LiquidMerc:
1.Any woman that likes fighting always, leave her.

2.Any woman that likes gossiping, leave her, she could put you in trouble one day.

3.Any woman that can't use your picture as her wallpaper, leave her.

4.Any woman that doesn't like cheap things leave her. She might consume all your money and make you poor forever.

5.Any woman that can't manage the little you give to her, leave her.

6.Any woman that shouts at you, leave her.

7.Any woman that cheats on you, leave her.

8.Any woman that slaps you, leave her.

9.Any woman that embarrasses you in public, leave her.

10.Any woman who treats you bad, leave her.

11.Any woman who insults your parents in your presence, leave her.

12.Lastly, any woman that likes money more than you, leave her.


I concur with all you've mentioned here but not number 3
#copied

Stephenomozzy:
Lol...exactly.


Meanwhile, OP......There's no woman who will not atleast tick a perfect 7 of the things you listed above. The thing is just compromise; you're not perfect yourself. So you just gotta hold on to someone who you can tolerate their excesses. Because everyone has excesses (baggage)

FahBuLous:

I strongly disaqree with u on this one....
I have seen lots of women that can't do any of the above listed thinqs... I mean they can't even do one...

Stephenomozzy:


You're either living in denial or they're in pretense or you have not really known them on a personal level to reach a conclusion as you have just made now.

Trust me, just like you.....I have a tendency to see the MORE of the good in people, however that shouldn't stop us from being objective with the reality of certain things that pertain to humans and their personality. You can't really know a person completely. Unless you have some as your personal social experiment

Maybe 7 is an exaggeration. but at least 4 out of the 12.

[1] Which woman doesn't really like money? (It could be in form of career, business, et al)
[2] Women are humans, yes, when she's pissed off she would raise her voice; even though she doesn't mean it; but the heat of the moment can make her do that.
[3] Some women don't see any logical backing behind using their partner's picture as a wallpaper; it doesn't mean they love you less. That's just their way.
[4] Different people have varying levels of financial maturity. Women also have needs....usually trivial, but some vital ones cost more than men are willing to accept. Not talking about the overly materialistic ones tho.
[5] Different people see "cheating" in different ways. It does not only mean having sex with another. To some it could be emotional cheating. No lie....men and women cheat emotionally at different times. Fidelity is not letting it get into sex or ruining your union.

et al

FahBuLous:

You mean I can't know someone completely for over 5 years now?? Or can one pretend for 5years??
I have known my Gf for over five years now, and she is not found wanting in any of the above listed things....
So truly, there are women like that all over the world but maybe you have not found one, I have found one and I am blessed....

Stephenomozzy:


Are you married?

Did you read my explanation on each point? Trust me Bro, I have found one and she's proven to be a gem too.

But she's not perfect.. Neither is your woman.
Pessimism is unfair to one's self, but optimism must be realistic.

People only show you the part of themselves they want you to see. Pressure can push people to let out some of their demons. So don't call someone a saint when they've not been tried by life itself

Ifeoluwav: