Most office romance/relationship always ends in sad tales.One just hit the rock last year in my office,a relationship they started seven years ago hits the rock,it became obvious as they were no longer relating with one another as they use to do,i also observed that this is affecting their productivity as they lost focus on the job.It became worse when the guy brought his marriage invitation card to the office.everyone was happy that their long time relationship will now be cemented,but when we saw another name in the card,everyone started raising eyebrews.to cut it short,we all attended the marriage except the fiancee.After the marriage,the girl became a laughing stock in the office,especially among her female colleagues,this really affected her.Methink that if that relationship is a bit distant,it would'nt have affected her as such,what do you think?

Office romance needs to be as discrete as possible, advertising it to everyone will only make you an object of ridicule if it does not end in marriage

Office romance is never a good idea for whatsoever reason... That is why most organizations don't allow husband and wife working in their establishment.

Hmmm....come to think of the thrills and fun.
Forget about marriage.

Office toilet fvck...most shameful fvck of all.

They worked together and dated for seven good years? I believe the spark died

Kobicove:
Office romance needs to be as discrete as possible, advertising it to everyone will only make you an object of ridicule if it does not end in marriage

you cannot hide a relationship in an office,people will discern with your body language,especially from the women,you know they 're very emotional,aside that,people might see you together outside.it's difficult.

RoseyJ:
They worked together and dated for seven good years? I believe the spark died

Are you saying dating for a long time and knowing each other is bad and also does not lead to marriage.

coputa:
Are you saying dating for a long time and knowing each other is bad and also does not lead to marriage.

By the time two people who are matured and earning income have dated for at least 6 months they should know where the relationship is going.

Have can you date a co-worker for 7years?

What were you studying in the lady?

Every relationship should be well defined from the beginning, to avoid problems of this nature. Is it just for fun or there is a long term plan ahead? The couple should also not deceive themselves that because they plan to get married later, the dating must definitely lead to marriage. If they find themselves incompatible at some point, they both should be matured enough to let go amicably without any party having feelings of being "used and dumped".

And on a lighter note, I always marvel at people who can work at the same place for 7-10yrs without getting bored and itching for new challenges.

thesicilian:
Every relationship should be well defined from the beginning

Relationship cannot be defined from the onset because they 've not know themselves very well first.those relationships that 're defined are'nt sincere,they are flukes.

Business and emotion is never a good mixture.

Unless the woman is very smart and so patient

Kobicove:


By the time two people who are matured and earning income have dated for at least 6 months they should know where the relationship is going.

Have can you date a co-worker for 7years?

What were studying?

studying ke?

that is called all round time wasting

Fidelismaria:

_{the golden rule still stands
never mix business with pleasure}

gbagaun! gbagaun! gbagaun!
correct

Some romance are like that

Eastson:
Business and emotion is never a good mixture.

Unless the woman is very smart and so patient

can a goat outsmart an escape when it is in the jaws of a crocodile while swimming in the middle of a lake!

thesicilian:
Every relationship should be well defined from the beginning, to avoid problems of this nature. Is it just for fun or there is a long term plan ahead? The couple should also not deceive themselves that because they plan to get married later, the dating must definitely lead to marriage. If they find themselves incompatible at some point, they both should be matured enough to let go amicably without any party having feelings of being "used and dumped".

And on a lighter note, I always marvel at people who can work at the same place for 7-10yrs without getting bored and itching for new challenges.

then imagine a man and a woman in a vision less relationship for over 7 years.
that is die naah!

coputa:
Are you saying dating for a long time and knowing each other is bad and also does not lead to marriage.

dating to know someone is good but when after 6 months the two don't come to terms wether they are to get married or not but played pseudo marital status for 7 years to eventually part ways.
there is absolutely nothing but regret