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Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by Yinkagbo(m): 4:21am On Jul 17, 2020 |
[quote author=soonest post=91543262] My mum and dad got separated when I was 3years and my sister was 5years......my dad did most of the work at home,from cleaning to washing and providing for the family till I graduated.....there are still real men out thr...same with women.....I knw of a couple that are in this mess.....The husband had an car accident many years ago,lost his spinal cord ....it's the wife working and providing for the family....after so many years(13years) of loosing contact with them I saw the man's sister and I asked about her brother and the wife.....I was surprised that the wife is still with the man,but this time the woman is not working but it's the man that is working,what she do is drive the man to work and pick him from work,run errands for him and so on,in sort she is always on standby for the man.....the sad aspect is no kids. Those in oau can testify to what I am saying,because the man is a lecturer at one of the department....can't mention the name of the department....infact the woman na real woman oooo,the man was an under graduate when he had an accident,but both are already together as couple (I don't know how this happened) but after the incident he had a friend(course mate) that do help him out with going to school to attend lecture and school work till he graduated...at a time the friend stopped assiting him cos this brother is guru in book as result he dey clear exam with good result so friend dey envy him .it's long story....with all my super story... Just to say real women still exist.....all in all may God no let bad things happen to us...amen. 4 Likes |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by atoleybaba(m): 6:00am On Jul 17, 2020 |
LadySarah:I wonder where you people normally see Ur stat....99% bawo? I am not understanding |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by atoleybaba(m): 6:15am On Jul 17, 2020 |
cococandy:you have not heard of care givers before? So he can't hire a care giver while he goes to work? Why are you making life difficult for yourself all because you want to prove that had a man be in her shoes, they won't fair better? ....the truth is anybody no matter the gender might not remain faithful. It is not a gender thing at all!!!.but the ones that have the fear of God will. Most especially Jehovah's witnesses. Cos they know that ones they are married, you do carry means you don carry. Na for life no matter what happens. Except on the ground of fornication. Even if na case of domestic violence, what they can do is sepàrate and remain like that. Back to the issue, this is why it is often adviced you marry your best friend. Someone that will regard you as blood in that way, you won't be scared they will leave you in time of distress. Tho truth be told cos we are humans, there is every tendency for the healthy one to cheat 2 Likes |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by crafteck(m): 6:23am On Jul 17, 2020 |
missjo: Im a man, i pray it doesn't happen to me, if it does, i pray the woman can find the things that make her happy which i can no longer give, if you love someone, you would make sacrifices |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by Acidosis(m): 6:55am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Blackmiserable: Since the fall of man, love has become the ultimate thing. |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by Parisian: 7:20am On Jul 17, 2020 |
At the bolded, a survey abi research was carried out in America and it was found that most women would stay with a sick or disabled partner whereas most men wouldn't. Infact the ratio of men to women who stayed with their partners who were sick is just disheartening. Yet these NL boys will want to demonise women. A family friend of ours died yesterday in her parents house because her husband had taken her back to her parents when she fell ill. My dad's sister died this year also and that was after her husband not only abandoned her but fled from their home when she fell ill and guess what, the said man is even a pastor. How many Nigerian men do you see get taken back to their parents house for care after they fall sick? But it's an everyday occurence for woman who fall sick. That is to tell you that men cannot do 1/10th what women do in terms of sticking with a partner for betterbof worse. cococandy: 3 Likes |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by Fearcom(m): 7:41am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Saintmary: Yes! Yes I would! Till the very end! For your information there're many men who's wives are invalid and are being taking care of by their husbands. I'm not making a general statement but a statement of sad facts and bitter humility |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by HonNEAT: 7:46am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh:We Won't Hear, My Husband Hit Big Contract, Now That He Is Very Rich, Should I Leave Him? |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by JustcallmeFavou(f): 7:53am On Jul 17, 2020 |
missjo: Exactly! |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by JustcallmeFavou(f): 7:54am On Jul 17, 2020 |
It's such a terrible thing she has to go through at this period in time. She knows what she wants, let her look into her hearts for answers and decide what's best for her. Different strokes for different individual. I wish her all the best!!!! |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by rigarmortis: 8:06am On Jul 17, 2020 |
miniziter: Two words......... Yinka Ayefele 1 Like |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by Nobody: 8:27am On Jul 17, 2020 |
thorpido:okay I heard it isn't curable ! Cant imagine my preeq not standing |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by thorpido(m): 8:37am On Jul 17, 2020 |
