rokiatu:

Dude you put yourself in this mess, get yourself out of it.

What were you thinking getting serious with two girls at the same time?

And do you know what I noticed abt stoopid girls? They always date jerks.

Onyema1:

@livedit you sound so intelligent and stable. Good comment!

livedit:

It seems to me that you do care for "Plan A" more than you do for "Plan B".  From reading your post, outside of you telling us that "Plan B" loves you, you haven't said anything else positive about her.  The simple fact that you haven't told "Plan A" about "Plan B" shows you are sparing her feelings.  Frankly, "Plan A" sounds like she has alot going for her. I'm basing this on all the positive things you've said about "Plan A".  Then too, you did include that you loved "Plan A" so much and that you loved "Plan B".  So your emotions appears to be deeper towards "Plan A" than "Plan B".  

Have you prayed and asked God for wisdom and guidance with this situation? Maybe you need to ask yourself some questions; when you are with either girl, how do they make you feel inside when you're spending quality time together?  Putting aside their feelings, which one have more in common with you?  What attributes do you find more appealing and similiar to yours?  Which one have the qualities you are seeking that you can actually see yourself with in the long run?  

You never mentioned how long you've been dating the two women.  To me, "Plan B" seems like she is more of a "back-up" on BOTH of your sides.  Who's to say once someone else comes along that "Plan B" finds more interesting that she won't leave you again?  With that being said, she has proven not to be trustworthy.  The decision IS your's, and you do need to make a decision and stick with it.  Don't be double-minded. Because the bible says: a double-minded man is unstable in ALL his ways.  So you seriously need to pray and seek God on this one.  But to me, "Plan A" sounds like the winner.  But again, that's just livedit's opinion.

African_queen:

@post.
Just try and gain confidence for yourself just cos plan A is older doesn't mean she's powerful, she's human too. We can't decide for you who to follow cos you wear d shoes. . . Just take your time and decide and pray always.

Orton1_0:

^
wtf??
Your comment no meke any sense - die

skyone:

God bless u jare Orton, i was even expecting something more sensible i know say na rubbish she drop

African_queen:

I don't know what to say to you. . .

skyone:

i can now say "sorry love" cos in your other post you sound very intelligent

African_queen:

Its ok but we're not here to dictate who's dumb or intelligent. There's freedom of expressing one's feelings and opinion. You can't say cos yours is wiser you'll have to undermine d other person words. No advice is lost or silly. . . Pls do not underrate people. It doesn't apply to just you but to others who do

Orton1_0:

^
wtf??
Your comment no meke any sense - die 

Mr_Orton:

Aq, don't it twisted babe,
I meant your comment and not you, so stop hurting

African_queen:

I'm not hurting. . . Am just saying

Ok-good-to-know, Thanks for the understanding.
Have a nice weekend darling

Mr_Orton:

Ok-good-to-know, Thanks for the understanding.
Have a nice weekend darling

Mr_Orton:

Ok-good-to-know, Thanks for the understanding.  
Have a nice weekend darling