In love with this lady I met at church. There was no other way to introduce myself and I've been waiting for the oppurtunity since DECEMBER. Last sunday, I walked straight up to her and told her that I wanted to get to know her better, to be friends, I got her number that day!! wasn't easy tho. Now we've gone out once, lunch and she has been playing the cat-and-mouse game WELL since that day. Thing is I want her for keeps,but I don't want to play that "I want to marry you" wild card that drives some babes into a frenzy. I want her to enter it with her full faculties,and I want her to ENTER it i.e Agree to see me on a permanent basis! Any tips People? I'll welcome all, er, most, sorry reasonable replies.

get to know her 1st

be her friend(no strings attached) 1st

earn her trust and loyalty

then when the time is right(believe me you will know) y'all can take it to a whole " nuva " level _{(the marriage wild card or whatever )}


have fun