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Never Forget To Say: by kelechiodo(m): 5:20pm On Aug 24, 2007
After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said I love you but I know this other woman loves you
and would love to spend some time with you.
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.
That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. "What's wrong, are you well," she asked? My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.
"I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you," I responded. "Just the two of us."
She thought ! about it for a moment, and then said, "I would like that very much."
That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.
She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.

"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, "she said, as she got nto the car. "They can't wait to hear about our meeting".
We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady.
After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.

"It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small," she said. "Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor," I responded.
During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation- nothing extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other's life.

We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you."
I agreed.

"How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I got home."Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her.

Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.

An attached note said: "I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other
for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son."

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: "I LOVE YOU!" and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve.

Nothing in life is more important than God and your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till "some other time."

Pass this along to everyone with an aging parent, to a child, to an adult, to anyone with a parent. Here's hoping today is better than yesterday and tomorrow is even better!
Re: Never Forget To Say: by Njoy1(f): 6:39pm On Aug 24, 2007
Boo hooo hooo, you've got me crying like a baby. cry cry cry
Re: Never Forget To Say: by Bolarge(m): 12:31pm On Aug 27, 2007
Oooh my God! . . . . . . That was sooo touching. . . . cry cry cry



Who took d tissue from my drawer sef? angry
Re: Never Forget To Say: by bibi4u(m): 12:38pm On Aug 27, 2007
na wa , don de call my mama n papa now, even my sis n old man 4 villa go hear this one grin grin grin grin
Re: Never Forget To Say: by ayeesha: 12:41pm On Aug 27, 2007
how touching cry
Re: Never Forget To Say: by sillyboy(m): 12:53pm On Aug 27, 2007
I dont see anything touching about this! angry

I've seen this "pass it to others mail@ before !

I'm indifferent!
Re: Never Forget To Say: by Sallywendu(f): 12:58pm On Aug 27, 2007
this is really a lesson not just to read and feel sober but to act on it as fast as possible. It's also a lesson to the ladies, u see women are small gods, they inspire things into their men, so ladies don't be too possessive okkkkkkkkkkkkk
Re: Never Forget To Say: by ssRhino: 1:02pm On Aug 27, 2007
This is a great story that is touchy, thanx for the reminder, will make sure i do that often, May her soul rest in peace
Re: Never Forget To Say: by godslead(f): 1:02pm On Aug 27, 2007
@sillyboy  hw wont u be indifferent?
Re: Never Forget To Say: by cammax7(m): 2:35pm On Aug 27, 2007
Very touching. Almost broke my heart. And to think that I've been in that same realm of violini for the part two weeks coz first my friend lost his mom, and then my stepmom lost her mom too, and the same week my mom lost her father. And the thing that pained them all the most, they didn't have one last chance to say I love you. Touching story. I feel for you. Pele
Re: Never Forget To Say: by jkpretty(f): 2:46pm On Aug 27, 2007
quite touching! cry
Re: Never Forget To Say: by sleekdot(m): 3:47pm On Aug 27, 2007
hmmmmmmmmmmmm
Re: Never Forget To Say: by Sacarsity(m): 1:11pm On Aug 28, 2007
so touching cry cry I will reach to my mum now
Re: Never Forget To Say: by tpia6: 1:36am On Jan 30, 2011
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