it. I can definitely help her with cash and gifts sometimes but not placing her on salary. Salary for what?

You a reasonable man

ibkayee:
How common is it in Nigeria for the question to be phrased like it’s a prevalent issue that needs tackling or something like the average Nigerian husband can even afford it

For the very very very rare ones that can, if anything, I don't see anything unreasonable with giving a full-time housewife a regular 'allowance', 'stipends' etc for upkeep, a working wife/girlfriend not so much however whatever a couple want to do/are comfortable doing with their money is their prerogative

You're 6ft4 in height, I'm an inch taller but i wonder how often u get to meet people/guys taller than u generally

EmperorCaesar:


You're 6ft4 in height, I'm an inch taller but i wonder how often u get to meet people/guys taller than u generally

Lol why are you quoting a post from 2020

ibkayeebbn:

Lol why are you quoting a post from 2020

No mind me...

Just answer the initial question

How often?
Plus, is being taller than u one of your criteria for choosing men?

EmperorCaesar:



No mind me...

Just answer the initial question

How often?
Plus, is being taller than u one of your criteria for choosing men?

I’m not 6’4

Just the way not every man can get away with certain things, not every woman can get away with this one.

To get this treatment, She will have to be fine AF (solid 9+/10) with big yansh and classy. You can't be average looking.
Also very fine NATURAL face to ensure beautiful children, not the type that if you remove layers people will run.

The Self-ginger thing of "I'm a 10" won't cut it. You gotta actually be that shit from an objective viewpoint outside of your own head in a way that is totally out of your control or self-delusion.
You don't get this treatment for just existing as a NATURALLY ugly, basic or just-okay looking woman.

There is no reason for doing that because relationship isn't a job description. Relationship is not for one person, it is for both parties. If an adult want to go back to childhood memories, let her go back to her mummy's womb to be rebirth the second time and not to remain an adult with zero responsibilities.

A relationship where a party sees herself as been in an employment situation is bound to be exploitative rather than mutually beneficial. Such i don't subscribe to a bit.

When relationship is parasitic I repudiate it .