MiztaSpark:
I have a girlfriend I am in love with and I believe she is also in love with me. She has all the qualities I need in a woman and I plan to marry her very soon. I am a very simple guy and she is also a very simple girl that hardly likes flexing and keeping friends. I don't have a lock on my phone because am clean and she can pick up my phone anytime to use it and go through it if she likes and vice versa but I don't even check her phone for anything because I am building trust in her.
I noticed there is a number that usually call her put she never picks the call. I just decided not to ask her or say anything about it but as a human being with a heart, I was beginning to suspect maybe she has a guy somewhere and whenever she is with me she refuses to pick up his call. So one day I decided to go through her phone messages and I saw that same number sent many text messages about how he misses her and how he is angry she doesn't take his call. I didn't see any message sent by her so I was suspecting she might be sending messages too but deletes them. I felt really hurt and had to bring the issue up with her. She told me she met the guy sometime ago when she went for her sisters wedding and the guy was asking her out but she didn't really like the guy so when she met me and we started dating she told the guy she now has a man but the guy has refused to give up and she can't just change her number because of just the guy. She said she didn't know how to tell me about it because she felt I might misunderstand it or react wrongly which if she had done I would have honestly understood her.
So in my presence she picked her phone and called the guy to tell the guy that her man is very unhappy about the way he calls and send her messages and warned him to please respect her relationship by not calling her again.
To my surprise the guy did not heed to that warning and still calls and sends messages even when she never picks the call or reply the messages. Now she is pleading with me to pick up the call anytime he calls to talk to him man to man.
I am not someone who believe in talking to another guy or confronting another guy because of a woman's issue. So I just want to get some advise about this to see if its advisable for me to speak with the guy.
Thanks

Zzor:
you have no business with the guy, face your woman Hustle and don't be a redpill simp

Kriss216:
What if you're the side guy?

Think about it.

MiztaSpark:
I have a girlfriend I am in love with and I believe she is also in love with me. She has all the qualities I need in a woman and I plan to marry her very soon. I am a very simple guy and she is also a very simple girl that hardly likes flexing and keeping friends. I don't have a lock on my phone because am clean and she can pick up my phone anytime to use it and go through it if she likes and vice versa but I don't even check her phone for anything because I am building trust in her.
I noticed there is a number that usually call her put she never picks the call. I just decided not to ask her or say anything about it but as a human being with a heart, I was beginning to suspect maybe she has a guy somewhere and whenever she is with me she refuses to pick up his call. So one day I decided to go through her phone messages and I saw that same number sent many text messages about how he misses her and how he is angry she doesn't take his call. I didn't see any message sent by her so I was suspecting she might be sending messages too but deletes them. I felt really hurt and had to bring the issue up with her. She told me she met the guy sometime ago when she went for her sisters wedding and the guy was asking her out but she didn't really like the guy so when she met me and we started dating she told the guy she now has a man but the guy has refused to give up and she can't just change her number because of just the guy. She said she didn't know how to tell me about it because she felt I might misunderstand it or react wrongly which if she had done I would have honestly understood her.
So in my presence she picked her phone and called the guy to tell the guy that her man is very unhappy about the way he calls and send her messages and warned him to please respect her relationship by not calling her again.
To my surprise the guy did not heed to that warning and still calls and sends messages even when she never picks the call or reply the messages. Now she is pleading with me to pick up the call anytime he calls to talk to him man to man.
I am not someone who believe in talking to another guy or confronting another guy because of a woman's issue. So I just want to get some advise about this to see if its advisable for me to speak with the guy.
Thanks

PureGoldh:
Bros.... slow down


I really don't like it when a guy bash his fellow dude just because of a woman.

Yes,it's good to man up but not in the aspect....See eeh,if anything negative comes out of the bashing (ain't praying for such to happen thoo) but trust me,the lady in question go just skyrocket.

Seems am the only guy that can never fight because of a lady.

N/B the only woman I can fight for is my Mom....just she and her alone

Enskynelson:


First thing, if she is serious, let her block the guy's calls. Most android phones has that. Block calls, block his messages. Block him on Whatsapp too. If he calls with another line, let her block same again. Sooner or later, the guy will stop.

sammoe:
For starters, can she block the said number?

MiztaSpark:


She said she had done that about three times now and the guy keeps using another number which is why I actually observed the number wasn't even saved with any name or anything.

Zzor:
you have no business with the guy, face your woman and don't be a redpill simp

MiztaSpark:


Bros, same with me I can't fight another man because of a woman. My woman is pleading with me that I should try to speak with the guy nicely so that he knows that she is really with someone and its like a disrespect to me that she has kept telling him but he is not taking that and she is really getting irritated by his ignorance.

PureGoldh:


If that be the case...I will advise you to do it maturedly.

The lady should fix a meeting/date between she and the dude.....the venue should be in an open space...maybe a bar..

In the middle of their convo...the lady should bling you...then you pull up...when you get there....don't ever shout at the dude.

Let the conversation be slow and steady...make una reason the matter...Talk to the dude like a gentleman..let him see reasons with you why he should hollup for you...if the dude is wise enough ..he will heed to ur wordings and leave the girl for you....but if he persist...then ride along with ur lady....but watch ur back

I wish you all the best.

Romangalactic:
Lol, you like a man dat can take charge of you

Zzor:
who doesn't

Enskynelson:

Let her keep blocking the new numbers. Before I got married, my girl was in same situation with some guys. We kept blocking till they got tired. Today we doing fine as husband and wife.

Romangalactic:

Lol, it's good. Check the other side,some messages are hanging with no response

PureGoldh:


If that be the case...I will advise you to do it maturedly.

The lady should fix a meeting/date between she and the dude.....the venue should be in an open space...maybe a bar..

In the middle of their convo...the lady should bling you...then you pull up...when you get there....don't ever shout at the dude.

Let the conversation be slow and steady...make una reason the matter...Talk to the dude like a gentleman..let him see reasons with you why he should hollup for you...if the dude is wise enough ..he will heed to ur wordings and leave the girl for you....but if he persist...then ride along with ur lady....but watch ur back

I wish you all the best.

gunners160:

I don't think dhr is any need for meeting d guy. Some men can b so immature and at the end of the day a fight might end up coming up.
Phone call will do the trick

gunners160:

I don't think dhr is any need for meeting d guy. Some men can b so immature and at the end of the day a fight might end up coming up.
Phone call will do the trick

MiztaSpark:


I thought so too, but then with his behavior what if he doesn't listen to me and keeps doing same

Ugaboy:
She can do all that to impressed u, but she can still apologise behind you u
she would've block the guy if she do care about u before you find out
FEAR WOMAN O
dont confront fellow man over a woman...#guyscode

ABANGWABOI:
#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv


Totally childish, the earlier you lots learn to accept the things you can't change the better for y'all..
What stops your girl from rejecting his calls and blacklisting his number.. Talk to your woman and not the dude.. You would end up coming off as a desperate kid..
Enough said.