armylord:Well some suffer erectile dysfunction related to stress.That can be cured if the stress factors are taken care of. |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by grandstar(m): 8:44am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Marriage is fort better and for worse. The principled thing to do is to stay (Read Psalms 15:1,4c). Adultery is also wrong. She should pray for endurance. We shouldn't forget they have a child to gather. The child's life will be wrecked if she leaves the man. 1 Like |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by Nobody: 9:07am On Jul 17, 2020 |
thorpido:lol, this life no just balance at all! Thanks tho, I learned a lot |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by ogawisdom(m): 10:01am On Jul 17, 2020 |
miniziter: Cucumber still dey market the last time I checked 1 Like |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by Blackmiserable(m): 10:46am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Acidosis:. Love? The ultimate thing. I must laugh. The divine pleasure when the creatures engage his attention can not be quantified. That is basically why he created us. Love is just one of a trillion things the creature can do bro. Like a movie, God is interested in the life of mortal man. |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by frankobinna(m): 10:49am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Cucumber does not have muscles and milk. Don't forget that the "milk" is responsible for the fertilization of the egg. And the milk is a first class protein � |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by Acidosis(m): 11:06am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Blackmiserable: God is interested in the life of mortal man. That's interesting. What about the life of the young man with a spinal cord issue? |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by Blackmiserable(m): 11:20am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Acidosis:... Looks like we are going on a tangent. I am trying to draw your attention to one basic truth taken for granted too often. What happened to him is just one of several things and situations surrounding his life. Life is like a movie only the great creator and his armies of angels can watch. That is probably one of God's favourite pastime. |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by miniziter(m): 11:26am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Juliearth: Please tell us the implications. |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by FireRain: 11:44am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Simple question is 'what if you are in the same situation as your husband, how will you feel if he walks out on you in your darkest period? Marriage is not for children. |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by romenna: 12:11pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
For those commenting rubbish, do you know what rate awaits you Tomoro? Becareful |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by spiceadole: 12:34pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
If I am in the woman's shoes,I will divorce him and move on. Let his family sort him out. If the tables were turned,he will abandon me immediately. Men who brag about having concubines if their wives decline to have sex even if its once,is that the same man that would stay for years without sex? Will a man stay put by his bedridden wife's side,cleaning her poo,bathing and feeding her? The woman should leave him. That's my honest advice. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. This life no balance and e no fit balance. 2 Likes |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by spiceadole: 12:36pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
grandstar: Lol..Adultery is wrong now because it involves a woman. Same men will be hailing and promoting having side Chics. Double standards!. Anyway,she doesnt need to commit adultery. Just divorce him and move on. |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by grandstar(m): 12:38pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
spiceadole: I'm a Jehovah's Witness. Marriage is for better for worse. God is not sexist. Man is. |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by spiceadole: 12:51pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
grandstar: Hypocrite! |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by grandstar(m): 1:02pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
spiceadole: Why? |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by PhilipReigns(m): 1:09pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
dangervu:60 years behind precisely |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by Yeeyo: 2:07pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Saintmary:is for better and for worse, I will stay |
Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by Saintmary(f): 2:25pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Parisian:Word!!!!
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Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by LawyerGodwin(m): 3:32pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
miniziter: This is a very delicate situation. And I feel for you. This is the test of true love. Loving unconditional is what love is supposed to be. Loving when the conditions ain't right. (This is why many give up and divorce or breakup). Love is a decision a choice you make and u stick with it in all seasons. Get a house help to ease the stress. You can take him to meet miracle workers. And even if he doesn't get healed, you can talk to him and discuss sex with a third party. (If you two will be cool with it no problem.) The choice is left to you to stay or leave. No one can decide that for you. |
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